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When Kunal asks Kuhu to help him find a gift for Mishti, and she says no as that’s not her job. Then he says that he’s requesting her as a friend and not her boss, there was something so beautiful about this scene. She feels immense joy in being labeled as a friend. Because she is realizing that she has value in his life. Now to the most endearing part; where she offers the bracelet back which was originally meant for Mishti. But he says no, it’s too late for that, it’s already yours. It was a very true statement, the bracelet was way too close to her by now but she still offered to give it back. I have a feeling she was hoping he would say no, and he did ❤️

I knew it! I had mentioned this to someone that Ritvik would take the first flight out as soon as he was sure that things were going to be okay.

Seeing pictures of the though, let's see how long it stays that way because social distancing ka to naamon nishaan nahi dikha in Shaheer, Ruslaan and the actress playing his mother. Can they not quarantine everyone on the sets for god's sake?! I'm pretty sure watching the episode will make me anxious about the lack of distance. Anyway, please enjoy this video clip from Kaveri's live if you hadn't already seen it.

https://www.instagram.com/p/CClh5oHhL81/?igshid=vs36wlxwllh

Originally posted by: aquaHP

I knew it! I had mentioned this to someone that Ritvik would take the first flight out as soon as he was sure that things were going to be okay.

Seeing pictures of the though, let's see how long it stays that way because social distancing ka to naamon nishaan nahi dikha in Shaheer, Ruslaan and the actress playing his mother. Can they not quarantine everyone on the sets for god's sake?! I'm pretty sure watching the episode will make me anxious about the lack of distance. Anyway, please enjoy this video clip from Kaveri's live if you hadn't already seen it.

I have a slight feeling that he may not want to return after what happened to KZK's shoot. I definitely wouldn't want to. But then again, this is his career at stake.

Writing this here because I have a feeling that what I have to say will not be received kindly on the LU thread 😊:

I genuinely felt horrible for Kuhu watching this episode. Kuhu has been alone for the past three months, without the person that is supposed to anchor her to that house. Kuhu has turned into what Jasmeet has become over the years, and while it's heartbreaking, it makes complete sense. No one is willing to acknowledge the work that Kuhu does for the family (the girl puts together diet plans for the family, takes care of their health, is a close support system for everyone, especially Ketu and Maami, and is now doing the tremendous task of planning Ketu's wedding, and she does this all alone), and how sad she must be feeling to be apart from Kunal. Everyone will look at Kunal's role in the family as a brother, son, and nephew, but never as a husband. And that is a very large part of the problem. If someone just took the time to acknowledge that Kuhu must be feeling at least a little sad without her husband, it would validate Kuhu's feelings, and she could take much more comfort in the fact that she is seen and understood by the family she values and loves so much.

That one line where Kuhu says, "kaash main Kunal ke paas jaa paati" was heartbreaking. And the worst part of the conversation that she had with Jasmeet wasn't what they talked about. It was the fact that Kuhu is forced to confide in someone that is not even relevant to her family's equation, and cannot see the possible implications their advice could have. If Kuhu could confide in Nidhi, Parul, or even Ketu without getting her fears brushed under the carpet, the outcome would be so much better. For a while, Abir used to be one of Kuhu's closest confidants, but that was before he felt the overwhelming obligation to side with Mishti over Kuhu out of "true love" (even though there weren't any sides to begin with, if he handled it correctly). Now that Abir can't and won't listen to her, and Kunal is not in commission (and even if he was, god knows if he'd actually listen to her), Kuhu will obviously turn to someone she knows cares about her future deeply. Unfortunately for Kuhu, what she doesn't need is a yes-man, What she needs is someone who will hear her out and provide constructive, not divisive advice.

The fact of the matter is, it is 100% possible to validate how Kuhu feels without invalidating anyone else's feelings. It's not binary in any sense. I just wish more people would see this.

Originally posted by: journalgirl321

Writing this here because I have a feeling that what I have to say will not be received kindly on the LU thread 😊:

I genuinely felt horrible for Kuhu watching this episode. Kuhu has been alone for the past three months, without the person that is supposed to anchor her to that house. Kuhu has turned into what Jasmeet has become over the years, and while it's heartbreaking, it makes complete sense. No one is willing to acknowledge the work that Kuhu does for the family, and how sad she must be feeling to be apart from Kunal. Everyone will look at Kunal's role in the family as a brother, son, and nephew, but never as a husband. And that is a very large part of the problem. If someone just took the time to acknowledge that Kuhu must be feeling at least a little sad without her husband, it would validate Kuhu's feelings, and she could take much more comfort in the fact that she is seen and understood by the family she values and loves so much.

