Yeh Rishtey Hain Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 21 Aug 2020 - Page 23

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Hifiii!👍🏼

Yes many secrets are still locked behind the doors, all thanks to Mishti's sacrificial goodness. She's always pushed it aside, whether it be the Kuhu's email scam, the mandap drama, Abir's coffee pills which were supposed to be for her! All of this she hid for what she believed will be better for the family. But that's exactly what Kuhu keeps exploiting as her advantage.

Finally at least this fight is out in the open infront of the family, so others are getting an idea of the extent and degree of absurdity/toxicity. Only the elders can resolve this matter (not RV boys). BP & Meenu will have to sort this out together.

Haan there are few factors which could have brought the trp up - family unity, or just the fact that Varun track has ended. It's sad that we are struggling so much for viewership. Wish the writers and dkp truly make use of the talent and value of our show and rhesha as leads.

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exactly she does it with good intentions but actually it has resulted in bad only... sometimes being open with family can only solve problems... har bar when she hides something things take a worse turn only... she can handle things alone but everytime thats not the right option...

exactly now atleast everything is infront of family... the major difference between abinal n these two... whatever problem it is abinal are open infront of family, and they were taught to love each other n look after that their love doesnt change, this is what they are thought that sit down calmly n sort out your difference but voh kaise kare is their wish but no one has requested the other to compromise or ask sorry or do anything but sit together n solve it... they are trying to apply the same strategy with girls...

but in mah house they were thought to compromise not to love n share... they everytime expect one or other kid to compromise, overlook their issue, they are always ready to scold them only not see at their problem...

hope meenu n mah family milke solve kare...

haan i hope sitara doesnt interfere too that will bring a major change in show like many other shows in sp which were shut down or turned to worse were bcoz of sitara interference

Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

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Sasuma ki jai ho.....

Bechaare Bp... Ye problem solve kara the kare the ye bolega mein kyu shaadi karavaaye inn dono ko..😆

🤣 so true yaar... sirf bp nahi whole fam will think in dono ko kyu shaadi karwaye 🤣 LKG join karna chahiye

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Rashi

If you don't mind me saying...

@Bold:

Let's just go back a week or two and see; Abir was ready to leave the RV house with Mishti (for her treatment), Abir has always been ready to leave the house with Mishti because he knows BB will never let them live in peace. But Mishti has always been skeptical, she's always been worried about her 'housebreaker tag', and never really been comfortable with living separately from the family. Yes deep-down neither does Abir want to live away from the family, but clearly he doesn't feel happy, at peace nor is his wife respected in that house, so he wants to give Mishti a better life. But time and time again he lets go of that idea, because Mishti herself feels it's not good for the family. So Abir also becomes complacent.

Similarly here, Mishti has been telling Abir since pre-lockdown fights, that she understands Kuhu better than him, she has been expressing her frustration and annoyance with Kuhu constantly blaming her for no reason. Before Abir wasn't ready to listen, and pushing Kuhu's behaviour as immature, but now we can see at least a slight improvement (yesterday's epi), he is clearly not asking Mishti to apologise, he knows she is right in her stance. But he too knows that simply fighting and yelling back at Kuhu doesn't solve the problem (he did his share with the blackmail letter). Plus he is still looking at this sister argument due to the magazine photoshoot mix-up. He is still looking at this as the cause to their outburst yesterday (that's why he says he can't be referee for them, when they fighting over such a trivial issue). This is something the sisters need handle without their husbands. It's actually an issue between the sisters and their parents (BP, BM & Varsha). The RV boys don't have anything to do with it. Neither are the RV boys experienced enough to handle or understand this complicated sister dynamic, neither are the elders addressing the root cause of the issue (childhood problems).

I'm sorry, but I don't agree with your opinion of Abir here at all.

I didn't mean to hurt you, just thought I'll share a different perspective with you.

