Yeh Rishtey Hai Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 03 Sep 2020 - Page 35

Originally posted by: Su94

Wow, what a cricket match. Meenu ke atrocious Sixes brought the family closer. Mended the breach between Kunal and Parul, Jasmeet and Varsha are being (temporarily, especially Jazz) sympathetic towards Mishti's plight, brought out Mishti's dhals-BP and Abir, lot of things. But like a lot of people are suspecting, it feels as if Meenu ne parivaar ko inadvertently nahi jithaya, balki match fixing kar ke aayi hai. Yahan pe already IPL shuru ho gaya or should I say BPL.

Iska nathija jald pata lagega. Meenu's scariest dialogue of the day is sabr karo, dhairya rakho. Bhaisaaab, nahi ho ra. Ab kya, they're gonna justify surrogacy using Kuhu but with 'asli waaris' for family unity?

Felt very bad for Abir when even Bade Papa refused to take him(for understandable reasons). He looked so lost for a moment. He must have felt like this a lot of times when he didn't even have a second house(sasural) and no wonder he became a banjara. Still, I felt like BP was being partly partial to Mishti inspite of promising Abir that he has found a father in him during the bidaai. Don't exactly blame BP for thinking about Mish but felt terrible for Abir.

Lots and lots of love for Parul and her dhruv tara. I hope aisa hi saath denge Abir ka. Hamesha.

Jasmeet will fall prey to Meenu's next chaal if indeed surrogacy is BB's idea and nag Varsha. Probably. Let's see.

Kanhaji hum sabko dhairya de aur CVs hume disappoint na kare. Bas.

Bold-Kis baat le liye dhairya rakhe? Mishti ko ghar se bahar nikal ne ke liye, Abir ki dusri shaadi ke liye?

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

Underlined-BPL? Baby Premier League?

Bold-Kis baat le liye dhairya rakhe? Mishti ko ghar se bahar nikal ne ke liye, Abir ki dusri shaadi ke liye?

Oh sorry, I meant BCL. Box cricket league, the ones ITV stars play. That's also rigged only I guess.

I feel they will build up the drama to MishBir separation or MishBir house. They'll justify that there was no other way. I know it's gonna involve a huge damage to Mishti's self respect, a lot of psychological torture to every character. End mein Abir leaving the house inspite of only one monster who lives in it(feel like Abir should have repeated his insult to BB but he didn't after he apologised in the baba track) would be the right thing to do. Or Mishti realises her self worth and makes the toughest decision of her life. Meenu, on one hand, makes wrong tough decisions or with the wrong intent(like when she accepted Parul and Kunal) and Mish, on the other hand, will be shown to make the right tough decisions.

Like, hopefully outcome positive ho is all I can wish for. Not justifying the insults or anything, only concentrating on the end results or moral of the story.

The absolutely unacceptable / negative outcomes for me would be surrogacy or remarriage.

Originally posted by: Su94

Oh sorry, I meant BCL. Box cricket league, the ones ITV stars play. That's also rigged only I guess.

I feel they will build up the drama to MishBir separation or MishBir house. They'll justify that there was no other way. I know it's gonna involve a huge damage to Mishti's self respect, a lot of psychological torture to every character. End mein Abir leaving the house inspite of only one monster who lives in it(feel like Abir should have repeated his insult to BB but he didn't after he apologised in the baba track) would be the right thing to do. Or Mishti realises her self worth and makes the toughest decision of her life. Meenu, on one hand, makes wrong tough decisions or with the wrong intent(like when she accepted Parul and Kunal) and Mish, on the other hand, will be shown to make the right tough decisions.

Like, hopefully outcome positive ho is all I can wish for. Not justifying the insults or anything, only concentrating on the end results or moral of the story.

The absolutely unacceptable / negative outcomes for me would be surrogacy or remarriage.

Italics-That would be the Best thing

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

No one is promoting Mishti's behaviour at all.

I think it's our expectations of angry-chorni Mishti that the writers have built up for us from the start of the show, that make it so hard for us to accept this behaviour from her, because ultimately we as fans always root for the underdog. We want Mishti to be strong, to be firey, to stand up tall, but honestly how much more can she take? The writers have thrown pretty much every worse scenario in her face and yet she is still standing (barely but yes she is still alive). I don't think there would be anyone in real world as resilient as Mishti after everything she has endured - ofcourse with the help and support of Abir and BP but still, ultimately it is MISHTI who chooses to fight through them. But if life doesn't allow her to catch a single happy break, how do you expect her to be the same angry chorni? everyone has a breaking point, and the makers have dragged Mishti right to the bottom.

