Originally posted by: angelfire78
It goes back to him (and Kunal) expecting the sisters to have the kind of relationship they have. They still don't get that MishKu don't have that kind of relationship. Kunal says I felt bad but I didn't say anything because I know bhai would have felt worse. Kuhu would never believe that Mishti could feel bad on her behalf, and while Mishti says all that about contacting publishers, she still doesn't state in clear words that she's sorry this happened to Kuhu (I'll clarify I'm not saying she should have, especially after everything Kuhu accused her of and threw at her, but just pointing out she didn't say it and she wouldn't have been believed even if she did). On the other hand, Kuhu readily believed Mishti when she said she's happy this happened to her. That's their relationship. There is no basic trust. There is very little Mishti can do to make Kuhu believe her. It's either because of their history or because Kuhu expects Mishti to feel/behave as she herself would have. It is in Mishti's nature to only take so much in the name of family peace and no more. I wonder when people will get to the root cause of this instead of going round and round.
Meenu was right in one way. Kuhu will do anything for family peace so long as Mishti is not in the picture. Mishti has limits on what she will take in the name of keeping peace in the family. Both of them in the same house will destroy ghar ki shanti.
I completely agree daya👍🏼
Abir is not familiar nor used to handling such kind of fights and issues before. He's had his own fair share of arguments with Bigben but obviously they were about real issues. These kinds of bachkaani sister fights and sibling cat fights, he isn't used to dealing with. That's why he just doesn't understand what to do.
But you're completely right, it's about time Abir especially accept that Kuhu just isn't going to budge, she isn't going to change, and it's Mishti's right to stop bearing and pushing aside Kuhu's tantrums.
Kunal infact has often mentioned to Abir, how the sister's relationship is nothing like their bro-bond, and it's not very simple. Because Kunal himself knows how far Kuhu went during their marriage ceremonies to de-fame Mishti and then to separate Mishbir, joining hands with him. Kunal has a much better understanding of the sister's dynamic. Remember during holi this year, Kunal tells Abir that he doesn't want get involved between the sister's arguments etc, whereas Abir says, but ultimately sooner or later we will be because we are their husbands. Both are right, you can't avoid them, but that doesn't mean you should get yourself stuck in something that has been a long war for more than a decade.
I really don't know how they are going to resolve this issue.
It seems like the writers are just going to keep these sister-issue open ended each time, just to have something to fall back to pick up TRP with illogical fighting drama
Meenu is indeed right. That's exactly why it's best for Abir n Mishti to leave RV house for the betterment, sukh and shaanti of all.
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