Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 17 Sep 2020 - Page 37

Originally posted by: Su94

Just Mummy, daddy. No names as prefixes. But that doesn't make it dipherent dipherent.

She is just the birth mother.akhir rahegi toh maasi/chachibhi.Y complicate things for each other and the kid !!

Originally posted by: Dvanshi123

She is just the birth mother.akhir rahegi toh maasi/chachibhi.Y complicate things for each other and the kid !!

This rajvansh house and it’s twisted ideologies! What an unlucky kid the kid would grow up with a confused identity for sure!

Yuck! Yuck! None of these four deserve to have a kid. Dey r treating d kid like some toy. The most unlucky kid, I would say. Just passing d parcel dey r playing with d kid. I know when a kid is born a family plays a role in upbringing but it's parents place can't be taken by anyone. Dat place should not be shared by anyone. Bhai mazak bana diya hain pura pregnancy ka.

After d pregnancy what will kuhu do cry n long for d kid which is not her 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀🤷‍♀. Cv will show us how she is suffering. How she is a bechari 🤷‍♀🤷‍♀

Aur kitna mast tarika se kuhu ki selfishness ko meenu ka manipulation ka nam de diya 👏👏👏 bechari meenu toh ase hi badnaam hain. Kand toh baki sab karte hain #justiceformeenu

The whole mandir scene was so cringe worthy. Aur woh group hug was 🤮🤮🤮. Matlab is der something called privacy for a couple. Mishbir ki privacy ka toh sabne pura mazak bana ka rakha hain. Bacha hain unka lekhin sab apne apne matlab nikal rahe hain mishti ka bimari ka. Wah kya kehna cv ka issliye shayad show ka trp bhi increase nahi ho raha hain.

Originally posted by: Su94

They can and they will. That's not the issue.

But Kunal is suggesting that Abir can solve the problem of separating the kid from the birth mother by teaching the kid to call KuKu ma and pa.

Parents are MishBir na. Distinction should be there.

I call my chachi Anu mummy( her name is anuradha) And kaka — Ajay papa... till date.. in Some families these things is pretty common.. my chacha’s sons n dil call my mom-dad.. mota mummy n mota pappa...

So that’s okay if mishbir baby calls kuku ma n pa.. but custody should remain with mishbir n mishbir makes decisions about the baby... period

Originally posted by: Su94

They can and they will. That's not the issue.

But Kunal is suggesting that Abir can solve the problem of separating the kid from the birth mother by teaching the kid to call KuKu ma and pa.

Parents are MishBir na. Distinction should be there.

Dis sibling r crossing d limit. I don't know which siblings do dis kind of things. Not everything is suppose to be shared .

Yrphk taught us how a sibling should not be. It's just a toxic bond

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

I also think this will happen. (Though I don't want Kuhu to raise Mishbir kid)

I don't want any mishbir kid from her. Ho sakhe toh yeh surrogacy wala bhi rakh de.

Coz of the convoluted writing abir shared the baby making plans which was like counting your chickens before they hatch (pun intended lol) and after that everyone became all involved and with baited breathe. Seriously in real life people dont even tell anyone till its safe a few months have passed but here it was like a communal show hey we trying for a kid. If they had kept it a secret and the mish issue came out then they wouldnt have had this urgency to have this hypothetical baby which again i ask what is the hurry cant they take time. The damn baby fever got to meenu and she went all nuclear on everyone and now we have this convoluted surrogacy drama that is not gonna end well for everyone unless there is some plan brewing btwn the ppl with some brain cells left lol

Originally posted by: Appu1981

I call my chachi Anu mummy( her name is anuradha) And kaka — Ajay papa... till date.. in Some families these things is pretty common.. my chacha’s sons n dil call my mom-dad.. mota mummy n mota pappa...

So that’s okay if mishbir baby calls kuku ma n pa.. but custody should remain with mishbir n mishbir makes decisions about the baby... period

Ofcourse, I'm aware of that. In my dur ka family also I have a cousin who stays with his aunt and uncle and thinks of them as parents. But in the case of KuKu, Kuhu might claim the kid as her own. Distinction should be there. MishBir should have the final say for like how the kid should grow up, what to buy, which school, like you know-life decisions. Kunal and Kuhu can give advice. But it's possible that Kuhu might try to interfere and create problems.

I have a problem with this situation because of Kuhu being the birth mother, getting attached to the kid and taunting Mish about it. Ki maine janam diya tha varna tere zindagi aur naseeb mein nahin hota. Blah. She'll target Mishti especially because she has still not completely accepted Mish with her whole heart. Her hate(or whatever she has for Mishti) will rekindle And then the curse...

My primary concern is Mish, and by extension Abir too because Kuhu conveniently forgets her bro when she targets Mishti.

I'm sure that even if your chachi-chachu are your mummy papa, you guys don't face problems because of this? You keep it separate and so do your parents right.

Lots more love, lots more pampering, all that is fine. But if Kuhu doesn't learn to draw boundaries? If Mishti doesn't get to be the kid's mother in the true sense?

So, teaching the kid to call them ma and pa is something else only here. Whole pandora's box mein ek aur complication. If it were MishBir's kid only via adoption or when Mish's injuries heal, calling KuKu Kuhu ma and Kunal pa is okay.

Originally posted by: manny136

Coz of the convoluted writing abir shared the baby making plans which was like counting your chickens before they hatch (pun intended lol) and after that everyone became all involved and with baited breathe. Seriously in real life people dont even tell anyone till its safe a few months have passed but here it was like a communal show hey we trying for a kid. If they had kept it a secret and the mish issue came out then they wouldnt have had this urgency to have this hypothetical baby which again i ask what is the hurry cant they take time. The damn baby fever got to meenu and she went all nuclear on everyone and now we have this convoluted surrogacy drama that is not gonna end well for everyone unless there is some plan brewing btwn the ppl with some brain cells left lol

Hoping for the best.

Also preparing for worse too!

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

Bold-Let's get ready to watch her extra talented self rule the screens from now on

The only saving grace of this track is that Mishbir are in fact conversing with each other and discussing matters to some extent. Touchwood!