Yeh Rishtey Hain Pyaar Ke Live Updates/EDT 21 Aug 2020 - Page 14

Originally posted by: angelfire78

It goes back to him (and Kunal) expecting the sisters to have the kind of relationship they have. They still don't get that MishKu don't have that kind of relationship. Kunal says I felt bad but I didn't say anything because I know bhai would have felt worse. Kuhu would never believe that Mishti could feel bad on her behalf, and while Mishti says all that about contacting publishers, she still doesn't state in clear words that she's sorry this happened to Kuhu (I'll clarify I'm not saying she should have, especially after everything Kuhu accused her of and threw at her, but just pointing out she didn't say it and she wouldn't have been believed even if she did). On the other hand, Kuhu readily believed Mishti when she said she's happy this happened to her. That's their relationship. There is no basic trust. There is very little Mishti can do to make Kuhu believe her. It's either because of their history or because Kuhu expects Mishti to feel/behave as she herself would have. It is in Mishti's nature to only take so much in the name of family peace and no more. I wonder when people will get to the root cause of this instead of going round and round.

Meenu was right in one way. Kuhu will do anything for family peace so long as Mishti is not in the picture. Mishti has limits on what she will take in the name of keeping peace in the family. Both of them in the same house will destroy ghar ki shanti.

Well said daya 👏👏

You just pointed out were everyone went wrong... no one is trying to look at the root cause... They just want the sister to sort it out...

@bold - this is what Meenu wanted to prove n it's happening... There is a saying naa narathar kalagam nanmaike.. so that's what will happen here too maybe Meenu getting hyper n doing all this will result in good going by her past doing too which has ultimately resulted in one or other good... I feel this storm is for good..

Originally posted by: SheThought

Ok, chalo, aaj shubh muharat nikla hai! 😛

Spotlights are up:

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/yeh-rishtey-hai-pyaar-ke/5173717/spotlights-aug-21-coolie-number-1-and-2

That was quick Pali 😃

Originally posted by: angelfire78

That was quick Pali 😃

Haan Daya 😆

I started with writing the review here and then couldn't resist with my gifs... then thought spotlights hi bana dun 😆

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Well said daya 👏👏

You just pointed out were everyone went wrong... no one is trying to look at the root cause... They just want the sister to sort it out...

@bold - this is what Meenu wanted to prove n it's happening... There is a saying naa narathar kalagam nanmaike.. so that's what will happen here too maybe Meenu getting hyper n doing all this will result in good going by her past doing too which has ultimately resulted in one or other good... I feel this storm is for good..

Kya din aa gaye - all hopes pinned on Meenu now 😆

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I completely agree daya👍🏼

Abir is not familiar nor used to handling such kind of fights and issues before. He's had his own fair share of arguments with Bigben but obviously they were about real issues. These kinds of bachkaani sister fights and sibling cat fights, he isn't used to dealing with. That's why he just doesn't understand what to do.

But you're completely right, it's about time Abir especially accept that Kuhu just isn't going to budge, she isn't going to change, and it's Mishti's right to stop bearing and pushing aside Kuhu's tantrums.

Kunal infact has often mentioned to Abir, how the sister's relationship is nothing like their bro-bond, and it's not very simple. Because Kunal himself knows how far Kuhu went during their marriage ceremonies to de-fame Mishti and then to separate Mishbir, joining hands with him. Kunal has a much better understanding of the sister's dynamic. Remember during holi this year, Kunal tells Abir that he doesn't want get involved between the sister's arguments etc, whereas Abir says, but ultimately sooner or later we will be because we are their husbands. Both are right, you can't avoid them, but that doesn't mean you should get yourself stuck in something that has been a long war for more than a decade.

I really don't know how they are going to resolve this issue.

It seems like the writers are just going to keep these sister-issue open ended each time, just to have something to fall back to pick up TRP with illogical fighting drama

Meenu is indeed right. That's exactly why it's best for Abir n Mishti to leave RV house for the betterment, sukh and shaanti of all.

Kunal is so much more realistic than Abir when it comes to MishKu relationship. He actually believes them, whereas Abir goes around thinking deep-down they love each other and does ridiculous things to bring out that love. I prefer Meenu's approach - you guys can detest each other, just put up with each other and don't create drama in my house! But now she knows that will not happen, she will solve this as well. Saasuma pe itna barosa hai mujhe 😆

Originally posted by: angelfire78

On this I agree with you guys too. He didn't say all this when she was still angry after first fight. Second one was too much, and seemed to be dragging on.

Exactly even now he didn't say she was wrong all he said was let's handle it in other way bcoz 2nd fight wass unnecessary.. he can't wear a board saying I trust you n I know you are right mishti but I need to say more can anyone listen to me.. 😆 the problem is not abir supporting mishti but how it's affecting the family...

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Hailllaaa current gaya... I typed whole update...😭 girls wait for few minute will type again n upload

Aiyoo! tough luck🤔 Chalo, thankyou so so much for your dedication yaar🤗 Lobs you❤️

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Mishbir room...

Abir aruges with mish that bcoz of them both the family is getting affected n he can't be a referee in their fight... Mish asks him to not interfere n he keeps supporting kuhu n Abir says he has already scolded her for threat letter mish says but that didn't affect kuhu right... Abir says even what she did didn't have affect... Abir finally gets angry n asks sorry mistake is mine n goes from there...

Kuhu throws Kunal out of room...

Abinal see each other... Say they have to do something...

Next day morning they send message to mishku that they are leaving house.. Meenu asks about abinal m mishku lies to her..

