Barrister Babu EDT|8th July 2020 - Page 13

Originally posted by: itsRitzi

Wow did this happen in yesterday's episode?

Ritz it will happen in today's epi 😊

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

I felt anger yaar honestly speaking.

I was like agar main hoti toh itne maturely kabhi nahi leti sab kuch. Jitna strongly Anirudh ne sambhala hai apne aap ko main kabhi nahi kar pati.

Galti toh tab ho na jab usse galat aur sahi ka antar pata chale. Duniya nahi dekhi hai usne. Sahi aur galat ki pehchaan nahi hai usme

Samjho baat ko. Try being in his shoes and think. Bolna bohot asaan hai ki both of them should talk and finish it off and move on par karna utna hi mushqil

Socho ki Bondita aur Anirudh ke beech problem hua and dono alag hue toh kya tum sab yahi kehte ki dono ko move on karna chaiye?

Seriously, people need to stop having soooooo much expectations from Ani.

he cant always think about bondi. He has his own thoughts, his own emotions, his family though they don’t really care about him, and he had a life way less dramatic and happier before bondi came (yes in the future he will be shown having a really great relationship with bondi but I am talking about now).

He will, I am not going to say regret, but have this feeling that IF bondi hadn’t come in my life, maybe it would have been less bad. And having that feeling doesn’t make him a bad person.

It’s a mutual feeling that every human being has. Who hasn’t had thoughts where they wished they could get rid of this person or situation in their life, not because it’s bad but because they would have had a calmer life? There’s nothing wrong with that.

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

Seriously, people need to stop having soooooo much expectations from Ani.

he cant always think about bondi. He has his own thoughts, his own emotions, his family though they don’t really care about him, and he had a life way less dramatic and happier before bondi came (yes in the future he will be shown having a really great relationship with bondi but I am talking about now).

He will, I am not going to say regret, but have this feeling that IF bondi hadn’t come in my life, maybe it would have been less bad. And having that feeling doesn’t make him a bad person.

It’s a mutual feeling that every human being has. Who hasn’t had thoughts where they wished they could get rid of this person or situation in their life, not because it’s bad but because they would have had a calmer life? There’s nothing wrong with that.

Uski bhi ek zindagi hai uska bhi ek sapna tha. He thinking that way si how a normal person would think. Galat nahi hai uska aisa sochna

But yeah jo logon ko hai na move on karne ka think if Rudhita kabhi separate hue future main toh tab bhi you all will say ki Bondi should move on and all?

Originally posted by: shadow18

Besides all these drama, I believe Anirudh and his intentions.

I mean common, we know he is Bondita's husband, he come India to change the society but we can't forget he is also a human with feelings, emotions and flaws too.

He has to marry Bondita to save her life but what about his life, he is in love with Saudamini, his childhood friend, and his first love whom he wants to marry,which none can't deny and just because he married to Bondita, all of his feelings for Mini should suddenly got dismissed. This is definitely not a human trait. Everyone needs time to move on. And this become more difficult when your first love is always around you, and especially when tries to woo you.

So, in my opinion he is just behaving like a normal person. And,I really want this to happen in a gradual way, I want Ani to cry when Saudamini get married, as mini cried for him, showing the pain of losing someone you loved the most. I want makers to show us the process of how Ani deal with his feelings, how he forget his first love and how he slowly but started accepting his relation with Bondita.

And, I also believe that keeping all his feelings aside, he will carry his responsibility in a very good manner and soon Bondita will become his "TRUE LOVE". ❤️

And, sorry if my words would hurt anyone, but what I feel, I shared. 😊

Never really thought about Ani crying for Mini but now that I think about it, it actually makes sense.

This isn’t just about if Ani loves Mini or not, it’s about Ani losing someone who was close to him. Close doesn’t need to be like really really deep relationship. It can be literally just be saying hi hello to someone on a daily basis

I would want Mini to get married on the future track. They can show how Ani deals with this and honestly, I would like it if Ani does this by himself and not with Bondi there. I love her character but it would be interesting to see Ani’s way of coping with this.

Originally posted by: bhshre95

Yup lalz somehow i felt so happy hearing that he doesn't think this marriage is a mistake or is wrong

And the way he said it smilingly❤️

And the way he answered to Bondu was beautiful❤️

Last mein his answer- abhi tum iske.liye choti ho something😳 I agree, Bondu is not grown enough to understand this answer now, maybe few years down the line she may ask again

Yeah shre 🤗

This was so soothing to see ❤️

He trying to be calmer now with bon 😳

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

I agree so much with you Lalz

His whole life has toppled from that time and we expect him to understand that he is wrong and he should move on. He has loved Mini from past so many years how can he just stop thinking

Maana ki galat lagta hai par ek baat ke liye unke POV se bhi socho. Those two are also barely adults

Unhe bhi duniya itni nahi dekhi. Even Anirudh needs a guide.

See koi aur hota ya phir main bhi hoti toh itne achhe se yeh baat nahi le pati. He has taken it maturely.

