Re-living YRHPK journey // Episodic Discussion Thread 2 - Page 57

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Oh gosh I really hope there isn't any season 2..I'm scared of what horrible tracks they'll show in that

remember, we are going to be assistants to creatives this time so we wont let that happen 😛

Originally posted by: m4manju

yeah i didn't notice his torn(?) sleeve until someone pointed it on Twitter. is that the style or what? 😲

idek but it looks absolutely ridiculous 😲

Originally posted by: m4manju

remember, we are going to be assistants to creatives this time so we wont let that happen 😛

oh yeah 🤣

Originally posted by: m4manju

yeah i didn't notice his torn(?) sleeve until someone pointed it on Twitter. is that the style or what? 😲

I just saw the BTS of his new shoot so I'm guessing this outfit might be for that shoot?

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

I completely agree with you. Abir made no effort to reach out to mishti even after brutally breaking her heart. I was so pissed off at him during that track and because it was my first time watching this episode, I didn't even understand why mishti wants him back in her life so desperately

Mishti forgave abir too quickly despite everything and during the magazine track was forced to be complete doormat 😡

Sorry was going through the thread to see what sort of discussions were going here 😆 And couldn't hold myself after reading few comments...I hope I can participate a little here 😛😊

Bold - that is because you haven't seen the whole journey from kuku haldi track to the break up day , the phase which is real base of mishbir love story ..and that's why its very difficult to understand the situation of AM post leap...

Mishti is someone who has high regards for abir for understanding her stand not once but twice that too without her having to make efforts to explain the situation to him ....there is practically no one in her life before who could do that to her and thats why she had that special corner for him ab isko desperation keh lo ya phir kuch aur , one such incident was when abir brings spectacles for her and second one was when her whole family was against her during kuku haldi and it was abir who saw through her facade and and not only he didn't attend her brother's wedding to bring her back from the airport , he did understand the manipulation she went through because of his mother , he confessed his feelings for her and sorted the matter for BP and gave a befitting reply to meenu ....for her that was an ultimate thing he did that too without having any kind of expectations from him at that time...in for life also I guess it's a common thing we start developing high regards for someone who unexpectedly becomes our saviour....thats also one of the reasons mishti wanted to help abir in finding his baba .

When this whole baba thing happened...and mishti was going to London, before boarding her flight she met meenu and the conversation gave a clear idea that she somewhere sensed that meenu has manipulated abir to go for break up , she always knew that was not abir's own words or decisions and he was mentally forced to do this there is something more to the whole story she always knew but instead of concentrating on the real reason for break up , her plan was to bring abir on terms first and make him confess the truth on his own , and for that she did what she felt ( the jealousy attack ) which according to me was morally wrong but then I wouldn't expect anything more sensible from MishNish jodi 😆 both of them are over thinkers and not long term thinkers I say and that's why the plan badly backfired 😆...but the plan still worked cuz in the end abir was ready to take matters on hand and reveal the birth truth to kunal after which he would sort out things with mishti and give another chance to that broken relationship, had that drink fiasco not happened...AM would have sorted it out all themselves 😆 Khair drama khatam ho jaata usse lekin 😆

Anyway my main point, during haldi track..mish was manipulated by meenu and she left the hope of their relationship, abir understood it all and tied up loose ends for them, I felt during break up time ...it was abir's chance to get manipulated by meenu and tables turned..it was mishti who understood abir and tied up loose ends for him 😳

Though the whole phase couldn't teach them that it wasn't right to take the entire decision of a love relationship single handedly without sharing real reasons with your partner 😆 that was the biggest flaw of the whole AM story ...😆...both try to be leaders and then expect the other one to follow without making then know the whole truth 😆 they hardly take joint decisions

Anyways I hope Maine zyada lamba essay nahi likha 😛 I m so missing having discussions on AM and the show itne din se nahi likha na toh aaj zyada hi likh diya 🤣

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Sorry was going through the thread to see what sort of discussions were going here 😆 And couldn't hold myself after reading few comments...I hope I can participate a little here 😛😊

Bold - that is because you haven't seen the whole journey from kuku haldi track to the break up day , the phase which is real base of mishbir love story ..and that's why its very difficult to understand the situation of AM post leap...

