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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: alina.b

Ok so....I mentioned to Lavy in my FF about this but I want your guys's opinion on this...so I had an idea to write an OS after I read this debate and I remembered that Meena had mentioned something similar. Meena made a prediction that something passionate might happen before Suvan separate but everyone shot down that idea saying it was highly unlikely because they wouldn't show that on ITV especially involving teenagers. I read this debate/opinion article about premarital sex and it's consequences. In my opinion, the article was a bit biased by pushing a religious agenda since such topics are considered taboos in our society.


Anyways, I was thinking about writing an OS where Suman thinks she's pregnant but they are still teenagers and deal with the consequences. If she is or not and what decision she takes would be saved for the end. Idk should I write this? Tbh just asking this question is making me uncomfortable because we have all ages here. I won't write any "mature" scenes because well I don't feel comfortable. This isn't 50 shades of grey. But, the issue is very controversial/sensitive. So, idk if I should write and if I do, should it be marked as mature?


Alina...........it's a very appropriate topic of discussion..............whatever I learned from my friends and colleagues who are originally from India...there are many taboos or whatever way we represent....having self-control shouldn't be tagged as taboo but someone trying to teach good thing should not be flagged either........these are part of life. Teaching a healthy practice about those will help to learn better self-control.....population control and many more positive things... I guess...many girls they may not have even idea that they're abused because no one explained to them..........I believe TV shows, movie, etc. have some social responsibilities.......... they should not neglect those........

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: alina.b


Same, I don't want Suvan doing anything during their teenage years because I want their bond to be based on emotional intimacy rather than physical.

@bold - nice thought

And cute romance will be fine during these days along with Heartfelt conversation on TV

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Hmm...again, you know I won't write any detailed mature scenes...not comfortable with that. But, it will basically be discussing the issue of premarital sex which is very controversial. Tbh you would end up hearing both sides of the debate through the characters and I would present it in a way that it seems neutral because I'm not trying to tell anyone what is right/wrong. Also, they are both teenagers so that just makes the issue even more controversial. So, do you think it should be marked mature?

This seems interesting

You can tag it as 16+

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

Maybe you should put the 15+ remark and keep it limited for IF users!

It will be a different fresh concept from the normal ones and interesting to read too!

Every writer has the freedom to express his/her thoughts so even if you write your view it's alright!⭐️


Hmm...yes, that's a good idea. I will limit it to IF users only and will add like a disclaimer at the start...also kids these days have access to so much on the internet and end up losing their innocence so much earlier. My 10 year old cousin said something once and I was shocked because I definitely did not know anything like that when I was that young but she has unrestricted access to the internet nor do her parents monitor her activity. So, the reason I'm hesitant to write it is because I don't want to be contributing to that. Idk if that makes sense..

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: alina.b


Hmm...yes, that's a good idea. I will limit it to IF users only and will add like a disclaimer at the start...also kids these days have access to so much on the internet and end up losing their innocence so much earlier. My 10 year old cousin said something once and I was shocked because I definitely did not know anything like that when I was that young but she has unrestricted access to the internet nor do her parents monitor her activity. So, the reason I'm hesitant to write it is because I don't want to be contributing to that. Idk if that makes sense..

I understand your concern! Kids are given free access to internet which is wrong!

They should be taught the difference between good and bad!

Don't worry, I don't feel many kids have accounts on IF.

And all 15+ people are given education so it won't be a problem!

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Isabel


Alina...........it's a very appropriate topic of discussion..............whatever I learned from my friends and colleagues who are originally from India...there are many taboos or whatever way we represent....having self-control shouldn't be tagged as taboo but someone trying to teach good thing should not be flagged either........these are part of life. Teaching a healthy practice about those will help to learn better self-control.....population control and many more positive things... I guess...many girls they may not have even idea that they're abused because no one explained to them..........I believe TV shows, movie, etc. have some social responsibilities.......... they should not neglect those........


My thinking has changed over the years. I feel like people are judged for choices they make that really isn't anyone's business except their own as long as they are being safe and have the proper resources. But I know this topic might still make others uncomfortable.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Bye guys I'll go!

Loved catching up with y'all again!🤗

See y'all tomorrow!

Good night/day!

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Pranushka_723

Bye guys I'll go!

Loved catching up with y'all again!🤗

See y'all tomorrow!

Good night/day!


Good night! I have been on and off but will run away soon too........

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Posted: 5 years ago

Wow we got the gang together after a long time...but we were still missing half the people 😭

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Posted: 5 years ago

Hi looks like I missed the fun

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Posted: 5 years ago
hi meena
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