Kuhu's Insecurities - Page 6

Originally posted by: SheThought

Arre Makers will make sure to create a situation where Kuhu eventually helps Abir a tiny bit with something and that will be her redemption, all that she is doing now will be forgotten in an instant.

No one in our show ever gets called out for any of their actions anyway except Mishti and Abir and ultimately these two only try and make up to everyone

So I am kind of prepared that the track will end with MishBir saying sorry to Kuhu and all the other family members.

Mishti and Abir r those people who are blamed even if there is an earthquake around like tumne predict kyun nai kiya? Most of the times I find MishBir being blamed for stupid things.

I feel like practical people they should be putting their foot down and stop pleasing the family.

@bold Oh no ye hua na toh I'll skip those episodes.

Thats why I come here before watching it. Nowadays toh its only hotstar since I can't handle Kuhu's toxicity.

Originally posted by: aquaHP

Oh god! Nobody can die from that height! Can we stop calling it an attempt to murder please, because that is not what it was.

Not saying that it was correct of her to do. Not at all. It was 100% wrong but let's call it what it was. An attempt to physically hurt. It was so not an attempt to murder. Thoda toh realistically baat karte hain. And the pills thing was an accident. Why do people talk about it as if it was intentional. She stopped herself from putting the pills in. Yes, she did not stop anyone but people do that when they don't want to be caught and blamed for something. Look at Abir for example, he is taunting everyone left, right and centre so that nobody finds out what happened. You go into fight or flight mode when things like this happen.

Also, thanks for clearing it up with your multiple replies that it was actually a post created to bash Kuhu and not understand her character because quite a few people have tried explaining it here but you seem to circle back to the only 2 incidents that paint her in a super bad light.

Kuhu attempting to hurt Mishti is a criminal act on itself.

About the pills thing. Kuhu hiding behind Parul and letting someone else get blamed for her own mistake is especially the person affected in this was her SO CALLED ABIR BRO itself proves makers have reduced her to a shallow character with no moral sense.

I really dont know if I should laugh at the CVs or really crticize them for the poor execution of Kuhu pushing Mishti during that dahi-handi, how come only Mishti gets hurt, who is on top of the pyramid, & there is such a huge pyramid, how come the other boys at bottom dont get hurt😆

trust me as someone who has seen & attended the dahi-handi so many times it was extremely lame🤣

Originally posted by: Thatgirl16

Kuhu attempting to hurt Mishti is a criminal act on itself.

About the pills thing. Kuhu hiding behind Parul and letting someone else get blamed for her own mistake is especially the person affected in this was her SO CALLED ABIR BRO itself proves makers have reduced her to a shallow character with no moral sense.

and hiding from police for 3 months after your wife accidently hurts & ends up killing a guy to defend herself is a criminal offence too

and then also fighting with your family, making false excuses to not attend your sister's wedding when actually you are doing all this to protect your wife can also be seen as the actions of a husband driven by his insecurity of losing his wife, or his insecurity that his wife will not get support & respect from his family when they will come to know of the incidence

but nobody is moral-policing him & instead trying to understand his pov & motivations

so we can try same approach for Kuhu as well if we want

Originally posted by: peacenfun

and hiding from police for 3 months after your wife accidently hurts & ends up killing a guy to defend herself is a criminal offence too

and then also fighting with your family, making false excuses to not attend your sister's wedding when actually you are doing all this to protect your wife can also be seen as the actions of a husband driven by his insecurity of losing his wife, or his insecurity that his wife will not get support & respect from his family when they will come to know of the incidence

but nobody is moral-policing him & instead trying to understand his pov & motivations

so we can try same approach for Kuhu as well if we want

Because the family have always been biased. Or who in the sane world calls a child home breaker when her parents left her. Its the parents duty to look after the child and not the other way around. Abir knows that his mother is a monster so he'll obviously take that into account.

Kuhu's insecurities have no base because its her grandparents who adopted Mishti and not her parents. Moreover to hide Mishti Abir isn't framing someone or letting someone be punished for a crime they haven't done.

Kuhu is such an insecure person who can't see another couple happy in their own world. Just because her husband isn't here with her. That is a shallow person for me.

Even if I try to understand Kuhu's character at this point makers are completely ruining it with the toxicity they fill in the character.

Originally posted by: NoraSM

@Bold

What? Is height responsible for death or physical injury? Its not that I didn't expect justification but I really didn't expect the minimum height required for people to die justification.

It wasn't "Wrong" it was a "Crime"

Do people actually believe that what Kuhu did wouldn't lead to death when kids were involved in it?