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I don't deny the story has taken a huge hit and contuining to spiral around around ever since mishbir got married. I agree the writing has been inconsistent and poor, but there are little mercies in regards to mishbir and their characters, that I personally feel are still intact. They are two individual people, with the same pyaar wale heart. You cannot expect them to agree and be happy on everything, there will be difference of opinions.

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Word ! 👏👏👏thanks for saying this nandu ❤️❤️ really a big big thanks...ppl find it difficult to understand abir as a stand alone entity separate from mishbir...period!

I have written something on the MF too , would love to see your views there...🤗

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

👏👏 well said guruji.

No one in the family speaking up against Kuhu, is a whole different story.

Aur how can you ask the RV family (in-laws) to handle these sisters (their bahus), whom they only know for about a year? Only now are they coming to realise the degree of toxicity and problems between the two. If the maheshwari family haven't been able to detect how much damage has been caused between the two girls for the last 10 years, how do you expect the RV family to find a solution already?

@bold: Bang on guruji! I was trying to hint at a similar point in another post. You hit the nail.👏Why is it fair for one and not the other? #Where's the equality now?

I know aapko tamil nahi aati, phir bhi I really felt like saying this😆: (tamil girls are you with me?)

"Wah, nethi adi! ennama ipdi pindrangle"😎

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lobbs you❤️

Thanks ...mere liye utna hi coffee hai that you and diya are with me 😆❤️

And what does that famil line mean 😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

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exactly she does it with good intentions but actually it has resulted in bad only... sometimes being open with family can only solve problems... har bar when she hides something things take a worse turn only... she can handle things alone but everytime thats not the right option...

exactly now atleast everything is infront of family... the major difference between abinal n these two... whatever problem it is abinal are open infront of family, and they were taught to love each other n look after that their love doesnt change, this is what they are thought that sit down calmly n sort out your difference but voh kaise kare is their wish but no one has requested the other to compromise or ask sorry or do anything but sit together n solve it... they are trying to apply the same strategy with girls...

but in mah house they were thought to compromise not to love n share... they everytime expect one or other kid to compromise, overlook their issue, they are always ready to scold them only not see at their problem...

hope meenu n mah family milke solve kare...

haan i hope sitara doesnt interfere too that will bring a major change in show like many other shows in sp which were shut down or turned to worse were bcoz of sitara interference

Exactly diya well said , mishku are reaciting according to their experiences and upbringing and understanding while abinal have their own judgments, experiences and ways to deal with a relationship.

People are saying abir shouldn't be expecting anything from mishti because she isn't a perfectionist and a human , 100% agree , and rightly so abir is not expecting anything expect that mishti and kuhu should seriously think of solving their issues because it's too big to let it go now ....

But the same people are expecting abir to be perfectionist at every stage and not be human enough...is it fair?

I didn't like that Abir and Kunal involved Meenu and Mishti's family in this.

You see people fight in every house but involving family of DIL of the house and then MIL saying she will send them back home, Meenu misbehaving with Badi Ma and Bade Papa apologizing because two people fought is ridiculous.

Mishti started apolozing to everyone, Kuhu didn't change, she kept misbehaving with Mishti, whatever confidence Mishti had in the morning against Kuhu was broken because her family got involved, now she has to put herself down in front of Kuhu

None is expecting Kuhu to change, everyone including Abir is expecting Mishti to bow down to Kuhu, for what?

The Jethani thing Mishti said wasn't wrong, it's not about Mishti asking for respect but Kuhu crossing her lines, Mishti is not her punching bag, she is human

Mishti did control herself, she did change herself, she didn't say anything to Kuhu when Kuhu spoiled her Janmashtami Jhaki, Why can't Kuhu take one step?

Why should Mishti apologize for picture in the magazine? What was her fault?

1 Kuhu shouldn't have cursed Mishti

2 Mishti should have ignored Kuhu

3 Abir should have tried to understand Mishti instead of telling her Kuhu's side of the story, that's not what one is expecting from her husband, He can't ask her to relax or keep saying that she has so much stamina to fight as if she started it.