Thry go to temple n see boys helping bm... Meenu scolds girls for again fighting in public... Asks them to sit in car... Meenu is hell angry...

Mah family welcome abinal playfully they boys doesn't say reason for visit just plays around... and Meenu comes there at time when bm scolds jas for mistakenly putting atta on kunal n Meenu thinks she is scolding boys...

Meenu n bp argue on what's did spending on their education not knowing they will become like this... Bp says about girls being equal n Meenu says all girls are not same sometimes they are reason of problem in sasural.

Abir finally says why they are here about the sisters fight... and abinal say how they would've sorted if it was between them but mishku didn't do that so they came here as they can't tolerate all this... He says thry won't come until mishku sort out their difference kunal too agrees...

Meenu goes from there bm, varsha asks to go look after Meenu n asks sorry for kuhu behaviour...

Meenu doesn't listen to girls n goes from there... Again kuhu start complaining about mish to bm, varsha.. thry ask them to go manao Meenu their husbands will cool down themselves...

Precap - abinal refuse to come n Meenu is silent n Abir says it's the silence before storm.. Meenu says to bp if abinal didn't come she will throw out the girls...

Wow what an episode.. I'm on Meenu side.. If mah family n girls were affected in past bcoz of the love of brothers for eo it's not entitled for boys n family to tolerate this sisters issue... I'm sorry to say mah family failed big time in parenting the girls in this... Meenu n maasi are much better in raising abinal... And even now only Meenu can sort it out..

@Bold: yes diyu, I completely agree.

Infact I think I had started writing a whole analysis post about mah family parenting issues, way before during wedding-divorce drama.

Maybe it's time to post my thoughts properly.

I actually feel bad for Meenu yaar🤔😆 Look at what has happened to her parivaar, and RV house ki shaanti🤪 The two sisters just cannot live in peace under the same roof.

God knows how they 'acted' nice with each other for almost 10 years in mah house. How did they not eat each other alive? How did the mah family not find the loopholes in their act?

Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Gauri finally she is back🥳 Humara Meenu wapas aagaya 😭*khushi ki aansu*

Mein bhi aapne aansu control nahi kar par rahe hua.... 😭

Originally posted by: Janu.301017

I agree what Abir said if Kunal scolded him he would not reply and thinks he said in anger...

Fine Abir if I was in your place I will also do same bcz this situation happens rarely...

BUT

if that happens everyday in every situation what you will do???

If it's normal small fight I think mishti would have left it..but cursing and all??? Why should she bear?? And haa second time she is at fault assuming something...she would have talk to BM later and while talking she would have known that kuhu did not tell them..

If RV Or atleast Kunal shouldvhave stopped kuhu right away there itself...when she is blaming mishti...this would not have happened...that time all stood as if they are eating bubble gum and can't open their mouth...

I understand kuhu got hurt...mishti pe insaan lagane ki bajay publishers ke saath jagda karlethi...koi solution nikal aay..like as Abir said public apology..or re printing their photo on next week magazine...something....

If mishti talked to publisher and set things right...then kuhu would definitely say that she is becoming mahaan on doing this and took limelight again bcz all would have praised mishti...KUHU Jeleous me kabh kush hoti nahi..

Aaj ka epi is boring that's why I thought to share my POV of whole situation..

The distance, toxicity and aggressiveness between the sisters all boils down to the poor parenting during those critical 10 years in the mah house, by BM, BP, Varsha and shaurya.

Those unsolved issues from their childhood have become deep-rooted behavioural characteristics for both Mishti and Kuhu.

I genuinely feel bad for Meenu, Abir and Kunal. RV house is definitely a pagal khaana on it's own. But these two sisters are a whole different deal. Another crazy world.

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

I completely agree daya👍🏼

Abir is not familiar nor used to handling such kind of fights and issues before. He's had his own fair share of arguments with Bigben but obviously they were about real issues. These kinds of bachkaani sister fights and sibling cat fights, he isn't used to dealing with. That's why he just doesn't understand what to do.

But you're completely right, it's about time Abir especially accept that Kuhu just isn't going to budge, she isn't going to change, and it's Mishti's right to stop bearing and pushing aside Kuhu's tantrums.

Kunal infact has often mentioned to Abir, how the sister's relationship is nothing like their bro-bond, and it's not very simple. Because Kunal himself knows how far Kuhu went during their marriage ceremonies to de-fame Mishti and then to separate Mishbir, joining hands with him. Kunal has a much better understanding of the sister's dynamic. Remember during holi this year, Kunal tells Abir that he doesn't want get involved between the sister's arguments etc, whereas Abir says, but ultimately sooner or later we will be because we are their husbands. Both are right, you can't avoid them, but that doesn't mean you should get yourself stuck in something that has been a long war for more than a decade.

I really don't know how they are going to resolve this issue.

It seems like the writers are just going to keep these sister-issue open ended each time, just to have something to fall back to pick up TRP with illogical fighting drama

Meenu is indeed right. That's exactly why it's best for Abir n Mishti to leave RV house for the betterment, sukh and shaanti of all.

Haillaa nandu panda 🤗

Just amazing post yaar meri dil ki baat bol diya tumne... This is the major difference abir kunal or Meenu they fight for real issue n thry don't prolongue it too..

This is first for Abir to handle such issue... Kunal is more practical n knows more about sisters... abir just wants to get done with it n he is too trusting n letting it go guy but not everyone are like that Abir needs to understand that... it will be good if abinal n Meenu milke kuch solution nikale.. bcoz Meenu is more sensible in handling it, with abinal help they can solve it...

All trust on Meenu now 😆 but agreed I too feel they won't solve sisters issue trp will get affected..