People die from slipping on the floor, There's no height limit, Kuhu wasn't being considerate when she attempted to physically hurt Mishti (As if it makes it less of a crime or makes Kuhu a better person)

I never claimed that I like Kuhu not did I claim that I want to understand her character, I have maintained, I want to understand what's the level of insecurity which leads to something like this. Kuhu gets bashed anyway, I don't have to go out of my way to create a post for it

I have mentioned many incidents in multiple posts but these two stand out for shaping my opinion on Kuhu, I don't see "She is good to Ketu, thoda crime kar liya to kya hota hai?"

@Bold: this...baki sab se toh accha hai na, bas thodi mental abuse, thodi overdose of pills ho gaya toh kya. Abhi tak log mare toh nai na...?

Originally posted by: NoraSM

@Bold

What? Is height responsible for death or physical injury? Its not that I didn't expect justification but I really didn't expect the minimum height required for people to die justification.

It wasn't "Wrong" it was a "Crime"

Do people actually believe that what Kuhu did wouldn't lead to death when kids were involved in it?

People die from slipping on the floor, There's no height limit, Kuhu wasn't being considerate when she attempted to physically hurt Mishti (As if it makes it less of a crime or makes Kuhu a better person)

I never claimed that I like Kuhu not did I claim that I want to understand her character, I have maintained, I want to understand what's the level of insecurity which leads to something like this. Kuhu gets bashed anyway, I don't have to go out of my way to create a post for it

I have mentioned many incidents in multiple posts but these two stand out for shaping my opinion on Kuhu, I don't see "She is good to Ketu, thoda crime kar liya to kya hota hai?"

Well, if you're seeing things like that, almost every character in the show (and ITV universe) is a criminal. (Mishti, Kunal, Kuhu, Naman, Nishant, Meenu and now with this current track, Abir and again, Mishti - I'm sure I'm forgetting one or two people, and incidents, more).

@bold - If that was the intent, then I guess @journalgirl321 reply was pretty apt. The level of insecurities can't really be judged because it is something that builds due to a number of things. Until and unless, we are given inner monologues for everything, we will never get to know till what amount the insecurity has risen. This kind of activity takes multiple sessions with a therapist.

Originally posted by: Thatgirl16

Because the family have always been biased.

the family can have their pov also that Abir refuses to share his troubles with them & is not letting them have Mishti meet the best doctors, like Meenu said agar 'tum bimaar ho toh main tumhara ilaaj best doctors se karwaungi' and instead is just going away from the family to Bangalore once again after coming back after 3 months

Kuhu's insecurities have no base because its her grandparents who adopted Mishti and not her parents. Moreover to hide Mishti Abir isn't framing someone or letting someone be punished for a crime they haven't done.

Kuhu is such an insecure person who can't see another couple happy in their own world. Just because her husband isn't here with her. That is a shallow person for me.

Even if I try to understand Kuhu's character at this point makers are completely ruining it with the toxicity they fill in the character.

I am sure some viewers will be finding Abir's insecurities baseless, specially when kuhu & Meenu have asked them umpteen times what is wrong with Mishti, why is she so sick & what are they hiding,

to not confide in them when they have the means, money & sources to help them would seem stupid to many, and they would be wanting Abir to have a heart to heart dailogue with Meenu & family members, explain them the whole situation, their (specially Mishti's suffering), guilt & bring them on-board to help them

also in times of crisis we have always seen Mishti-Kuhu work as a team, so I really want Kuhu to find out about the murder, because then we will see Mishku fighting together, but thats just a personal opinion

Originally posted by: peacenfun

and hiding from police for 3 months after your wife accidently hurts & ends up killing a guy to defend herself is a criminal offence too

and then also fighting with your family, making false excuses to not attend your sister's wedding when actually you are doing all this to protect your wife can also be seen as the actions of a husband driven by his insecurity of losing his wife, or his insecurity that his wife will not get support & respect from his family when they will come to know of the incidence

but nobody is moral-policing him & instead trying to understand his pov & motivations

so we can try same approach for Kuhu as well if we want

Accidentally killing someone in act of self defense is still not considered as criminal offence according to Indian law

But don't worry knowing mishti's character within one or two weeks she herself will confess her crime

Well dat's one of her positive trait, she has guts to accept her mistake n take d responsibility of it n face d consequences. She did before also she will do now also

Originally posted by: Sarcastic_me

Accidentally killing someone in act of self defense is still not considered as criminal offence according to Indian law

But don't worry knowing mishti's character within one or two weeks she herself will confess her crime

Well dat's one of her positive trait, she has guts to accept her mistake n take d responsibility of it n face d consequences. She did before also she will do now also

Well said pooja👍🏼