Originally posted by: Aleyamma47
No I NEVER DID, I NEVER SAID ARHANA ARE MATURE, but rather I meant ABOUT THEIR FIGHTS, I meant that Arhana's FIGHTS ARE MUCH MORE MATURE AND REALISTIC compared to those of Pranbir's.
Infact I agree with you that Shahana is ONE of the MOST IMMATURE CHARACTERS at present. I find both Shahana and her counterpart Sarita ji to be very very immature, but that I guess is for the COMIC RELIEF.
But when it comes to fights. Okay, I'm not really a fan of ARHANA OR RISHI-PRIYANKA OR RHEA-SANJU (I'm taking examples of these couples since we can't use any other examples), but their fights are MUCH MORE PRAGMATIC, REALISTIC AND BEARABLE compared to those of Pranbir's.
Starting with Arhana, the very FIRST MOMENT they fought was when Aryan tires Shahana by asking too many questions while she is working and she starts her usual bak...bak. Okay, now anyone in Shahana's situation would have felt irritated when she is being stopped and asked too many things while she is keenly doing something important, in the same way anyone is Aryan's situation too have got annoyed when they hear so much of non-sense coming from someone's mouth, which is why Aryan named Shahana, Sa-ha-na jaye. Now that is what I CALL MATURE & REALISTIC, their fight is very relatable to a NORMAL COUPLE'S FIGHT.
Next, Rishi-Priyanka, now there do exist OBSESSED PEOPLE like Priyanka in the REAL WORLD and that nature of hers comes out when she comes in front her LOVE. Later, her obsession creates insecurities in her and that creates fights with Rishi. Now, any normal MAN like Rishi would also normally try to avoid AN OBSESSED WOMAN like Priyanka, even tho he once LOVED HER. So, here again, MATURE AND REALISTIC.
Lastly, Rhea-Sanju, I really don't know if they are a couple, but many people consider them a couple and even suggested me their pair for my FF. The fights of Rhea-Sanju were mostly a result of the FAILURE OF THEIR EVIL PLANS. Now, why I AM CALLING THAT REALISTIC & MATURE, because most of times such failures do happen even in the EVIL PLOYS IN REAL LIFE because of someone's foolery. Here, it happened most of times because of Sanju, so it very NORMAL FOR RHEA OR ANY OTHER WOMAN TO PICK UP A FIGHT FOR HAVING SPOILT ALL OF HER PLANS. In a similar way, Sanju counter attacks on Rhea pointing out that "SHE IS NO SAINT", which is very true. Rhea too is rowing the same boat as that of Sanju, so she too has no rights to criticize him. Hence, their fights too become MATURE AND REALISTIC.
Now why I don't feel the SAME THINGS ABOUT PRANBIR is because 95% of the times, the REASON FOR WHICH PRACHI FIGHTS WITH RANBIR is because HE IS A FLIRT. Come on, I don't know what you guys think about that, but personally I felt it rather STRANGE THAT A WOMAN HATES A MAN TO THE CORE THAT SHE PICKS UP A FIGHT WITH HIM EVERY NOW AND THEN, ALL BECAUSE HE IS A FLIRT? Like Really? Personally, I felt it quite STRANGE!
Okay, that's my personal view and I am not against your like/admiration for Pranbir, because I know NOT EVERYONE CAN BE SEEING THE WAY I'M SEEING.
Personally, I never had ANY ISSUES WITH PRANBIR, but yeah I disliked the way Prachi's CHARACTER SHAPED OUT IN THE SERIES. I never felt anything wrong with Ranbir's character, but yeah THE FLAW IN DEVELOPMENT OF PRACHI'S CHARACTER is what brought in all the UNREALISTIC & ILLUSIONARY FIGHTS OF PRANBIR.
However, I should say that when I am giving the NEGATIVES, I can't GIVE A BLIND EYE TO PRANBIR'S POSITIVES! As you said Pranbir's UNENDING TRUST ON EACH OTHER is something which is really admiring about them as a COUPLE.
Secondly, I also appreciate that PRANBIR'S PLOT HAS SIGNIFICANTLY TRANSFORMED FOR THE BETTER and at present their track is really AMAZING.
I agree that I DON'T ADMIRE PRANBIR LIKE A FAN, but still I DON'T HATE THEM TOO, it's just certain things which I feel is not REALLY WELL ABOUT THEM
Atleast this is a mature discussion from your side.
You are not overly aggressive and have highlighted the negatives and positives both.
Good
This is how we can all have a healthy discussion.
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