Why just they didn't tell her.. - Page 2

Originally posted by: Susan.Dsouza

they are not telling because no one want to hurt anupama and all thinking sab teek ho jayege but no one have idea vanraj is so serious about kavya

This.

Also as much as i hate to say in the real world, most ppl would think he is having a mid-life crisis hence is looking elsewhere or thinking some woman has taken him away and he helplessly went BUT in this scenerio Vanraj is the most at fault as he has had this relationship for a long time, and is serious... never wants to end it.

And these ppl here are thinking Oh well Kavya lured him and did everything, and throw most blame on her, thats exactly what Nandini and Toshu have done (thinking she must of done everything)... Sanjay hasnt much cos he sees Vanraj freely pursue this affair but he still is keeping it as secret thinking all can be well.

These ppl need to realise the extent of it, and Kavya isnt just to blame.... I know its natural to blame the mistress/woman but here Kavya isn't evil woman or a total full on vamp, which is why i try to see her pov too (and i dont hate her, yes she is at fault) because Vanraj is most at fault here not some helpless men who got lured in by her.

I hope Kavya gets to reveal everything so all the family see that Vanraj is held accountable and blamed too

because they dont want to "break her heart".. dude.. her hearts gonna break 10x more when she learns this has been happening and no one told her about it and it kept happening..

the only person who would have said something is her bestie if she learnt. which is why they are smartly avoiding her knowing anything

Her bestie did mention it, that she thinks something is going on and to keep an eye for it but Anupamaa got angry on her bestie for thinking like that, and dismissed it and wouldnt even let it doubt her.

i said it before as Anupamaa has said it few times, she trusts and has faith in Vanraj equal to Lord Krishna even above that... which is why a doubt hasn't crept in or shaken her ( and not only that Vanraj has emotionally and mentally abuses her into thinking he is right and all are wrong, even her and her feelings)

Originally posted by: Lennie

This.

Also as much as i hate to say in the real world, most ppl would think he is having a mid-life crisis hence is looking elsewhere or thinking some woman has taken him away and he helplessly went BUT in this scenerio Vanraj is the most at fault as he has had this relationship for a long time, and is serious... never wants to end it.

And these ppl here are thinking Oh well Kavya lured him and did everything, and throw most blame on her, thats exactly what Nandini and Toshu have done (thinking she must of done everything)... Sanjay hasnt much cos he sees Vanraj freely pursue this affair but he still is keeping it as secret thinking all can be well.

These ppl need to realise the extent of it, and Kavya isnt just to blame.... I know its natural to blame the mistress/woman but here Kavya isn't evil woman or a total full on vamp, which is why i try to see her pov too (and i dont hate her, yes she is at fault) because Vanraj is most at fault here not some helpless men who got lured in by her.

I hope Kavya gets to reveal everything so all the family see that Vanraj is held accountable and blamed too

I also think kavya is not fully fault in this,vanraj is equally responsible for it..

I guess vanraj more have fault here because kavya is atleast ready to accept the affair ..n she wants him to get married.but vanraj wants to hide it..

It's look like he want both gharwali n baharwali.

Originally posted by: xxMATSxx

because they dont want to "break her heart".. dude.. her hearts gonna break 10x more when she learns this has been happening and no one told her about it and it kept happening..

the only person who would have said something is her bestie if she learnt. which is why they are smartly avoiding her knowing anything

That's right.when she will come to know all these people hide the truth from her that will break her heart more

Originally posted by: Lennie

Her bestie did mention it, that she thinks something is going on and to keep an eye for it but Anupamaa got angry on her bestie for thinking like that, and dismissed it and wouldnt even let it doubt her.

i said it before as Anupamaa has said it few times, she trusts and has faith in Vanraj equal to Lord Krishna even above that... which is why a doubt hasn't crept in or shaken her ( and not only that Vanraj has emotionally and mentally abuses her into thinking he is right and all are wrong, even her and her feelings)

Trusting you partner in marriage or relationship is necessary ,but the blind trust on person is not good.you need to think by your mind also.

I hope Anupama realise this

Devika, anupama friend already warn anupama that mujhe vanraj aur kavya ke beech dosti se jyaada lag raha hai matlab mujhe doubt hai ki kavya aur vanraj ke beech affair hai but anupama didn't not believe devika and get angry on her friend devika

Then Sanjay come to know and then nandini both want to tell truth but seeing anupama happy they don't have courage to tell to tell truth

Partishosh ko already uske father vanraj partishosh ko manipulate kar diya not to tell truth to anupama

Anirudh know truth but kavya request anirudh not to send video msg to anyone . Since anirudh loves kavya so much that he don't want to insult her in society so he send video about vanraj and kavya affair only to nandini

Now samar, pakhi sister in law mother in law father in law mama maid and anupama family don't know about affair about vanraj and kavya

Let's see who can tell tell truth but I want to see will samar can tell truth to anupama or not ?as he really can't stand injustice happening with anupama and more over he is one who is very close to her mother and love her mother very much

Originally posted by: surabhi01

Devika, anupama friend already warn anupama that mujhe vanraj aur kavya ke beech dosti se jyaada lag raha hai matlab mujhe doubt hai ki kavya aur vanraj ke beech affair hai but anupama didn't not believe devika and get angry on her friend devika

Then Sanjay come to know and then nandini both want to tell truth but seeing anupama happy they don't have courage to tell to tell truth

Partishosh ko already uske father vanraj partishosh ko manipulate kar diya not to tell truth to anupama

Anirudh know truth but kavya request anirudh not to send video msg to anyone . Since anirudh loves kavya so much that he don't want to insult her in society so he send video about vanraj and kavya affair only to nandini

Now samar, pakhi sister in law mother in law father in law mama maid and anupama family don't know about affair about vanraj and kavya

Let's see who can tell tell truth but I want to see will samar can tell truth to anupama or not ?as he really can't stand injustice happening with anupama and more over he is one who is very close to her mother and love her mother very much

I think ab jab koi usse sach batana nahi chah raha he .they have their reasons..

Toh muze lagta he Anupama ko hi sach pata chalana chahiye.khud se hi pata lagna chshoye

yes she have to face it by her blind trust she cant blame anyone only herself .