Kabhi socho jis insaan se tumne shayad se 10 saal pyaar kiya and tumhari shaadi ki baat chal rahi hai toh kya tum uss insaan ko das dino main bhool jaoge? And that too that person isnt at fault

You wont. And even Ani couldnt. And with Mini being near him its going to be even harder to forget

Exactly my point Alexia

Can't agree more

His life turned upside down in a night. He is human too, he is learning with his own mistakes nobody is teaching him or listening to his problem!

And he holding himself strong when mini is in front of him, he is still guilty for hurting mini. How could he be rude with her.? It's just stuff to be in his shoes.

He is young too. We can't expect a 20yr old to act responsible and matured enough! But still he is very responsible at his age and acting matured this guy is leading his life with principle!

Like everyone here says he is cheating because his wife is a kid! If he has to cheat he could have married mini and raise bon has his responsibility because she is a kid and she doesn't know all these ,then it were legal to have two wife. But he didn't , he chose the other side to be true to his kid wife.

I'm not defending his mistake here, but it's just that think in his pov.

Originally posted by: bhshre95

I kind of agree with you here. I would have loved it if he just shrugged her off😡 but then when i think of it, he is human too maybe he just got lost for a few moments. He loved Mini almost all his life , and he did wrong her in a way so he might be finding it difficult to be rude with her. I would give him that benefit of doubt. Maybe in the next episode he may send her away. Though i still hate that scene😡

And thing is, he is being really kind and nice to Bondu, making efforts to solve her problems

And that is something winning me over

Or maybe acche sleep ke wajah se i calmed down🤣

@bold- agree, a single scene cannot define his whole character.

Exactly shre ! I too hate that scene 😡

I just thought in his Pov! Maybe I will see in today's episode I badly want him to shrug off or be mad with mini!

@bold he is being very sweet and calmer with bon

@red tum bhi na 😆 mujhe acchi neend nahi ayi 🤣

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Exactly my point Alexia

Can't agree more

His life turned upside down in a night. He is human too, he is learning with his own mistakes nobody is teaching him or listening to his problem!

And he holding himself strong when mini is in front of him, he is still guilty for hurting mini. How could he be rude with her.? It's just stuff to be in his shoes.

He is young too. We can't expect a 20yr old to act responsible and matured enough! But still he is very responsible at his age and acting matured this guy is leading his life with principle!

Like everyone here says he is cheating because his wife is a kid! If he has to cheat you could have married mini and raise bon has his responsibility because she is a kid and she doesn't know all these ,then it were legal to have two wife. But he didn't , he chose the other side to be true to his kid wife.

I'm not defending his mistake here, but it's just that think in his pov.

I agree with everything you said except this. I am sorry but this is bothering me soo much. He didn’t even make a mistake. There is no need for anyone to defend him.

Literally, in that scene I saw nothing wrong with Ani but more with Mini. He asked her to go, she didn’t. And then she just clings to Ani like that. He seems to be thinking more and not being in-trance.

And seriously people. Cheating? Isn’t that too strong and wrong of a word to describe that situation?

If he wanted to cheat, he wouldn’t be trying to ignore Mini at all. Instead he would full on flirt with her. No one except Kaka would mind.

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

I agree with everything you said except this. I am sorry but this is bothering me soo much. He didn’t even make a mistake. There is no need for anyone to defend him.

Literally, in that scene I saw nothing wrong with Ani but more with Mini. He asked her to go, she didn’t. And then she just clings to Ani like that. He seems to be thinking more and not being in-trance.

And seriously people. Cheating? Isn’t that too strong and wrong of a word to describe that situation?

If he wanted to cheat, he wouldn’t be trying to ignore Mini at all. Instead he would full on flirt with her. No one except Kaka would mind.

Am yet to see the episode but after reading all the views here only this @ red was banging in my brain... infact I bingewatched the earlier episodes as was not so regular...

But, yes he had everychance to flirt with Mini as she never considered Bondi at all and he also not thinking Bondita as his wife could have taken advantage of the "so called" love of Mini. but he chose the other.

But to be honest no ill feelings... i did pity Mini at some point of time during the earlier episodes but not now as she has every right to feel upset, sad but has no right to play with that little girl's innocence.

Hope I am nor hurting anyone here.

Originally posted by: AnonymouslyS

I agree with everything you said except this. I am sorry but this is bothering me soo much. He didn’t even make a mistake. There is no need for anyone to defend him.

Literally, in that scene I saw nothing wrong with Ani but more with Mini. He asked her to go, she didn’t. And then she just clings to Ani like that. He seems to be thinking more and not being in-trance.

And seriously people. Cheating? Isn’t that too strong and wrong of a word to describe that situation?

If he wanted to cheat, he wouldn’t be trying to ignore Mini at all. Instead he would full on flirt with her. No one except Kaka would mind.

@bold I didn't mean this scene as mistake!

Lol when I'm disagreeing with everyone why would I term this as mistake!

I meant in different sense that I'm not defending him for his mistake in a normal sense! Not for this scene though! You just misunderstood! Maybe I'm wrong at words there!

Bechara koi react hi nahi ki usse kyun mein mistake kahun!!