I'm not saying what she is doing is right. Absolutely not, her self-respect is way more important than she thinks of herself. All I'm saying is many of us are able to understand her plight because numerous girls, women experience the same horrific feelings.

Like I mentioned in one of my earlier posts today: this feeling/insecurity (whatever you want to call it) that Mishti has to constantly measure her self-worth against everyone else's happiness is something she has grown up with. Even Mishti 1.0 angry chorni always felt guilty or backed down from her fiery avatar whenever BP's reputation was at stake, or Kuku's happiness was at stake and ofcourse anything for Abir. That's who she is, who she has been and maybe who she will always be.

No matter how much Abir reassures her how much he loves her, how strong she is, what a fighter she is etc etc. Ultimately it is Mishti herself who personally endures every emotion and trauma, and yet she manages to pick herself up often just for Abir. She still keeps on going FOR ABIR and his happiness which is linked to her happiness. So although the end result may be her happiness and well-being, the driving force for her to fight through is for Abir, not necessarily for herself, not for her own self-respect and not for her happiness because she has never been that kind of person. Now whether that is truly healthy or the right way to live, is another topic for another day.

She has never fully understood nor fully realised the value of herself, Abir has definitely helped her start that engine of being proud of who she is, but that natural feeling of I'm not worthy of this love, the happiness, this affection etc will not away -- until and unless Mishti herself consciously chooses not to fall in her own trap of emotions.

It's Mishti's flaw, it's her personality. It makes her realistic. Perhaps it takes a small piece from her as a role model, but that doesn't mean she is the worst FL. There are still way way way more positive and inspiring qualities that Mishti has, which we can learn from and the flaws she has is also important for us to learn that we should remember to respect ourselves first, but yes there is a limit to that as well. It's a very fine line.

What insecurity does she have now??? Home breaker??? Today d whole family was by her side. No body encouraged what BB said today but still she went n said sorry to her. 😑😑

Nobody would huv blamed her today if she would walked out of house. Instead she was standing n listening to what all was said to her

Why would she need BP, abir to stand up for her.

Rest I huv made a post in MF I wrote it der

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/154064064

Originally posted by: Dotslover22

After hearing Meenu's plan running away to the other side of the world is the logical reaction

I hope aaj ke Abir ke dialogues

Aage ka storyline ho

Ki wo apne bachhe ki shakal bhi nahi dikhaega Meenu ko

Uska saaya bhi nahi padhne dega baby par

They should really leave this house

Hell home

Also Kunal aur Parul kitna to sun chuke hain

Unhe bhi chale jana chahiye

Kunal acha khasa padha likha hai

Yahan kyun reh rha hai

Two epis yesterday and today gave a balancing feeling... every person's POV except the real varis's was portrayed...

Didn't like the way Abir burst Mishty''s bubble though....it came as BB ishtyle..

But the way the whole family came together to pacify her was nice...

And the way she spread her arms to Abir was heartwrenching...

Aaj NGO Wala scene dekhke hubby wife ki life ka feel Mila...they should have shown something like this before SR...

Mishnal talk was the much anticipated one for me...and loved the way Abir watched their bonding...

Loved the way kuhunal is developing.. Avinash 🤗

Open talks with jokes... even fights with decency both with good understanding...much needed for Kunal as he got the blow of his life today...just a snap and she slayed her most loyal ardent soldier..!

Parul loyal as ever but gave Kunal his real identity..!

Meenu behn...well how much I disagree or bash Meenakshi Rajvansh..she represents the thought process or belief that bahu should be fertile..

Today we heard words like ashubh manhoos.etc..may be Mishty repeating these words to describe herself..but this represents the stigma of a girl who is unable to conceive in a patriarchal set up..ie people who even doesn't want to understand the simple probability of XX and XY union..

Infertile toh problem!

Fertile ho lekin girl ho toh problem!

Dragging Mishty through endless ordeals , breaking her self respect and all is OTT on the part of writers...and still feel a rushing on their part...the Crux will be how Mishty is going to handle this ..

