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Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Many a times that’s all we will need re 😳... some peace n along time😊

I spent half an hour meditating... n I really felt good😳

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Hi my pals 🤗

hope u all are fine and had some quality home time 😳

it was an amazing site from my place at 5 😊 saw the unity of this fantabulous country 😎🤗

bangalore is in lock down

So what’s going pals 😎

Heyy cool.. i enjoyed a lot. It was amazing that the whole city, infact the nation was observing "Janta Cerfew" today. At 5, all people came out and we all banged thalis, clapped hands, used bells, shankh and wat not. We did this for 15 mins..😃

Even here in Delhi, there is complete shutdown from tomm till 31st. So finally tumhare yaha b ho gaya..and wat abt ur office..i hope ur khadoos boss has given u offs..😃

I have a story plot line in my mind. It was conceived long back and I had even started writing it on another couple. But stopped in between since I lost the inspiration. I was wondering whether I should write it on MishBir? It has nothing to do with the show and is completely set in an AU.

Originally posted by: Ashi3

I have a story plot line in my mind. It was conceived long back and I had even started writing it on another couple. But stopped in between since I lost the inspiration. I was wondering whether I should write it on MishBir? It has nothing to do with the show and is completely set in an AU.

Originally posted by: Cool_wonder

Many a times that’s all we will need re 😳... some peace n along time😊

I spent half an hour meditating... n I really felt good😳

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Bold- Tune kab farewell post banaya??😒

Yaar.....do u think its really natural Uru??🤔

One thing I liked about their equation was they were friends first that could share anything without judgement. But then it changed when they become a couple. They stopped talking to each other. Still they understood each other's emotions. But after they got married, baatein bhi samajh nahi aate naa emotions.

So is it true that ur equations change when ur relationship name changes ??🤔

I knw its true in real life for many people. But is it true for every one ??

I admit I am probably overreacting but I am just pissed.......but this sudden change hota hain kya?? Itni jaldi both of them took each other for granted??

I agree with what u and cool said.....they dnt wrk as a team. Individually kuch na kuch karte rehte hain.........aisa konsa couple karta hain ...woh bhi friends to partners???

I have seen real life best friend turned partners scenario and I liked their equation, they are friends first ....life partners baad mein. Maybe Mishbir will become a good team with time........Tab tak mera stress level saatve aasman mein hoga.......😆

Here it is

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/151869949

Oye mini tune already padh liya hai yeh post 😆

Keeping the drama quotient aside , yes its natural...the initial teething period, matlab its different than BF GF phase , now they are living together under one roof that with a big fat joint family 😆 Jahaan high level ka drama roz hota hai .. imagine 😆 upar se their respective individual struggles and their contrasting nature is allowing them to be on the same page... it's too messy at this point of time ...

Ab meri shaadi nahi Hui hai 😆 So can't really understand the exact feelings but I feel the girls are under more pressure because it's a completely new set up for them ... and in case of mishti , vo totally abir ke bharose aayi hai rv house ... so her expectations are all time high ...Regarding abir , he knows his responsibility towards mishti , like parul maasi said , it's a husband's responsibility to make a bridge between the wife and family, abir is trying to do that but here he finds meenu a threat and not kuhu ....in the process he is neglecting mishti's pov ... baaki writers are willing to stretch it more 😆😆

So now they do understand the importance of communication, the only thing is understanding and applying the concept takes some time, they are in this work in progress phase now...I can still understand the underlying emotions between them ...kuch kuch dramatic lagta hai but not everything 😆Exactly the friendship phase was the best part , it was a #NoFilterPhase .... in couple phase they took complete liberties to hide things from each other and I think they got their karma too in the form of break up 😆 Ab shaadi ho gayi hai , ab chupa ke jaoge kahan ...ek dusre ki baat sunni hi padegi 🤣

Nahi yaar , it's not true for everyone, as far as I know , it just depends .... ab yeh maths ka equation toh hai nahi ke LHS will always be equal to RHS ...😆 Different people, different couple , different ways to handle... it's also depends on the type of marriage you have ...love or arrange ...are you living in a joint family or not....your own individual personality and the general atmosphere around . tum zyada mat socho ...main bhi nahi sochti 😆 I am more like jab vo time ayega tab dekhenge ..