That one line where Kuhu says, "kaash main Kunal ke paas jaa paati" was heartbreaking. And the worst part of the conversation that she had with Jasmeet wasn't what they talked about. It was the fact that Kuhu is forced to confide in someone that is not even relevant to her family's equation, and cannot see the possible implications their advice could have. If Kuhu could confide in Nidhi, Parul, or even Ketu without getting her fears brushed under the carpet, the outcome would be so much better. For a while, Abir used to be one of Kuhu's closest confidants, but that was before he felt the overwhelming obligation to side with Mishti over Kuhu out of "true love" (even though there weren't any sides to begin with, if he handled it correctly). Now that Abir can't and won't listen to her, and Kunal is not in commission (and even if he was, god knows if he'd actually listen to her), Kuhu will obviously turn to someone she knows cares about her future deeply. Unfortunately for Kuhu, what she doesn't need is a yes-man, she needs someone who will hear her out and provide constructive, not divisive advice.

The fact of the matter is, it is 100% possible to validate how Kuhu feels without invalidating anyone else's feelings. It's not binary in any sense. I just wish more people would see this.

*Edited* Thankfully, I have you❤️ who sees some depth in this story and helps me avoid watching someone else have a panic attack on screen. Can someone please get Mishti a psychiatrist? She clearly (from the captures/videos I have seen on Insta) requires professional help and not to "forget the incident". There's a limit to how much you can distract someone suffering from trauma, and that limit was crossed long back but here we are, at the 3month mark with Abir still trying to pacify her as if that is going to help. Sorry. I'm ranting now. When will we get to see mental health be properly handled on ITV?!!

*Deep breaths*

Back to your post, I don't have much to add to what you've said because I absolutely agree with it. She needs someone who would have a semblance of what the dynamics are in the RV house and give her some support. All she needs is to be seen and heard. I really don't know if the similarities between Kuhu and Jasmeet are done on purpose but if so, the writers deserve credit. Her life is clearly emulating Jasmeet's. This is probably how the amazing and sweet Jasmeet that I got to see on the PS turned into the version we see today. Seeing this makes you realise that how much a DIL's place in the family is dependent on the son. He is the one, like you mentioned, keeps the girl anchored to the family.

I won't say anything more about Abir being Kuhu's confidante because he is annoying the hell out of me for being a useless son, bro, bhai, bhanja but most if all, a useless husband for just pheko-ing lines and not helping Mishti get better. If this is something that you think can be shared with the family and they will support Mishti, then why the hell are you making her go through the trauma?! How can you be so insensitive?!!! I'm so glad I made that KuBir VM before this show came back on air because this Abir clearly doesn't have his senses intact. How can your opinion go from Bro to "she always fights" after one fight at the resort and then no contact for 3months?!! He has clearly been living in this bubble where all opinions seem to have vanished and he is holding on to the last thing Mishti mentioned in her senses. Typing this last sentence made me realise that he is also going through such a tough time because he is the caregiver in this case scenario (that he has only created by making Mishti hide this secret). Damn! I blew my own mind. I'm not so angry with him anymore but still somewhat because raita sametne ke bajaaye, he poured more raita over the existing one.

Edited by DT as talking about other threads and questioning others for their opinions is not allowed.

she has put it so well❤️

https://www.instagram.com/p/CCnFT73h_Y1/

Originally posted by: journalgirl321

That one line where Kuhu says, "kaash main Kunal ke paas jaa paati" was heartbreaking. And the worst part of the conversation that she had with Jasmeet wasn't what they talked about. It was the fact that Kuhu is forced to confide in someone that is not even relevant to her family's equation, and cannot see the possible implications their advice could have. If Kuhu could confide in Nidhi, Parul, or even Ketu without getting her fears brushed under the carpet, the outcome would be so much better. For a while, Abir used to be one of Kuhu's closest confidants, but that was before he felt the overwhelming obligation to side with Mishti over Kuhu out of "true love" (even though there weren't any sides to begin with, if he handled it correctly). Now that Abir can't and won't listen to her, and Kunal is not in commission (and even if he was, god knows if he'd actually listen to her), Kuhu will obviously turn to someone she knows cares about her future deeply. Unfortunately for Kuhu, what she doesn't need is a yes-man, What she needs is someone who will hear her out and provide constructive, not divisive advice.