Abir did blame Mishti -

Mishti - Har Bar Mai hi aisa kyu karu, is bar mai uski nonsense nahi jhelne wali okay? Aur mujhse ye unfair ummid lagana band karo ki mai har bar uske samne jake mafi mangungi

Abir - To mai kya karu, tumhari fight me refree banta Rahu?

Doesn't this imply that Abir was expecting Mishti to apologize to Kuhu as he can't be refree between them?

Abir - Mishti, Tumne realize bhi kiya hai, tumhari wajah se ghar pe sab kitne pareshan hai?

Mishti - Meri Vajah se?

Abir - Nahi, Tum dono ki vajah se

Mishti - To tumhe lagta hai ki sari galti meri hai?

Abir - Nahi, Galti sari meri hai. I am sorry Mishti, meri Galti hai, pata nahi Itna ladne ka stamina aa kaha se jata hai?

Mishti - Abir, tum mujhse aise kyon baat kar rahe ho, what's wrong with you?

Aur mujhse jhuti ummeed lagana band karo ki mai yaha sabki baat sunte baithungi

Not only did Abir blame Mishti for problems in family, he taunted her that she keeps fighting.

The best thing for Mishti is to swallow her pride and touch Kuhu's feet everyday saying "Kuhu Ma, Aaj kuch mat karna"

Kuhu has support in form of everyone, Did Kunal blame Kuhu? She threw him out of the room

At least Abir should have supported Mishti

What is this house where two people aren't allowed to fight?

Inconsistency is another issue with Abir going from "Mishti, Ab Adjust nahi karegi" to this and Mishti forgiving Kuhu in nanosecond to this

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I didn't like that Abir and Kunal involved Meenu and Mishti's family in this.

You see people fight in every house but involving family of DIL of the house and then MIL saying she will send them back home, Meenu misbehaving with Badi Ma and Bade Papa apologizing because two people fought is ridiculous.

Mishti started apolozing to everyone, Kuhu didn't change, she kept misbehaving with Mishti, whatever confidence Mishti had in the morning against Kuhu was broken because her family got involved, now she has to put herself down in front of Kuhu

None is expecting Kuhu to change, everyone including Abir is expecting Mishti to bow down to Kuhu, for what?

The Jethani thing Mishti said wasn't wrong, it's not about Mishti asking for respect but Kuhu crossing her lines, Mishti is not her punching bag, she is human

Mishti did control herself, she did change herself, she didn't say anything to Kuhu when Kuhu spoiled her Janmashtami Jhaki, Why can't Kuhu take one step?

Why should Mishti apologize for picture in the magazine? What was her fault?

1 Kuhu shouldn't have cursed Mishti

2 Mishti should have ignored Kuhu

3 Abir should have tried to understand Mishti instead of telling her Kuhu's side of the story, that's not what one is expecting from her husband, He can't ask her to relax or keep saying that she has so much stamina to fight as if she started it.

Abir did blame Mishti -

Mishti - Har Bar Mai hi aisa kyu karu, is bar mai uski nonsense nahi jhelne wali okay? Aur mujhse ye unfair ummid lagana band karo ki mai har bar uske samne jake mafi mangungi

Abir - To mai kya karu, tumhari fight me refree banta Rahu?

Doesn't this imply that Abir was expecting Mishti to apologize to Kuhu as he can't be refree between them?

Abir - Mishti, Tumne realize bhi kiya hai, tumhari wajah se ghar pe sab kitne pareshan hai?

Mishti - Meri Vajah se?

Abir - Nahi, Tum dono ki vajah se

Mishti - To tumhe lagta hai ki sari galti meri hai?

Abir - Nahi, Galti sari meri hai. I am sorry Mishti, meri Galti hai, pata nahi Itna ladne ka stamina aa kaha se jata hai?

