Anirudh broke my heart - Page 2

Originally posted by: leanne_1983

I get what you are trying to say. Any maybe I am being too hash towards Anirudh too early. But what hurt me the most was his dialogues to Mini like, you are my Mini, only I have the right to call you Mini etc or whatever he was saying. And the final nail in the coffin was him telling that he and Bondita will never have a normal husband-wife relationship, now or ever. I don't know in what context he meant that, but by saying all these things to Mini he was literally hinting that she needed to stick around as Bondita could never take her place. To me it felt very unfair to either of the girls.

@bold After listening to Anirudh's yesterday's dialogues I am fine with that. But in the future if Bondita ever finds out about these views of Anirudh and decides to emotionally distance herself from him and maybe move on with someone else, he should not have the right to use the "Patni" card to hold on to her and pull her back.

Yup.. he doesn't seem to me, as someone who will play pati patni card.😆

N whatever he says when mini instigates him, is just as the marriage is a recent incident. And till she is a kid he might never accept her as his wife. Let's see what the makers have in store for us as their personal life choices, but for now, m only concerned about the process of boni becoming a strong n independent woman..❤️ carving a niche for herself.

N also relationships cannot be measured wholly as right or wrong, nor humans can be defined the same way. It is somewhat like the range between right n wrong🤔

Originally posted by: mannu_123

Yup.. he doesn't seem to me, as someone who will play pati patni card.😆

N whatever he says when mini instigates him, is just as the marriage is a recent incident. And till she is a kid he might never accept her as his wife. Let's see what the makers have in store for us as their personal life choices, but for now, m only concerned about the process of boni becoming a strong n independent woman..❤️ carving a niche for herself.

N also relationships cannot be measured wholly as right or wrong, nor humans can be defined the same way. It is somewhat like the range between right n wrong🤔

Originally posted by: shirin04

just wait till bondita grows up and tells him about this guy in college she likes pati card toh he will pull faster than his now zimmedari card😂😂

That would be fun to watch😆

I guess at a preliminary level, ani and mini both lost the chance to be with someone they love. If one looks deeper, it can be seen that Ani has a lot more burden to bear than Mini in this matter. A guy who went against the whole village and didn't think once about anything else but saving a little girl's life, imagine how difficult it will be for him to accept that he did injustice to the girl he loved.

I don't think so when he made up his mind to fight for women, he might have thought of raising his voice for them, getting them educated, save them from sati/balvivah. He didn't expect himself to marry a little girl, solve her bed wetting problems and other stuff. Or pay such a personal price for it.

Pati hu main, patni hey woh meri...He plays this card coz "Riwaaz ki riwaaz ko kaat tha hai" sometimes. It gives him the right above everyone else to decide for bondita which till date did only good for her, even though his personal zidd was involved. So, I made peace with it. The way he got worried when bondu stopped breathing forcefully or she became ill, its not because he accepted her as his wife, its because he is a good human at heart.

Had he been an activist and if this happened to a woman who is barely associated with him, he would more or less react the same way.

Ani has a golden heart but because of upbringing and his lifestyle, he can be a royal ass or entitled prick sometimes. He is not calm and humble. "Uske iraade sahi hai uske tarike Bondu ki sangath mein teekh hojayengey" is what I feel. He will learn humility from her and work on his flaws to become a better man.

From the beginning, Ani can't let go, its not in his nature. He is unable to let go off Mini which is double standard but makes him human too. He didn't take the decision to marry bondu thoughtfully and after marriage, all he was doing is fighting with family to give bondu a home. He never got closure, or even time to process things and get closure. I guess mini reminds him of love, of romantic aspect between a man and woman and when she reminds him of bondita as his patni, bile rises in his throat. He can't see himself associated that way with a little girl and he cringes and vehemently denies.

Woh zimmedari hai actually means our relationship is purely platonic.

Mini knows Ani inside out, his flaws and weaknesses too. She is tapping into them and he is giving into that. In due time, he will understand the err in his ways.