Mishti is someone who has high regards for abir for understanding her stand not once but twice that too without her having to make efforts to explain the situation to him ....there is practically no one in her life before who could do that to her and thats why she had that special corner for him ab isko desperation keh lo ya phir kuch aur , one such incident was when abir brings spectacles for her and second one was when her whole family was against her during kuku haldi and it was abir who saw through her facade and and not only he didn't attend her brother's wedding to bring her back from the airport , he did understand the manipulation she went through because of his mother , he confessed his feelings for her and sorted the matter for BP and gave a befitting reply to meenu ....for her that was an ultimate thing he did that too without having any kind of expectations from him at that time...in for life also I guess it's a common thing we start developing high regards for someone who unexpectedly becomes our saviour....thats also one of the reasons mishti wanted to help abir in finding his baba .

When this whole baba thing happened...and mishti was going to London, before boarding her flight she met meenu and the conversation gave a clear idea that she somewhere sensed that meenu has manipulated abir to go for break up , she always knew that was not abir's own words or decisions and he was mentally forced to do this there is something more to the whole story she always knew but instead of concentrating on the real reason for break up , her plan was to bring abir on terms first and make him confess the truth on his own , and for that she did what she felt ( the jealousy attack ) which according to me was morally wrong but then I wouldn't expect anything more sensible from MishNish jodi 😆 both of them are over thinkers and not long term thinkers I say and that's why the plan badly backfired 😆...but the plan still worked cuz in the end abir was ready to take matters on hand and reveal the birth truth to kunal after which he would sort out things with mishti and give another chance to that broken relationship, had that drink fiasco not happened...AM would have sorted it out all themselves 😆 Khair drama khatam ho jaata usse lekin 😆

Anyway my main point, during haldi track..mish was manipulated by meenu and she left the hope of their relationship, abir understood it all and tied up loose ends for them, I felt during break up time ...it was abir's chance to get manipulated by meenu and tables turned..it was mishti who understood abir and tied up loose ends for him 😳

Though the whole phase couldn't teach them that it wasn't right to take the entire decision of a love relationship single handedly without sharing real reasons with your partner 😆 that was the biggest flaw of the whole AM story ...😆...both try to be leaders and then expect the other one to follow without making then know the whole truth 😆 they hardly take joint decisions

Anyways I hope Maine zyada lamba essay nahi likha 😛 I m so missing having discussions on AM and the show itne din se nahi likha na toh aaj zyada hi likh diya 🤣

Bold - You are welcome to post long replies Uru ji, we won't mind 😎 keep them coming ⭐️ I am running for my lab but thought to reply before I go. 😃

@mishbir breakup - will get back on this later.

edit - here's my 2 cents about mishbir breakup. I am with you in saying that mishti found a savior in abir (without actually looking for one). I also agree that she had her share of maniplutaion by meenu and this time was for abir. But during kuku haldi track, they hadn't promiced a lifetime to each other right? It was still the phase of unsaid feelings, though both knew it. But when abir broke up with her this time, he broke that promice of the lifetime that they had made, he also invoked her worst fears of being abandoned and he also broke his promice to BP that even if he has to chose between kunal and her, he will find a way. But that didn't happen. And i dont blame abir here, i blame the writing.

But yeah, if it was an EK serial mish would not have taken abir back for another 4-5 years

glad they worked this out sooner though. 😛

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Sorry was going through the thread to see what sort of discussions were going here 😆 And couldn't hold myself after reading few comments...I hope I can participate a little here 😛😊

Bold - that is because you haven't seen the whole journey from kuku haldi track to the break up day , the phase which is real base of mishbir love story ..and that's why its very difficult to understand the situation of AM post leap...

