Originally posted by: Stardust91
LOL Abir tried to communicate and what happened; Mish left him..imagine how he will feel when he learns that Mish just LEFT.
But oh wait...sorry...i forgot he used the word compromise, he thought about adoption for her happiness...silly me; what am I saying. He should never have tried to share his emotions, fears, sadness. FORGET that he was ASKED. Silly me..
Does he deserve to be abandoned?? Soch lo...
It's a fact and a reality, that in life and relationships we all have to make adjustments and compromises, we don't always get what we desire simple as that, we need to learn to put up and move on , prioritise what's more important for us, someone's support or sulking alone ?
What abir's said wasn't wrong at all , including the word compromise, it's not a negative word, he meant that we need to put up and learn to move on , as he said he is too overwhelmed to express his emotions so obviously mishti shouldn't be stressing on his single word and reach to conclusions
Having said that , mishti is also under stress and quite filled with negativity invoked by meenu, to the extent that she couldn't notice the positive intent behind abir's words itself indicates how depressed and negative she is feeling at the moment, to reassure herself she asked bade papa ke main sahi kar rahi hun na , arey how will bade papa tell anything without knowing what you are planning to do , guess she is too stressed to process anything straight
But the fact still remains that abir expressing his feelings or using the compromise is not wrong, he doesn't know what happened between mishti and his mom, he even asked her did my mom say anything to you , you sound off but mishti choose not to reply , so he is not a antaryaami to recognise that what will trigger mishti's negative feelings
I don't think anyone is at fault here , when you don't have a practice to communicate with your partner , this was bound to happen someday
Edited by Onyourface - 5 years ago