Originally posted by: HahaHeheHuhu9
And Saudamini's presence is in many ways perhaps a sad necessity of ITV (though it's unwanted)!!! Occupational hazard if you may want to look at it that way! Drama, plotting, saazish, high voltage scenes - these things typically bring TRP. I hope they balance the Mini angle, along with showing logically how Rudhita are made for each other. I would have rather wished for Mini to be grey, and not totally negative like what's being portrayed now - they could have kept her grey till the leap & maybe turned her fully negative after the leap. But well, it's ITV, and this is to be expected!
She does get trapped in her own chaalein, and both Binoy and her end up bringing Rudhita together unwittingly through their plans! I am up for seeing how they'll show the transition of him growing out of his love for her, and beginning to like & then love Bondita after she grows up! Mini's presence in their lives is actually interesting - up to the makers to creatively portray what will bind Rudhita together and how he'll get over Mini slowly. If shown properly, it will make for good drama & entertainment and even some good food for thought!
Honestly, childhood friends / childhood lovers get married when they grow up so commonly in Bengal - it happens frequently, like all the time as far as I know. Others' info base and experiences may be different.
It must have been heartbreaking for her - they were about to get married, and suddenly her world turns upside down. What she did wrong was to start planning and plotting after getting to know that Bondita is a child. She should not have started scheming. Should have directly confronted and asked Anirudh to make a final decision about their relationship.
Be open and clear in communication and in moving on/not. But real life is grey and simply moving on overnight is easier said than done for either of them. Anirudh also needs to be absolutely clear about what he wants in life - or at least what he has to do in life henceforth, now that he has already married Bondita & promised to stand by her even in andhakaar. But for some reason, he's still unable to let go of Mini, and wants to be at least friends with her (even if it's platonic) just because he's not able to mentally come to terms with ending it with her forever. Again denial. But it's only natural after all. Even when she asks him directly "meri kya jagah hai tumhari life mei", he isn't able to say it straight to her that they can never be together anymore.
She, living opposite his haveli doesn't help either. Kaka should have called Ani, Binoy, Bhowmik babu, Mini, and should have formally ended Ani-Mini when he decided to accept Bondita as RC haveli ki bahu. Kaka should counsel and support Ani personally, especially when he's now stuck between friend (Mini) and responsibility (Bondita) ! He will take time to realize that he needs to fully & finally end the relationship with Mini - but that realization needs a certain emotional state to be reached, the point when he gets detached from Mini once and for all. That will take time - and will need to happen naturally. All indications are that he will realize - he's slowly showing some signs already.
Rudhita's marriage was the final truth at the end of the day at that time - sadly for her, Mini should have realised that fact however difficult and earth-shattering it might have been! She's never had to live without getting what she wanted in life till now - and so she's in denial of the truth that she cannot get him now. She just thinks she can marry him by sending Bondita to her mother. Unfortunately, that cannot happen, and ulta her dad is helping her in scheming instead of counselling her and supporting her in moving on in life.
Kya karen Mini, life happens; life can be apparently unfair even for the princess-like daughter of the rich businessman Bhowmik babu. Where is Dida, and why is she not guiding and showing Mini the right path forward in life? They really need to show all these various characters, but it's probably due to Covid that they are unable to. True, health and safety come first!
Anyway, given the reality of all these factors, and his own guilt and regret for Mini's ill health, etc., how will Anirudh finally realize that his asli pyaar is Bondita (after the leap)? Upto the makers to execute this properly!
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Mental strength and will power plays major role in life. Both minirudh dont have enuf strength to accept the current circumstance wholeheartedly and move on. At the end Anirudh is human being he is flawed..imperfect thats the journey of barrister babu
Listening from - "ye meri patni h " and "us master ki himmat kaise hui bondita tumko chhoone ki" from Anirudh mouth was like bliss.I was equal parts surprised and pleased to listen such dialogues from Anirudh. Came unexpectedly!
A beautiful crafted story has been brought to life via a confident directorial hand and outstanding performance
I have no complaints about sets ,background and dialogues except imbalanced and poorly written AniMini scenes.
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