Mishti - Abir, tum mujhse aise kyon baat kar rahe ho, what's wrong with you?

Aur mujhse jhuti ummeed lagana band karo ki mai yaha sabki baat sunte baithungi

Not only did Abir blame Mishti for problems in family, he taunted her that she keeps fighting.

The best thing for Mishti is to swallow her pride and touch Kuhu's feet everyday saying "Kuhu Ma, Aaj kuch mat karna"

Kuhu has support in form of everyone, Did Kunal blame Kuhu? She threw him out of the room

At least Abir should have supported Mishti

What is this house where two people aren't allowed to fight?

Inconsistency is another issue with Abir going from "Mishti, Ab Adjust nahi karegi" to this and Mishti forgiving Kuhu in nanosecond to this

I agree with your each and every word👏

I am more concerned about the upcoming track TBH

They are clearly trying to divide Mishbir by showing Abir supporting Kuhu then next is Surrogacy track Upar se they are delaying consummation for both couple, What's the purpose of Kuhu being surrogate?

"Rishton ke bhi Roop Badalte hain.. Naye Naye Sache Me Dhalte Hain"

Originally posted by: NoraSM

I didn't like that Abir and Kunal involved Meenu and Mishti's family in this.

You see people fight in every house but involving family of DIL of the house and then MIL saying she will send them back home, Meenu misbehaving with Badi Ma and Bade Papa apologizing because two people fought is ridiculous.

Mishti started apolozing to everyone, Kuhu didn't change, she kept misbehaving with Mishti, whatever confidence Mishti had in the morning against Kuhu was broken because her family got involved, now she has to put herself down in front of Kuhu

None is expecting Kuhu to change, everyone including Abir is expecting Mishti to bow down to Kuhu, for what?

The Jethani thing Mishti said wasn't wrong, it's not about Mishti asking for respect but Kuhu crossing her lines, Mishti is not her punching bag, she is human

Mishti did control herself, she did change herself, she didn't say anything to Kuhu when Kuhu spoiled her Janmashtami Jhaki, Why can't Kuhu take one step?

Why should Mishti apologize for picture in the magazine? What was her fault?

1 Kuhu shouldn't have cursed Mishti

2 Mishti should have ignored Kuhu

3 Abir should have tried to understand Mishti instead of telling her Kuhu's side of the story, that's not what one is expecting from her husband, He can't ask her to relax or keep saying that she has so much stamina to fight as if she started it.

Abir did blame Mishti -

Mishti - Har Bar Mai hi aisa kyu karu, is bar mai uski nonsense nahi jhelne wali okay? Aur mujhse ye unfair ummid lagana band karo ki mai har bar uske samne jake mafi mangungi

Abir - To mai kya karu, tumhari fight me refree banta Rahu?

Doesn't this imply that Abir was expecting Mishti to apologize to Kuhu as he can't be refree between them?

Abir - Mishti, Tumne realize bhi kiya hai, tumhari wajah se ghar pe sab kitne pareshan hai?

Mishti - Meri Vajah se?

Abir - Nahi, Tum dono ki vajah se

Mishti - To tumhe lagta hai ki sari galti meri hai?

Abir - Nahi, Galti sari meri hai. I am sorry Mishti, meri Galti hai, pata nahi Itna ladne ka stamina aa kaha se jata hai?

Mishti - Abir, tum mujhse aise kyon baat kar rahe ho, what's wrong with you?

Aur mujhse jhuti ummeed lagana band karo ki mai yaha sabki baat sunte baithungi

Not only did Abir blame Mishti for problems in family, he taunted her that she keeps fighting.

The best thing for Mishti is to swallow her pride and touch Kuhu's feet everyday saying "Kuhu Ma, Aaj kuch mat karna"

Kuhu has support in form of everyone, Did Kunal blame Kuhu? She threw him out of the room

At least Abir should have supported Mishti

What is this house where two people aren't allowed to fight?

