Re-living YRHPK journey // Episodic Discussion Thread 2 - Page 62

Originally posted by: suryavni

Phone Wala gps nahi manju...

Dimaag Wala , intuition Wala gps...

Bus top se leke paragliding ground Tak she was stalking him🤣

ROFL. gotcha.

Yeah she probably turned it off when she was mad at him

paragliding time pe gps was still new, so was in full form 🤣

Okay guys, going to bed early...good night 🤗

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Okay guys, going to bed early...good night 🤗

good night sumi 🤗

Originally posted by: suryavni

I totally don't understand the whole GPS thingy...

Seriously she manages to home into Abir in matter of minutes and where was this ability when the Karan fiasco happened..

Yup the epic 1% chance theory won many a hearts...

Paragliding was their second outdoor shoot I think..

Family good

Mom thode khadoos but giving an impression of being straight forward..

Bhai ..bhi ...good..😆

Toh from BM point of view Mishti is going to get a good life..

But ignoring or giving an impression of understanding Kuhu but not really much concerned about her was bad on her part.

And they haven't even asked Mishti if she wants to get married..

And who the hell marries off their girls at 21 yrs.. studies continue Karthe ..abroad jaate..kuch bhi...bachon ki Shaadi..

The first hug...

Rhea looked like a kid ..😆

Chota packet..!!

And about the novel anology..a slight disagreement..

Of course we don't know what comes in the next page of the novel we have selected to read..

But selection of the genre should be in our hands..

Horror ya feel good books😆

Abir manofying mishty to give Kunal a chance with Meenu as Kaajal OD Dragon saas is definitely horror..!!

Bold: 🤣 So true! Selection of the novel should be in our hands! But Mishti never got that option to select her story or her groom. Or the Horror novel ka Dragon saas (she ended up with her anyway😆)

Age 21 was too young for marriage even in our times. But this PH is quite backward in their mentality and in conventional Marwari or Gujarati families I guess they still get their daughters married off very early, sons too....Even Kunal, which boy gets married at 23-24 nowadays?

Originally posted by: pallavi25

Bold: 🤣 So true! Selection of the novel should be in our hands! But Mishti never got that option to select her story or her groom. Or the Horror novel ka Dragon saas (she ended up with her anyway😆)

Age 21 was too young for marriage even in our times. But this PH is quite backward in their mentality and in conventional Marwari or Gujarati families I guess they still get their daughters married off very early, sons too....Even Kunal, which boy gets married at 23-24 nowadays?

So true. But on a slightly different note, I have seen quite a few Americans get married in early twenties too. 2 of my labmates got married during and just after grad school, who were not older than 25 😲 they gave us major FOMO 😆

Originally posted by: m4manju

So true. But on a slightly different note, I have seen quite a few Americans get married in early twenties too. 2 of my labmates got married during and just after grad school, who were not older than 25 😲 they gave us major FOMO 😆

25 is okay, in our times it was 23, at least my mom thought 23 is the best age to get girls married 😆

But 21, 18, 19, 20 all too young. Post graduation bhi nahin hota phir!

Some American girls have no ambition and marry their high school boyfriend at 19 after graduating high school. Those marriages don’t end up well I’ve seen

Originally posted by: m4manju

Bold - You are welcome to post long replies Uru ji, we won't mind 😎 keep them coming ⭐️ I am running for my lab but thought to reply before I go. 😃

@mishbir breakup - will get back on this later.

edit - here's my 2 cents about mishbir breakup. I am with you in saying that mishti found a savior in abir (without actually looking for one). I also agree that she had her share of maniplutaion by meenu and this time was for abir. But during kuku haldi track, they hadn't promiced a lifetime to each other right? It was still the phase of unsaid feelings, though both knew it. But when abir broke up with her this time, he broke that promice of the lifetime that they had made, he also invoked her worst fears of being abandoned and he also broke his promice to BP that even if he has to chose between kunal and her, he will find a way. But that didn't happen. And i dont blame abir here, i blame the writing.

