You know at some extent I think Ani is trying to take the control of her life which makes me sad but on the other side I think even our parents/guardian used to take the decision of our lives when we were 11 because clearly we didn't knew what's good for us and what's bad...So Ani is being a guardian to her and I guess it's okay!
Trust me...I thought the same thing..I was like why is he deciding her future..it has to be her decision of what she wants to be...!! But as you said even our parents and guardians take such step in that part of age and ani being her guardian cum husband has to decide as she doesn't know what is rite and wrong..! Maybe seeing her tark he want to make her a barrister..! But I'm sure he will ask her what she wants to be in future and what she wants to become.! It's okay and right thing to do so.!