I think it will be bondita who will fall for Ani first. He will always see their marriage as nothing but a necessity. Their age gap will be a problem for him or a matter of insecurity when she grows up if he starts feeling for her. He is against balvivah and for him to accept his marriage as valid in every sense will be tough. He will be a middle aged man, with much more self restraint in his thoughts. And bondu will teach him to embrace love in the package it comes.

Personally I am against couple with such wide gap in age, but sometimes exceptions must be made

Too much rant...

Originally posted by: rttr

He wants to be a saint in eyes of all, that's why he smiles when evryone praised him. I am sorry but, he is hypocrite. This is not expected from a person who wants to change society.

Binoy rightly said fitoor chada uske ser 😔

Originally posted by: shirin04

just wait till bondita grows up and tells him about this guy in college she likes pati card toh he will pull faster than his now zimmedari card😂😂

🤣

Originally posted by: pratyay

I guess at a preliminary level, ani and mini both lost the chance to be with someone they love. If one looks deeper, it can be seen that Ani has a lot more burden to bear than Mini in this matter. A guy who went against the whole village and didn't think once about anything else but saving a little girl's life, imagine how difficult it will be for him to accept that he did injustice to the girl he loved.

I don't think so when he made up his mind to fight for women, he might have thought of raising his voice for them, getting them educated, save them from sati/balvivah. He didn't expect himself to marry a little girl, solve her bed wetting problems and other stuff. Or pay such a personal price for it.

Pati hu main, patni hey woh meri...He plays this card coz "Riwaaz ki riwaaz ko kaat tha hai" sometimes. It gives him the right above everyone else to decide for bondita which till date did only good for her, even though his personal zidd was involved. So, I made peace with it. The way he got worried when bondu stopped breathing forcefully or she became ill, its not because he accepted her as his wife, its because he is a good human at heart.

Had he been an activist and if this happened to a woman who is barely associated with him, he would more or less react the same way.

Ani has a golden heart but because of upbringing and his lifestyle, he can be a royal ass or entitled prick sometimes. He is not calm and humble. "Uske iraade sahi hai uske tarike Bondu ki sangath mein teekh hojayengey" is what I feel. He will learn humility from her and work on his flaws to become a better man.

From the beginning, Ani can't let go, its not in his nature. He is unable to let go off Mini which is double standard but makes him human too. He didn't take the decision to marry bondu thoughtfully and after marriage, all he was doing is fighting with family to give bondu a home. He never got closure, or even time to process things and get closure. I guess mini reminds him of love, of romantic aspect between a man and woman and when she reminds him of bondita as his patni, bile rises in his throat. He can't see himself associated that way with a little girl and he cringes and vehemently denies.

Woh zimmedari hai actually means our relationship is purely platonic.

Mini knows Ani inside out, his flaws and weaknesses too. She is tapping into them and he is giving into that. In due time, he will understand the err in his ways.

I think it will be bondita who will fall for Ani first. He will always see their marriage as nothing but a necessity. Their age gap will be a problem for him or a matter of insecurity when she grows up if he starts feeling for her. He is against balvivah and for him to accept his marriage as valid in every sense will be tough. He will be a middle aged man, with much more self restraint in his thoughts. And bondu will teach him to embrace love in the package it comes.

Personally I am against couple with such wide gap in age, but sometimes exceptions must be made

Too much rant...

Beautiful take❤️

I know what Anirudh has done for Bondita and the sacrifices he has made for her cannot be compared. I guess it is the independent girl in me that took offence. I would rather someone let me go than consider me a burden or be with me just out of responsibility. Also I would never have allowed myself to be the backup girl in someone's life. Oh no, I would just walk away, and I have and don't regret it one bit.

I guess we just need to wait and watch and see what happens. I'm a little calmer now than yesterday. Thanks for sharing your beautiful take.

