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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: SheThought

haha

I worked from home 3 days a week anyways and I loved it!

But now with everyone home, it is so difficult to work like this 😆

We don't even go out for groceries... just get it delivered. We only step out to get the mail from mailbox or curbside grocery delivery or put the garbage bins out once a week 😆

I read some jokes the other day:

"I am so excited - it's time to take out the garbage! what should I wear?"

"Quarantine Day 11: Went to this restaurant called THE KITCHEN. You have to gather all the ingredients and make your own meal. I have no clue how this place is still in business"

🤣

Pali🤗🤗i can't even imagine..... difficult for moms everywhere around the world

Btw are you rewatching the episodes?

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: SheThought


Oh thank you... mujhe dono se pyar hai... par mera pyar thoda conditional hai 😆 Jis din jis pe gussa ata hai, uske hisse ka pyar dusre ko chala jata hai 😆 So daily, episode ki absurdity ke hisaab se mera thoda upar neeche ho jata hai 🤣

Haan, but if I talk about expectations, mujhe Abir se thodi jyada hai. To usse gussa aur disappoint thodi jaldi ho jaat hoon ❤️


Haha, main toh kabka pakad liya tha... aaj tujhe bata diya 😆 I could see through your voter patao strategy a mile away 😆😆

Arre you don't have to tell me... I know, I know very well you are competitive! I actually adjust my posts at times to give you the leverage baby

I myself is very competitive, so main hamari majboorio ko jaanti hoon 😛

...par samay teaches you a lot of things. Dhoop main baal safed nahin hote sacchi 😎

But you know, I see my younger self in you at times...


Thanks Uru 🤗🤗🤗

It's been more than a month of quarantine here. It is playing mind games. Kuch accha nahin lagta... aur kuch karne ka mann hi nahin karta!


🤣🤣 par vo sahi tareeka hai 😆 Roz ke pyaar ke hisab ka roz tally ho jaata hai 😆 mere jaisa nahi nai , mera sirf ek din outburst aata hai 🤣

I know jisse pyaar zyada usse expectations zyada ho usi pe gussa zyada aata hai , I have noted that point


Chaaaa..itna obvious kiya kya Maine 🤣🤣🤣 itni dur se pakad liya


Really?? .....thanks for the support teacher 🤗🤗 I lobbbssssss you ❤️ haan our dimag ka competitive Keeda is 🤣 Dangerous 😆


I know I understood that, time brings experience brings wisdom brings a proper sight to deal with things 👍🏼 I am yet to learn this 😳


Sachhi its getting boring now , feels like I am in the big boss house, matlab same place some log

I am thankful for the internet though 😆







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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: meen123

Pali🤗🤗i can't even imagine..... difficult for moms everywhere around the world

Btw are you rewatching the episodes?


Meen 🤗🤗

Have started rewatching from epi 1... abhi I think I am on episode 18.

But like I was telling Uru, my ability to feel and process has gone waaayyyy down. Numb ho gayi hoon thodi and I am not happy about it...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: SheThought


Placement ka afterthought se bahot gehara naata hota hai, you know


I know

Aapka after thought ke thought ka thought main samajh gayi hun

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: SheThought


Meen 🤗🤗

Have started rewatching from epi 1... abhi I think I am on episode 18.

But like I was telling Uru, my ability to feel and process has gone waaayyyy down. Numb ho gayi hoon thodi and I am not happy about it...

pali🤗

Lockdown or story ki wajah se..maybe we need to switch this one to CC thread???

I don't have the heart in me to rewatch the episodes...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: meen123

Maine pran liya hai na Karne Ka

Bhari padta hai dilo dimaag pr😆


Sahi pran hai , main bhi le leti hun


I am still recovering though 🤣

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: -Viji-


Uru🤗 Yes longg time!

I know, i miss those old golden days right? Where we discuss all sorts of things! AT used to my go to space!

Will be online quite often now! Hope to have more and more discussions! Hope everything is fine on your end!


🤗


Yes exactly 😆 when we used to finish one AT in one day 😆


Glad to know that ❤️


Oh yes and hope it's the same at your end 😊

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Exactly😆


Nothing is impossible in ITV babe😆


One twist from my side too 🤣


What if parul is dead 😆 And lalitha massi is the new parul who wants all the property for herself 🤣 this new parul is not benba's but abir's pakki saheli 😉

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: -Viji-


I just watched Few❤️ Unke Pyaar ki kahaani unhi se sunne ka time! Ah will catch up everything, especially to hear Shah s voice❤️

when you put it like that☺️
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Onyourface


Bold - you know mini its very easy to add a "Just" in the sentence and say that arey isme kya he just loved her as herself, it must be a small thing for us but a very big thing for a girl like mishti , who has faced ample amount of rejections from all corners of her life how many people actually have the courage to accept each other just the way they are ? How many people have the courage to take a stand for someone who was barely a friend , imagine him, his brother engagement got cancelled , he is still standing there taking a stand for mishti , not only against naman but also against his mom , there was a time in the haldi track , when even bade papa and badi maa couldn't understand mishti but abir understood her beyond her words , the only one to stop her , bring her back, give her answers without even asking any questions... in her life people either left her , people either blamed her for the actions taken by her parents the ones who stayed back somewhere or the other way had some kind of expectations from her, even kunal even before getting engaged puts up a demand in front of her saying I have done so much for the family so you do something for me now ...... in the midst of people looking up to fulfill the demands , walk their paths ......there is someone who choose to understand her , who choose to accept her , who choose to cherish ans admire her the way she was ....who found her comfortable enough to share his real feelings and struggles with ,who gave her the confidence that following your own identity is right, somewhere abir also became a reason for her new found confidence and attitude in life, he taught her to dream , he taught her to let lose and be free , that's why she goes this extra mile to take care of him ....because even though abir is a banjara, but he is an anchor in her life and she knows that , she gets directionless when she is not around...and we have seen that in break up track ... he necessarily doesn't give a direction but he definitely becomes a motivation for her to find that direction....

I like the way she is courageous enough to go out of the way to protect the loved ones, even for those with whom she doesn't really share a good bond , there is a layer of unhealthuiness and it gets explored with the collateral damages that others suffer, but if you look at the bigger picture, she is the one who suffers the most because of that unhealthuiness, something which she has to realise....



Haan no running away 🤣

Exactly my point.....this is a world where acceptance is taken for granted, love is taken for granted. But the fact is that what Abir did for her should have been what she should have expected from anyone in her life. But she didn't expect anything from anyone nor did she demand anything from the relationships in her life. So,when some one treated her as a person who is worth something, she went the extra mile for him. What other people took for granted is something she treasured.

But then I believe that a person's first priority should always be themselves. Somehow, all her bonds are unhealthy because she dosn't know how to maintain healthy boundaries with people in her life. Even her bond with Abir is unhealthy and potentially harmful to herself, because she made it as such, not because Abir is the bad guy. The way a person forms attachments or relationships depends mainly on their childhood. Her way of forming a relationship is basically a form of give and take. Like if someone does something for her she doesn't merely accept it, instead she lies in wait for an opportunity to repay them. She wants to prove she is worthy of the love she is receiving.

But now there are subtle changes in her bond with Abir after marriage. She is more accepting of his love and considers it as her right. Maybe she is on the path of realisation that she should be treated like a person who deserves respect and love. She should realise that Abir is not doing her a favour instead she deserves all his love and respect.

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