But yeah, if it was an EK serial mish would not have taken abir back for another 4-5 years

glad they worked this out sooner though. 😛

Hey manju ji 😃🤗😆 thank you for the warm welcome yaara 😆 happy to relive the old memories again with u guys ..I might get a new perspective to AM story with all the discussions ☺️

Underline - I actually agree with your post that during haldi time their love wasn't that intense hence abir's mistake seems to be bigger one than mishti's if we see in that perspective ....also I expected more from abir when it comes to dealing with meenu's manipulation 😆😆 but meenu targeted his weak point - nanko ...and abir just couldn't find a way out and went into shades zone 🤔😆 that too for an indefinite period if mishti hadn't pushed him to extremes m not sure how much time he would have taken to come out of that zone...even mish was in a depressed state in london ...numb and direction less but she was lucky she found a confidant in nannu and whatever it might be , she figured a way back to abir's life😳

however I feel there were no unsaid feelings because their love confession had already happened by then ( the day when kuku's rishta got fixed , abir proposed mishti and she reciprocated infact mishti even planned a filmy bus proposal for abir later on ) so haan there were said feelings at that time too ..and I can also say that the love confession that day was itself a promise for a lifetime..I see it that way ...😳...

Also too early to discuss this but haan what I really admired in both the incidents ( haldi and break up) is that none of them had any bitter feelings for each other or showed unnecessary tashan or ego for leaving each other ..it was actually surprising and pleasant though the *understanding* phase was lost post marriage and AM had a emotionally toxic married phase to be honest ...otherwise yes I also blame the writing especially the way they ended the post leap break up track ..itna sab kiya only to let nannu get a clean chit in the end ...🤔😆

Sorry for another long essay 🤣 I am sure you won't mind ...

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Aww Uru thank you so much for joining in and sharing your thoughts🤗I always love reading your analysis 😃

I had no idea about mishbir's story when I started watching the nishmish track that's why I was confused. But as I backtracked and watched the show from episode 1, especially the tracks/episodes you described, I started to understand mishbir and the emotions behind their decisions. It completely made sense why mishti regarded abir so highly.

I loved how you paralleled this scenario with mishti being manipulated by meenu during kuku's haldi track 👏

Yeah I completely agree that mishbir do sometimes tend to take decisions on their own without consulting the other..but that's also an issue with most ITV couples so I'm okay with it I guess 😆

If the drink-spiking drama hadn't happened, we wouldn't have had Abir sunaoing nanko and nanko's change of heart. Kunal probably would have continued to hate mishti. But CVs dragged the MU a bit too much and ruined the whole thing

Finally, I still wonder if IRL any of us were in mishti's shoes (I know people like abir don't exist in real life), would we agree to put up with a MIL like meenu so that we get a life partner like abir?

ps: sorry I wrote a mini essay in response too 😆

Thanks for the warm welcome sumaiya 🤗🤗...the phase that you guys are discussing is really a pleasant one and I I couldn't hold myself...I will definitely join u guys...😃

Haha I know 🤣.woh IT couples ka basic problem hai miscommunication or no communication but AM were shown to be almost perfect in phase 1 isliye disappointment hoti hai that they slipped into ITV tactics later on 🤣 end mein toh unrecognizable ho Gaye 😆

Underline - 100% agreed ....actually nanko ko poetic justice hi mila tha for all the times he had sunofied mishti and judging her on the basis of naman 😆 also he got a convincing redemption too which was really nice ...but later on woh aadat hai writers ki ...end mein track ka kachra karne ki as usual 😆

In real life , if I already know I will to deal with meenu and kuhu is my sasural 😆 I would rather agree to abir's suggestion to live separately right away without thinking too much here n there 😆 also being mishti , I would have tried my best to control my urge to help others and not fall for their meethi meethi batein ...🤣🤪

Arey no worries ...I love writing essays and reading them too 😛😆

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Starting the discussion today with episode 17 part 1:

Gosh abir is so ajeeb, he starts doing garba in a public place randomly 🤣

BM has lost her mind: she's okay with the rishta even after what meenakshi did. She's even comparing mish with akshara but she's not getting the point. why would any parent want to send their daughter to a house who humiliated their other daughter? poor mishti, no one even bother to ask her

Mishti's monologue hit me close to home

Haan BM was more excited for mishti's marriage than mishti herself 🤣 Just like she was excited for mishbir's baby than mishti herself 😆

Even when mish proposes the idea of courtship she was like iski kya zarurat hai 😆 You know she wasn't that fond of abir...she actually liked kunal a lot back then...😆

Originally posted by: pallavi25

BM was just desperate to transfer her responsibility towards Mishti onto her husband. She hought once Mish was married, Naman cannot hurt her. But why did BM think Meenu won’t find out about Naman, that Mishti was actually Aggarwal and her dad was a criminal?

BM tried to hide Mishti’s family background in her desperation to get Mish married off to Kunal

Haan this was something I didn't understand about BM ...mishti wasn't at fault with whatever naman did so why the hiding at first place.......and rajvanshs are hypocrite themselves...they expect mahs to be 100% transparent about the girls but were totally silent on their so called raaz 😆