Feeling Bad For Vansh

Honestly I'm feeling bad the most for one child and it's Vansh, Krish and Kairav are loved, as far as Krishna or Chori is concerned she too is loved by Kaira at least... But Vansh??? I feel too bad for him, and I feel what a weak character is Gayu? I mean time and again she has witnessed everytime Samarths partiality towards Vansh still??? Why can't she pack the bags and leave? She has Singhanias saran and also Rama dadis home, why can't she stand up for her child... More than anyone else I feel Gayu and Samarth needs divorce because the way Samarth treat Vansh is totally unacceptable, when he himself had proposed Gayu for marriage while she was pregnant...

I really want Gayu to stand up and fight for Vansh,bevause it affects psychology of a child and pour kid is bearing this brunt since birth with no fault of him

Originally posted by: Peacelover15

Honestly I'm feeling bad the most for one child and it's Vansh, Krish and Kairav are loved, as far as Krishna or Chori is concerned she too is loved by Kaira at least... But Vansh??? I feel too bad for him, and I feel what a weak character is Gayu? I mean time and again she has witnessed everytime Samarths partiality towards Vansh still??? Why can't she pack the bags and leave? She has Singhanias saran and also Rama dadis home, why can't she stand up for her child... More than anyone else I feel Gayu and Samarth needs divorce because the way Samarth treat Vansh is totally unacceptable, when he himself had proposed Gayu for marriage while she was pregnant...

I really want Gayu to stand up and fight for Vansh,bevause it affects psychology of a child and pour kid is bearing this brunt since birth with no fault of him

So true !!!

Gayu should stand up and take both her kids and go away !!!

Its unacceptable the way samarth treats Vansh

It's not only samarth , entire Goenka family is ignorant towards vansh . During entry scene , how everybody went and met kairav .. loved him danced with him .

But when vansh entered , only gayu n samarth came to meet him , nobody from Goenka family bothered to come and say hello to him . Apparantly both the kids were away for same duration of time and both are meeting there younger siblings for the first time .

Isn't it gonna affect kairav - vansh equation ??

Regarding samarth , even if he think practically when there are two kids of same age at same house you need to treat them equally !! Both there kids are of similar age of kaira's kid .

Where kairav has a freedom to play with his sister ..

Samarth is not even allowing vansh to touch his brother .. instead ignoring him completely and expecting gayu also to do the same . Isn't he instigating hatred in his heart towards Vatsal ???

So isn't it harmful for vatsav as well??

Samarth himself has been at this place where he hated his brothers and tried to destroy them . He knows how it feels to be left out!! So is it means that he has not learner any lesson from his life!!🥱

Honestly they have completely butchered Samarths character and yes you are very right that whole family is ignorant towards Vansh, Vansh is of tender age I really hope it doesn't plant seeds of hatred for kairav or Vatsal in his mind and that's the reason, that Gayu should speak up take a stand and show Samarths that she is the protecting shield for her son... Honestly Gayu needs to threaten Samarths for divorce and take vansh and Vatsal with her

Samarth's character is no longer justified in his behaviour. Why on earth did he propose gayu when she was pregnant if he was going to treat gayu's child like crap and be so rude with gayu too? Did they ever even explain why he became like this with gayu and vansh post the leap when naira was considered dead?

There was no valid explanation except for the fact, vansh is not his blood and Gayu didn't want other baby as she already knew except Kartik, how everyone used to treat Vansh and specially Samarth...But in between they had redeemed Samarth but I guess that was facade of Samarth,which finally got revealed after birth of Vatsal.. Honestly Samarths isn't to be forgiven at all

Despite everything, Vansh is behaving like a sensible kid. Even today he tried to make Kairav understand. But I felt really sad when he said that KaIra used to call Kairav everyday but his father called him only once a week. Poor child is really yearning for a father's love. Samarth is behaving like an asshole of highest order. It's not like Gayu married him by hiding her pregnancy or anything. He was aware of everything and married her despite that. SO he has absolutely no right to behave like this. And what is wrong with Gayu. Instead of taking care of her elder child, she is busy being jealous of Naira and her baby. I mean can't she her own son's suffering. It's high time that she take a stand for son and herself.

Originally posted by: janecastle

Despite everything, Vansh is behaving like a sensible kid. Even today he tried to make Kairav understand. But I felt really sad when he said that KaIra used to call Kairav everyday but his father called him only once a week. Poor child is really yearning for a father's love. Samarth is behaving like an asshole of highest order. It's not like Gayu married him by hiding her pregnancy or anything. He was aware of everything and married her despite that. SO he has absolutely no right to behave like this. And what is wrong with Gayu. Instead of taking care of her elder child, she is busy being jealous of Naira and her baby. I mean can't she her own son's suffering. It's high time that she take a stand for son and herself.

It's weird that the couples who shouldn't be getting divorced over silly reasons seek divorce, yet the couples who have a genuine reason that they should be taking divorce are not. Gayu has become insecure due to how goenka's and samarth treat her and vansh. In actual she and her son have no standing in that house. Samarth is treating gayu and vansh the same way he felt he was treated by goenka's and so tried to get revenge against them. Gayu should seriously give samarth an ultimatum that if he cannot change his behaviour towards vansh then she will divorce him. Vansh will only receive the love and stability a child should get from singhania's only, even if he still is without a father. In a way gayu's life has been wasted marrying samarth and into that family. She didn't even want to marry him and only did because he asked her and promised to accept her child, but samarth has forgotten it all.

Originally posted by: sammy17

It's weird that the couples who shouldn't be getting divorced over silly reasons seek divorce, yet the couples who have a genuine reason that they should be taking divorce are not. Gayu has become insecure due to how goenka's and samarth treat her and vansh. In actual she and her son have no standing in that house. Samarth is treating gayu and vansh the same way he felt he was treated by goenka's and so tried to get revenge against them. Gayu should seriously give samarth an ultimatum that if he cannot change his behaviour towards vansh then she will divorce him. Vansh will only receive the love and stability a child should get from singhania's only, even if he still is without a father. In a way gayu's life has been wasted marrying samarth and into that family. She didn't even want to marry him and only did because he asked her and promised to accept her child, but samarth has forgotten it all.

Exactly. Problem between Naksh and Kirti can be solved by talking to each other and giving some time to understand each other's POV. But it is Samarth and Gayu who need to really work on their relationship, especially Samarth. He is behaving like a jerk. Gayu should take both Vansh and Vatsal and leave. That is the only way Samarth will get some sense. At least today Gyu voiced out her thoughts to Samarth. But he did not even let her finish. He seriously need to get some real shock to get his priorities right.

@bold- That is the saddest part. Samarth is behaving as if it was Gayu who wanted to get married to him when it was the other way around. Somebody should remind him that and ask him to stop being a jerk all the time.

It is a sad reality that Vansh will never get the love and acceptance that Kairav and Krish get in Goenka house. Nobody is even bothered about how he is treated by Samarth. Even today, Manish was only concerned about Kairav and Krish's problems. Can't he see the way Vansh is being treated in that house. Vansh's condition is almost similar to Krishna's condition. It is just that nobody scolds or hurts him openly. But they are hurting him more by ignoring him and his pain. Like Sammy said, Singhania house is the only place Vansh will get some love and stability.