Mishti is someone who has high regards for abir for understanding her stand not once but twice that too without her having to make efforts to explain the situation to him ....there is practically no one in her life before who could do that to her and thats why she had that special corner for him ab isko desperation keh lo ya phir kuch aur , one such incident was when abir brings spectacles for her and second one was when her whole family was against her during kuku haldi and it was abir who saw through her facade and and not only he didn't attend her brother's wedding to bring her back from the airport , he did understand the manipulation she went through because of his mother , he confessed his feelings for her and sorted the matter for BP and gave a befitting reply to meenu ....for her that was an ultimate thing he did that too without having any kind of expectations from him at that time...in for life also I guess it's a common thing we start developing high regards for someone who unexpectedly becomes our saviour....thats also one of the reasons mishti wanted to help abir in finding his baba .

When this whole baba thing happened...and mishti was going to London, before boarding her flight she met meenu and the conversation gave a clear idea that she somewhere sensed that meenu has manipulated abir to go for break up , she always knew that was not abir's own words or decisions and he was mentally forced to do this there is something more to the whole story she always knew but instead of concentrating on the real reason for break up , her plan was to bring abir on terms first and make him confess the truth on his own , and for that she did what she felt ( the jealousy attack ) which according to me was morally wrong but then I wouldn't expect anything more sensible from MishNish jodi 😆 both of them are over thinkers and not long term thinkers I say and that's why the plan badly backfired 😆...but the plan still worked cuz in the end abir was ready to take matters on hand and reveal the birth truth to kunal after which he would sort out things with mishti and give another chance to that broken relationship, had that drink fiasco not happened...AM would have sorted it out all themselves 😆 Khair drama khatam ho jaata usse lekin 😆

Anyway my main point, during haldi track..mish was manipulated by meenu and she left the hope of their relationship, abir understood it all and tied up loose ends for them, I felt during break up time ...it was abir's chance to get manipulated by meenu and tables turned..it was mishti who understood abir and tied up loose ends for him 😳

Though the whole phase couldn't teach them that it wasn't right to take the entire decision of a love relationship single handedly without sharing real reasons with your partner 😆 that was the biggest flaw of the whole AM story ...😆...both try to be leaders and then expect the other one to follow without making then know the whole truth 😆 they hardly take joint decisions

Anyways I hope Maine zyada lamba essay nahi likha 😛 I m so missing having discussions on AM and the show itne din se nahi likha na toh aaj zyada hi likh diya 🤣

Aww Uru thank you so much for joining in and sharing your thoughts🤗I always love reading your analysis 😃

I had no idea about mishbir's story when I started watching the nishmish track that's why I was confused. But as I backtracked and watched the show from episode 1, especially the tracks/episodes you described, I started to understand mishbir and the emotions behind their decisions. It completely made sense why mishti regarded abir so highly.

I loved how you paralleled this scenario with mishti being manipulated by meenu during kuku's haldi track 👏

Yeah I completely agree that mishbir do sometimes tend to take decisions on their own without consulting the other..but that's also an issue with most ITV couples so I'm okay with it I guess 😆

If the drink-spiking drama hadn't happened, we wouldn't have had Abir sunaoing nanko and nanko's change of heart. Kunal probably would have continued to hate mishti. But CVs dragged the MU a bit too much and ruined the whole thing

Finally, I still wonder if IRL any of us were in mishti's shoes (I know people like abir don't exist in real life), would we agree to put up with a MIL like meenu so that we get a life partner like abir?

ps: sorry I wrote a mini essay in response too 😆

Who all are up for epi 17 tonight? 🤓 its paragliding today it seems 😎

Originally posted by: Sumaiya27

Mishti needs to get hostar subscription like Abir to watch these episodes and find the truth 🤣

🤣 True, then Mishti wouldn’t get confused all the time between Abir and Kunal who rescued her 😆

Starting the discussion today with episode 17 part 1:

Gosh abir is so ajeeb, he starts doing garba in a public place randomly 🤣

BM has lost her mind: she's okay with the rishta even after what meenakshi did. She's even comparing mish with akshara but she's not getting the point. why would any parent want to send their daughter to a house who humiliated their other daughter? poor mishti, no one even bother to ask her

Mishti's monologue hit me close to home