Originally posted by: leanne_1983

True! I get what you are trying to say. There is not much chance of them having a normal husband-wife relationship, and by that I mean emotionally at this point. I don't know whether I am being too harsh on Anirudh, but that dialogue coupled with the dialogues to Mini like You are my Mini, Does anyone else have the right to call you Mini etc etc....I don't even remember that crap properly, it all gave me the feeling that Anirudh is trying to give Mini the message that You don't have to go anywhere, Bondita can never take your place in my life. I mean is it fair to either of them?

It’s not fair to both of them and this is where Ani’s character starts to break. I wish Mini was never in the picture at the first place.

You know, for these type of stories, I feel that simple ones suit it the most. What I mean is that he could have came back to india and there, his family would have already had decided that he married Bondi (mom not a widow), he got emotionally blackmailed into marrying but he decides to educate her and help her grow more.

That would have been a better take on the story I feel. The only plot is him teaching her, no love triangles, no vamps, it would have been all good.

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

It’s not fair to both of them and this is where Ani’s character starts to break. I wish Mini was never in the picture at the first place.

You know, for these type of stories, I feel that simple ones suit it the most. What I mean is that he could have came back to india and there, his family would have already had decided that he married Bondi (mom not a widow), he got emotionally blackmailed into ornaments but he decides to educate her and help her grow more.

That would have been a better take on the story I feel. The only plot is him teaching her, no love triangles, no vamps, it would have been all good.

Originally posted by: pratyay

I guess at a preliminary level, ani and mini both lost the chance to be with someone they love. If one looks deeper, it can be seen that Ani has a lot more burden to bear than Mini in this matter. A guy who went against the whole village and didn't think once about anything else but saving a little girl's life, imagine how difficult it will be for him to accept that he did injustice to the girl he loved.

I don't think so when he made up his mind to fight for women, he might have thought of raising his voice for them, getting them educated, save them from sati/balvivah. He didn't expect himself to marry a little girl, solve her bed wetting problems and other stuff. Or pay such a personal price for it.

Pati hu main, patni hey woh meri...He plays this card coz "Riwaaz ki riwaaz ko kaat tha hai" sometimes. It gives him the right above everyone else to decide for bondita which till date did only good for her, even though his personal zidd was involved. So, I made peace with it. The way he got worried when bondu stopped breathing forcefully or she became ill, its not because he accepted her as his wife, its because he is a good human at heart.

Had he been an activist and if this happened to a woman who is barely associated with him, he would more or less react the same way.

Ani has a golden heart but because of upbringing and his lifestyle, he can be a royal ass or entitled prick sometimes. He is not calm and humble. "Uske iraade sahi hai uske tarike Bondu ki sangath mein teekh hojayengey" is what I feel. He will learn humility from her and work on his flaws to become a better man.

From the beginning, Ani can't let go, its not in his nature. He is unable to let go off Mini which is double standard but makes him human too. He didn't take the decision to marry bondu thoughtfully and after marriage, all he was doing is fighting with family to give bondu a home. He never got closure, or even time to process things and get closure. I guess mini reminds him of love, of romantic aspect between a man and woman and when she reminds him of bondita as his patni, bile rises in his throat. He can't see himself associated that way with a little girl and he cringes and vehemently denies.

Woh zimmedari hai actually means our relationship is purely platonic.

Mini knows Ani inside out, his flaws and weaknesses too. She is tapping into them and he is giving into that. In due time, he will understand the err in his ways.

I think it will be bondita who will fall for Ani first. He will always see their marriage as nothing but a necessity. Their age gap will be a problem for him or a matter of insecurity when she grows up if he starts feeling for her. He is against balvivah and for him to accept his marriage as valid in every sense will be tough. He will be a middle aged man, with much more self restraint in his thoughts. And bondu will teach him to embrace love in the package it comes.

Personally I am against couple with such wide gap in age, but sometimes exceptions must be made

Too much rant...

Platonic. The right word to describe their relationship now.

I feel like people are being way too harsh on judging Ani because he is suppose to be the modern thinking one from the show so they expect everything from him to be right.