Pyaar Ke Sadqay #2 Bilal Abbas Khan, Yumna Zaidi, Omair Rana - Page 10

Originally posted by: Bhatakti_atma

Ya could be. I feel he was just infatuated to her.

He was definitely infatuated...but the main reason he probably started liking her was because she was nice to him

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

Abduallah remembers Mahjabeen for the care she showed him ...be it through taking his shoes off or calling him a genius she is kind to him and takes care of his needs

Abduallah lacked this type of care and love all his life ..he got it from Mahjabeen thats why he is falling in love with her ...its only natural ..you will not fall in love with a person who disregards your needs or puts you down...

And when i talk about feminism ..i am referring to people who pick on small issue and forget the actual cause ..like i mentioned above about the Woman March in Pakistan ..i am not referring to all types of feminism ...(this is my fault as i should have made it clear above)

People will change with the right education and with the right kind of awareness ..

I have read plenty of post on Abduallah being called out for using the term khidmat since this episode...whereas no one complained in earlier episodes when Mah was actually shown taking his shoes off etc

I still feel that the shoe taking scene was a mistake on the part of the creative heads. They should have chosen something else to show this love/care aspect.

Those who are bashing Abdullah/Bilal are wrong. It's not his fault. Their intentions might not have been wrong but they did make a blunder out of the scene.

It was wrong of Mahjabeen too to do all this but that's what society has ingrained in her. I blame the society and the creative heads for the flawed aspects.

In humsafar, Asher thinks about how khirad would stay awake and give him a head massage when he had a headache not she opening his shoes right. Just bcz here they r two bawla characters doesn't make the scene right. I am sure we all would be infuriated if Asher remembered her for all this.

For the same reason I find the novel ZINDAGI gulzar hai very problematic bcz in that Kashaf does become that joote polish karne wali biwi. Of course it can be a choice but that relationship in the novel was toxic unlike the drama where Kashaf makes him fall in love with him deeper by doing little things like cooking the food he likes. But that's also problematic bcz these dramas never really show how men would do such gestures. They have divided gestures also into two kinds- men spending money and buying gifts while women doing the chores. I think it's high time we get past that.

As for feminism, each of us may have different views. But I never accept it's demonization. Feminism accepts within its fold women who engage in domestic labour. It never ridicules it. Infact it argues for its due recognition and appreciation. Without the emotional and domestic labour that our mothers engage in, the entire capitalist structure would begin crumbling.

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

He was definitely infatuated...but the main reason he probably started liking her was because she was nice to him

Ya that could be. At least she was good to him on his face

Meanwhile the Wikipedia page on Pyaar Ke Sadqay reads

"Abdullah marries Mahjabeen on the spot. He does this out of pity. This angers Sarwar, and he secretly plots to ruin the gullible Abdullah’s relationship with the ever-so innocent Mahjabeen. The plot twists and Sarwar marries Mahjabeen, as she gives her nod, to revenge Abdullah's infidelity"

I don't see this happening but why does it say so.

Check it out

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pyar_Ke_Sadqay

I guess someone edited the Wikipedia just by watching the promo of last week where mahjabeen nods her head and Abdullah signs the papers... as Wikipedia can be edited by anyone :)

We have just five episodes and next episode will be about Munshi ji so in four episode they have to cover lots of things !!

Originally posted by: Bhatakti_atma

I still feel that the shoe taking scene was a mistake on the part of the creative heads. They should have chosen something else to show this love/care aspect.

Those who are bashing Abdullah/Bilal are wrong. It's not his fault. Their intentions might not have been wrong but they did make a blunder out of the scene.

It was wrong of Mahjabeen too to do all this but that's what society has ingrained in her. I blame the society and the creative heads for the flawed aspects.

In humsafar, Asher thinks about how khirad would stay awake and give him a head massage when he had a headache not she opening his shoes right. Just bcz here they r two bawla characters doesn't make the scene right. I am sure we all would be infuriated if Asher remembered her for all this.

For the same reason I find the novel ZINDAGI gulzar hai very problematic bcz in that Kashaf does become that joote polish karne wali biwi. Of course it can be a choice but that relationship in the novel was toxic unlike the drama where Kashaf makes him fall in love with him deeper by doing little things like cooking the food he likes. But that's also problematic bcz these dramas never really show how men would do such gestures. They have divided gestures also into two kinds- men spending money and buying gifts while women doing the chores. I think it's high time we get past that.

As for feminism, each of us may have different views. But I never accept it's demonization. Feminism accepts within its fold women who engage in domestic labour. It never ridicules it. Infact it argues for its due recognition and appreciation. Without the emotional and domestic labour that our mothers engage in, the entire capitalist structure would begin crumbling.

Unfortunately there are some women who are ruining the beauty of this whole concept with their illogical rants and comparisons

I dont think Mahjabeen is capable of taking revenge in the sense that she is such a beautiful innocent soul ...taking revenge etc would not even occur to her ...she is a better person then this but she is brave enough to face Sarwar

Originally posted by: M.A.K123

I dont think Mahjabeen is capable of taking revenge in the sense that she is such a beautiful innocent soul ...taking revenge etc would not even occur to her ...she is a better person then this but she is brave enough to face Sarwar

not from anywhere mahjabeen finds abdullah accountable for her situation ...the way she says " ab Mohabbat nahi Hui toh kya kar sakte hai " she can never think of taking any revenge plus I don't think abdullah has signed the divorce papers ...washma now knows the whole truth and I feel now in last four episodes drama will lead towards the closure so mahjabeen and Sarwar marriage can't be possible but yeah I still dread somewhere !!

Originally posted by: amaya01

not from anywhere mahjabeen finds abdullah accountable for her situation ...the way she says " ab Mohabbat nahi Hui toh kya kar sakte hai " she can never think of taking any revenge plus I don't think abdullah has signed the divorce papers ...washma now knows the whole truth and I feel now in last four episodes drama will lead towards the closure so mahjabeen and Sarwar marriage can't be possible but yeah I still dread somewhere !!

I doubt it ... Munshi ji is no more and Sarwar is the reason behind it ..no way Mahjabeen will marry Sarwar now ...Abdullah will believe Mahjabeen from the next promo i have seen ... I think his actions from there my lead to Shanzay noticing his love for Mahjabeen ...she has pointed out already but termed it as guilt because Abdullah is a nice guy and is feeling bad for Mahjabeen

We may see changed in Abdullah's confidence ..he will start working for Shanzay's dad too where he will see what he is capable of ...

I think in the end it will be Abduallah who will take on Sarwar