The fact of the matter is, it is 100% possible to validate how Kuhu feels without invalidating anyone else's feelings. It's not binary in any sense. I just wish more people would see this.

That's the sad part. Confiding in Jasmeet is doing her no good but she's the only one who validates her feelings. Where else does she go?

From what I've read, Kuhu has a right to be exhausted and upset but as usual goes about it the wrong way.

I don't really have any faith in Kunal when it comes to 'being there for' Kuhu. When and if he comes back, the first thing he'll do is give her an earful for hurting his bhai's feelings. I don't have a problem with Kunal telling Kuhu she's wrong but it pisses me off when Kuhu's efforts and feelings are completely invalidated.

I havent yet watched the episode so I will restrict my opinions to yesterday's episode only:

1. kuhu looked ethereal in that olive dress in Mishti's dream, so this is the version of Kuhu that Mishti imagines😈 (glamourous, hot☺️ and... supportive?)

also this dream sequence was supposed to hint towards Mishti's insecurities post that hadsaa right?😉

2. Nidhi maami is still a Kuhu supporter, her dialogue 'ketu tu Kuhu jaisi good bahu banna'

3. but Ketu being subtely dismissive of Kuhu when she misses her bros & Kuhu offers her help & Ketu retorts 'mujhe lehanga final karna hoga toh main sabse pehle aapke paas aaungi' wasnt expected from Ketu, and made me feel so bad for Kuhu😭

Why doesnt anyone recognise & appreciate her efforts. She does much more than just dressing them well or decorating their house or cheering them up by her humorous ways No wonder she misses Kunal so much, nobody sees her for what she is apart from Kunal & Nidhi maami(as of now😕)

4. Parul maasi is the new addition in the mishbir cheerleader list😆 well with Kunal not in the picture someone had to fill-in🤪

5. Kunal is #kaamhimeripoojahaitypepati and kuku's major mode of communication is through each others voice-mails💔 we miss you too Kunal, please atleast call or video-call Kuhu, so that atleast we get to see you once a week

6. Meenu & the whole family miss Abir🤢 & he doesnt even know about Ketu's rishta yet😒

Hope we get more insights into each character's pov in upcoming episodes & also the suspense about the hadsaa is building up now😈

Hi guys,

So watched todays episode what a disappointment by writers who had enough time to sort out the storyline and forget about lets make Kuhu suffer and still hold her responsible.

Abir disappointes me a lot. What a hypocrite his wife can make a mistake but he felt no shame in saying that Kuhu spiked his drink. Let me make this one thing clear Kuhu did not intentially spike anyone's drink. If the spiked coffee was drunk by someone other than Mishbir it would have been passed off as an error.

I absolutely hate the fact that Kuhu has to face the consequences for her smallest mistakes whereas other people can get away with anything.

So for now I wont be returning to the show for the peace of my mind. I dont want to write paragraphs showing my anger regarding the storyline mistreatments of character/ actors. The writers have disappointed me, Kunal is just going to add to that.

If anyone else wants to take over this thread and continue please feel free.

Originally posted by: lopli

Hi guys,

So watched todays episode what a disappointment by writers who had enough time to sort out the storyline and forget about lets make Kuhu suffer and still hold her responsible.

Abir disappointes me a lot. What a hypocrite his wife can make a mistake but he felt no shame in saying that Kuhu spiked his drink. Let me make this one thing clear Kuhu did not intentially spike anyone's drink. If the spiked coffee was drunk by someone other than Mishbir it would have been passed off as an error.

I absolutely hate the fact that Kuhu has to face the consequences for her smallest mistakes whereas other people can get away with anything.

So for now I wont be returning to the show for the peace of my mind. I dont want to write paragraphs showing my anger regarding the storyline mistreatments of character/ actors. The writers have disappointed me, Kunal is just going to add to that.

If anyone else wants to take over this thread and continue please feel free.

Oh no!!!! Don't go!! Take a break from watching the show!

Better yet, join Meera's live updates (you know where😉). It's damn fun! And you don't even have to watch the damn show because she is taking one for the team (Sorry Meera! Also, thank you!). Don't go by my words. Pop in and see for yourself. (I genuinely want you to because I really think it'll cheer you up)

Leave this thread be. If you want, I'll set up the new AT when the time comes but I truly hope that by that time you'll return because we've started all ATs with some amazing KuKu scene and I hope that will be the case this time also.