Abir will support her as long as Mishty won't be part of BB''s scheming..

Will she fall prey for BB's machinations is yet to be seen.

BB has a plan B that is doosri Shaadi..her plan A is the one she is executing.. pressurizing her husband's second wife's family to solve her problem...

Now even if Mishty's character gives in Abir won't as he considers Nanko as his son..

Forever tainting their bond..like this will not be agreeable to him.

Abeer ka Nanko ...as I said in my thread of character development. Today actually Meenakshiii lost everything in her life and she doesn't even realize it...

Such a self harming tunnel vision..!

And now the talk about asli vaaris..

Capable or not even in families who give equality to boys and girls... after girls marriage priority shifts and a family business is given to the boy...now by any reason the girl wants to be part of that she will be given equal share or equal responsibility..

Here no body is bothered about Kaushal Rajvansh...have never heard his name like that.actually...!!

Pita ka vaaris ...Abir is Abir Kapadiya..nee Rajvansh..so how come Abir's son/dgtr becomes Rajvansh house vaaris...woh toh rajgad vala toota phoota Ghar ka vaaris Hain na?

Nanu's son is the title holder and we should really start #justice for Koslu Rajvansh soon..

Business nahi...beti ki Shaadi hamesha Didi galat jagah pe karaane ki koshish Karthi rehthi hai..

Feeling feelings for Koslu Mama...

So the vaaris thing is crap..Abir's kid or Kunal's kid they are kapadiyas vaaris.. going by pita ka vansh..

What's left is Meenakshi Rajvansh with a brain embittered against Ambe maa now..!

Loved how Maheswaris supported Mishty.. even jas seemed mellowed...and right in her conclusions too that Meenakshiii wants saga beta's kid....but what was she egging Varsha to do...I think she will be the one to pressurize Kuhu into surrogacy...now that Meenakshiii had shown her cards.

Suicide drama??

Seriously?

In this time of mental stress they are doing a suicide drama... seriously not okay with that.

She could have tried leaving like she did last time...pakka sab peeche peeche aahi jaate..🤣

Originally posted by: suryavni

Two epis yesterday and today gave a balancing feeling... every person's POV except the real varis's was portrayed...

Didn't like the way Abir burst Mishty''s bubble though....it came as BB ishtyle..

But the way the whole family came together to pacify her was nice...

And the way she spread her arms to Abir was heartwrenching...

Aaj NGO Wala scene dekhke hubby wife ki life ka feel Mila...they should have shown something like this before SR...

Mishnal talk was the much anticipated one for me...and loved the way Abir watched their bonding...

Loved the way kuhunal is developing.. Avinash 🤗

Open talks with jokes... even fights with decency both with good understanding...much needed for Kunal as he got the blow of his life today...just a snap and she slayed her most loyal ardent soldier..!

Parul loyal as ever but gave Kunal his real identity..!

Meenu behn...well how much I disagree or bash Meenakshi Rajvansh..she represents the thought process or belief that bahu should be fertile..

Today we heard words like ashubh manhoos.etc..may be Mishty repeating these words to describe herself..but this represents the stigma of a girl who is unable to conceive in a patriarchal set up..ie people who even doesn't want to understand the simple probability of XX and XY union..

Infertile toh problem!

Fertile ho lekin girl ho toh problem!

Dragging Mishty through endless ordeals , breaking her self respect and all is OTT on the part of writers...and still feel a rushing on their part...the Crux will be how Mishty is going to handle this ..

Abir will support her as long as Mishty won't be part of BB''s scheming..

Will she fall prey for BB's machinations is yet to be seen.

BB has a plan B that is doosri Shaadi..her plan A is the one she is executing.. pressurizing her husband's second wife's family to solve her problem...

Now even if Mishty's character gives in Abir won't as he considers Nanko as his son..

Forever tainting their bond..like this will not be agreeable to him.

Abeer ka Nanko ...as I said in my thread of character development. Today actually Meenakshiii lost everything in her life and she doesn't even realize it...

Such a self harming tunnel vision..!

And now the talk about asli vaaris..

Capable or not even in families who give equality to boys and girls... after girls marriage priority shifts and a family business is given to the boy...now by any reason the girl wants to be part of that she will be given equal share or equal responsibility..