Inconsistency is another issue with Abir going from "Mishti, Ab Adjust nahi karegi" to this and Mishti forgiving Kuhu in nanosecond to this

*slow claps*

1. Abir and kunal involved the family because the family is already involved dude , mishti and kuhu fought it publicly in front of everyone, in front of mahs and RVs... abinal tried to calm them down privately in their own ways but nothing concrete happened cuz none of the girls cared to listen....they were in a mood to rant thats all , they had to include the family and other members because the girls were uncomfortable and they needed other close members to understand the situation and help them out ....

2. I don't know about others , it may be the case for varsha and kuhu but none of the members asked mishti to apologise or bow down , especially BP BM or abir, who happens to be her strongest supporters ..so stop victimising her , at least in the situation where she wasn't really a victim

3. Abir saying he dosent want to be a referee means there is a limit to keeping up the fights ...he can't tolerate it anymore, he himself these fights are more intense and vile than his fights with meenu

that NO WHERE means he wants her to apologise ...that just means he wants to end the issue once and for all in a way that serves justice to everyone !! Simple as that ...

4. He did not blame mishti for the problems but yeah he did tell her that fight went over board ...and mishti too had a role to play there ...sorry I don't deny what he said ... kunal literally called her spoilt brat and showed her the place ... !! It's not like he was supporting kuhu and asked mishti to apologise, did he ?

5. What were abinal saying ,.that they expect situation to be handled calmly thats all ....have you ever seen abinal fighting and invoking their respective spouses like this and expect them to take stands?

6. This is not like the resort thing where boys are asking girls to shut up and put up with the situation, rather they are asking the girls to get into the roots of the issues and sort it out .... they themselves are there to help them ...

Do you want everyone to just fight or you want some people to remain calm and handle the situation too ?

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Love you

Haan, I'll have to find it and maybe re-adjust a few more things. Will share it over the weekend maybe

Yes, RV have managed to somehow create a very amicable, strong and loving bond between all siblings, but have failed in the individual aspect - Abir has been left out, Kunal has been manipulated, Ketu has been sheltered and Atul has just been forgotten Mere sasta SRK

You're absolutely right. Mah family let Jas keep berating Mishti and instigating Kuhu. Jas in PS show was never like that - she did have jealousy issues with Varsha as her bhabhi, but they did resolve them. I don't understand why they can't resolve this jealousy/insecurity and childhood issues between Kuhu and Mishti properly. It really does get annoying.

Haan, that's the sad inconsistency and poor writing we've all been complaining about since about Ep100. So many things like that haldi drama, have been left unanswered and unaddressed, when it was actually so important.

haan yaar, bechari Meenu ko yahi nightmare Ep1 se hi darr tha. But somewhere along the line, she has brought a lot of this trouble due to her own behaviour, her own ego and her planning and plotting. Afterall, the show only moves forward along with Meenu's twists and turns, she is the leader.

Chalo, let's see what she has in store this time.

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superb waiting for your post nandu 😎

hayee humara sasta srk... 😭

exactly they have problem as an individual even the problem with girls is that only in all this the fault is of elders but the rjv siblings very well understand this n also even they sometimes point it out like kunal says maa loves you more, n abir says ma doesnt understand me, they knew whom to point n knew the route n what the actual problem is but here kuhu is not ready to understand the problem is with elders n not mishti n they both hide it to keep family peace... abh sasural ka peace tho gaya which family will tolerate all this...

haan even i saw some episodes of jas in PS, even varsha has changed alot compared to parents show... just for drama they have twisted alot of characters in our show...

haina there are many issues which is not addressed properly even abir being blackmailed not everyone knows about it... the sisters issue is so big it keeps coming again n again pir bhi they just try to cover it up not trying to get to route...

haha so true its all her doing par jiss dar se she did all that has finally come true 🤣 now she only has to solve it as everything started with her only 😆

hopefully meenu can do something big