Barrister Babu Chat Club #9 *Noor E Khuda Hum Teri Meherbani Barsa* - Page 35

Originally posted by: Sujz

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idk all these deaths feel very personal to me and sushant has been a part of films i loved so so so much. It's so sad that he went too soon. Wish if he'd talked to someone.💔

this year has been the worst and i am scared to see what's coming in the left 6 months.

They do want to talk to someone but they feel like they cant

They try to overcome by themselves and bottle up their feelings

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

Depression doesnt have to have reason

Even the happiest souls can feel depressed

I know it

Just stop being so insensitive people

And people should stop using the word depression so casually

These days the word depression is so casually used, they made it meaningless!

Exam mei fail toh depression, the precise thing which aren't captivated toh depression!

For God sake it's serious mental issue! The one who is going through doesn't mean mentally ill they have mixed emotions min by min! They need some love and people to lend their ears!

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Yes shre 🥱

When I read it, was really shocked!! It still seems so unbelievable😭 and it being suicide makes it all more heartbreaking💔

Wish he had some help😭 ..RIP

2020 year is seriously turning worse day by day. It seems scary

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

A person who is depressed knows how it feels

They do want to talk to someone but they feel like they cant

They try to overcome by themselves and bottle up their feelings

Much more to it!!

They are battling with their own!!

Originally posted by: bhshre95

When I read it, was really shocked!! It still seems so unbelievable😭 and it being suicide makes it all more heartbreaking💔

Wish he had some help😭 ..RIP

2020 year is seriously turning worse day by day. It seems scary

I'm shocked and disheartened 💔

What he must have gone through to take this leap!?

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Agree!

These days the word depression is so casually used, they made it meaningless!

Exam mei fail toh depression, the precise thing which aren't captivated toh depression!

For God sake it's serious mental issue! The one who is going through doesn't mean mentally ill they have mixed emotions min by min! They need some love and people to lend their ears!

I know how it hurts that one person when people use this word as if they are talking of weather

I havent experienced it but I do know a person going through it

It hurt real bad

The amount of emotions which they bottle up

And then when they burst

Its very easy to say stay easy and sucide isnt the option but when you actually go through it you feel its too hard to survive

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Much more to it!!

They are battling with their own!!

Its just that they feel you wont understand

They dont want to sound like attention seeker and hence try to help themselves

Its the bitter truth but when the suicide you can never know what they have gone through

Originally posted by: Alexia_Wilson

So true Lalz

I know how it hurts that one person when people use this word as if they are talking of weather

I havent experienced it but I do know a person going through it

It hurt real bad

The amount of emotions which they bottle up

And then when they burst

Its very easy to say stay easy and sucide isnt the option but when you actually go through it you feel its too hard to survive

Cant agree more!

Sucide isn't how they say losers and coward, it takes more courage to do so( I'm not supporting or encouraging)

Just imagine how they been through to take such decisions!

Sleepless nights, unwanted feeling more and more!

It's tuff for them to take such decisions!

Easy to compare and advice them but being in their toes feels the world upside down!

I've seen some people advise the depressed people as "It happens" ,"everyone goes through this","move on".

Goddamn please , these are the words they don't want to listen! Infact don't have to say anything just listen and give them a comfort pat or hug and let them know that you are there for them! Makes sense a lot!

"Be kind to all whoever we meet" atleast these are the small things can be done by humans!

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

Cant agree more!

Sucide isn't how they say losers and coward, it takes more courage to do so( I'm not supporting or encouraging)

Just imagine how they been through to take such decisions!

Sleepless nights, unwanted feeling more and more!

It's tuff for them to take such decisions!

Easy to compare and advice them but being in their toes feels the world upside down!

I've seen some people advise the depressed people as "It happens" ,"everyone goes through this","move on".

Goddamn please , these are the words they don't want to listen! Infact don't have to say anything just listen and give them a comfort pat or hug and let them know that you are there for them! Makes sense a lot!

"Be kind to all whoever we meet" atleast these are the small things can be done by humans!

Not many people have that much strength to do that

Its hard on them too because even they want to be happy

Even I hate it

When people advice the depressed person that "Its okay many go throught"

"Its just a phase. Afterwards you will be fine"

"You are just feeling like that it isnt actually depression"

Like listen people you dont know what they are feeling and due to such people the person in depression doesnt even want to get genuine help in fear of being misunderstood

I havent ever been depressed but I can certainly say this

Just make that person feel wanted and loved

And see the effect

A person who is depressed doesnt need anything except someone saying that they care for them

They dont need words even small gestures give them will to live

Originally posted by: --Lalz--

True indeed!!

I remember this one thing my sister told me

When someone suicides its not that they are scared and coward running from the fight of the life

Its just that they feel they dont have anyone for whom fighting will be worth it

Suicide isnt the option agreed but it wont be an option if you are there for that person

If you cant be there then you cant say anything