Here no body is bothered about Kaushal Rajvansh...have never heard his name like that.actually...!!

Pita ka vaaris ...Abir is Abir Kapadiya..nee Rajvansh..so how come Abir's son/dgtr becomes Rajvansh house vaaris...woh toh rajgad vala toota phoota Ghar ka vaaris Hain na?

Nanu's son is the title holder and we should really start #justice for Koslu Rajvansh soon..

Business nahi...beti ki Shaadi hamesha Didi galat jagah pe karaane ki koshish Karthi rehthi hai..

Feeling feelings for Koslu Mama...

So the vaaris thing is crap..Abir's kid or Kunal's kid they are kapadiyas vaaris.. going by pita ka vansh..

What's left is Meenakshi Rajvansh with a brain embittered against Ambe maa now..!

Loved how Maheswaris supported Mishty.. even jas seemed mellowed...and right in her conclusions too that Meenakshiii wants saga beta's kid....but what was she egging Varsha to do...I think she will be the one to pressurize Kuhu into surrogacy...now that Meenakshiii had shown her cards.

Suicide drama??

Seriously?

In this time of mental stress they are doing a suicide drama... seriously not okay with that.

She could have tried leaving like she did last time...pakka sab peeche peeche aahi jaate..🤣

Underlined- Exactly! If only sons get rights then Meenu herself doesn't have any rights let alone Abir. And if both son and daughter gets rights then Ketki should be given equal opportunities too. But no, Meenu will bring a rishta from somewhere and just get her out of the house ASAP.

Originally posted by: Jayu_Bangalore

Hello everyone,

Thank you Suta for the thread and Diyu for the written updates.

I am feeling bad for all of us. Is this the show we have been rooting for since last one year.Sorry, but What the hell makers have done to our show? Is BigBen the same lady who supported Mishti in Varun's track n said dialogues like burai ko maarne ke liye Devi maa ko bhi sashtra uthana padhta hei. Now saying a girl is only a bacha producing machine. If she fails to do it,she is of no use and she should be thrown out of the house. WTH....😡

Also in the precap Mishi saying she still has respect for BigBen😲Seriously Mishti just becoz she is Abir's mother😡Where is the angry chorni who stopped Ketu's marriage coz the guy was betraying her. Then when it comes to you why are u silent? Why u still respect BB after somany betrayals.Show some respect to urself also. what more proof you want that BB can be anything but not a mother. She had failed as a mother long ago,but today she failed as a woman also.

Who has written those disgusting dialogues? 😡That too this comes at 9pm prime time where the entire family including kids will watch it.Sorry but i was not signed for such a regressive show.I am not happy with our show. But today i couldn't control myself,i had to vent it out.

Sorry for my rant.

Hi Jayu🤗

I also feel awful for all of us and mishti, abir, kunal, parul and even kuhu today.

@Bold: more than Mishti's behaviour....It is Meenu's constant flipping behaviour that really puzzles me all the time. Like you said, how is this BB the same lady who wanted to be a 'good' woman by supporting Mishti in Varun's case but now taking 10 steps back as a woman and completely destroying another woman's self-worth with all that name-calling, if she calls herself an educated and successful woman😈

It's pure evil and cruelty.

And it's absolute sad truth that such mentality do still exist👎🏼

chalo kar lo yaar, vent it out it's ok.

Originally posted by: riya27

Meenu might have helped her as she didn't see any other way in getting abir out of case as he will be equally blamed

She also told today that if mishti can conceive then she will be happy to let her stay 🤪

Yes exactly, I was meant to put that point in my post, but you completed for me👍🏼

@Bold: argh🤪😡 that's despicable. Such conditional and selfish acceptance (not going to call it love for bahu and beta at all, she doesn't deserve that beautiful word 'pyaar')

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Yes exactly, I was meant to put that point in my post, but you completed for me👍🏼

@Bold: argh🤪😡 that's despicable. Such conditional and selfish acceptance (not going to call it love for bahu and beta at all, she doesn't deserve that beautiful word 'pyaar')

She is beyond repair now ..

Challo accha hai - no need to take the strain in bringing myself to hate her😆

Gone cases list is filling rapidly - Meenu joining the club with Jas , wanna see what kuhu gonna do , she's in queue i guess - lets see😆