No no you aren't overreacting, you are right at your place 👍🏼Itna sudden nahi hota 😆 Par kisi ke ghar mein drama bhi toh itna sudden nahi hota na 😆 they do have a habit of taking each other for granted ...I am glad with this track it's a challenge to this habit now ...😛😆

Hamara ajeeb couple karta hai 😆

I agree in real life best friends turned partners do develop a sense of comfort and understanding on all levels, they are friends first and partners later ... it's a process mini and hiccups aate rehte hai ..

Koi nahi we all are in this together ...ek dusre ka stress level maange karte rahenge 🤪🤣🤗🤗

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Here it is

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/151869949

Oye mini tune already padh liya hai yeh post 😆

Keeping the drama quotient aside , yes its natural...the initial teething period, matlab its different than BF GF phase , now they are living together under one roof that with a big fat joint family 😆 Jahaan high level ka drama roz hota hai .. imagine 😆 upar se their respective individual struggles and their contrasting nature is allowing them to be on the same page... it's too messy at this point of time ...

Ab meri shaadi nahi Hui hai 😆 So can't really understand the exact feelings but I feel the girls are under more pressure because it's a completely new set up for them ... and in case of mishti , vo totally abir ke bharose aayi hai rv house ... so her expectations are all time high ...Regarding abir , he knows his responsibility towards mishti , like parul maasi said , it's a husband's responsibility to make a bridge between the wife and family, abir is trying to do that but here he finds meenu a threat and not kuhu ....in the process he is neglecting mishti's pov ... baaki writers are willing to stretch it more 😆😆

So now they do understand the importance of communication, the only thing is understanding and applying the concept takes some time, they are in this work in progress phase now...I can still understand the underlying emotions between them ...kuch kuch dramatic lagta hai but not everything 😆Exactly the friendship phase was the best part , it was a #NoFilterPhase .... in couple phase they took complete liberties to hide things from each other and I think they got their karma too in the form of break up 😆 Ab shaadi ho gayi hai , ab chupa ke jaoge kahan ...ek dusre ki baat sunni hi padegi 🤣

Nahi yaar , it's not true for everyone, as far as I know , it just depends .... ab yeh maths ka equation toh hai nahi ke LHS will always be equal to RHS ...😆 Different people, different couple , different ways to handle... it's also depends on the type of marriage you have ...love or arrange ...are you living in a joint family or not....your own individual personality and the general atmosphere around . tum zyada mat socho ...main bhi nahi sochti 😆 I am more like jab vo time ayega tab dekhenge ..

No no you aren't overreacting, you are right at your place 👍🏼Itna sudden nahi hota 😆 Par kisi ke ghar mein drama bhi toh itna sudden nahi hota na 😆 they do have a habit of taking each other for granted ...I am glad with this track it's a challenge to this habit now ...😛😆

Hamara ajeeb couple karta hai 😆

I agree in real life best friends turned partners do develop a sense of comfort and understanding on all levels, they are friends first and partners later ... it's a process mini and hiccups aate rehte hai ..

Koi nahi we all are in this together ...ek dusre ka stress level maange karte rahenge 🤪🤣🤗🤗

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Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

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Originally posted by: LetThereBeLight

Ohhh gurujiiiii 🤗🤗🤗

Ok ok now this whole post is giving some different view about both mishbir... i agree to everything you said.. after confession they were working as an individual for one or other reason n this is why most of us found the lack of communication....

its not like from start they had a clear communication but then they used to talk, even in riddle, they had understanding, they share things.. get each others opinion... like lets say mish talked with abir about courtship got is opinion n support, they used to discuss kuku, abir talked about baba, they looked so different then...

Abir supported n encouraged mishti when she wanted something like courtship, exposing ved, breaking GD, haldi one as she was forced, even the boutique one, brining back baba for him, nish mish, even for kunal truth he gave a benefit of doubt that she might have a reason... In all this he had been a witness not an active participant...

Now its about kuhu where even he is to be involved rather than being a witness... and confrontation is not his thing like you said until it has reached some breaking point... mishti once she decided she wont back off she is confrontational..

maybe if mish directly went ahead n confrontation kuhu abir would not have interfered... can i say that abir is most of the time confused on approaches n does what he feels is right at the moment, like during nish mish without kunal, naanu or maasi support abir wouldnt have known how to proceed he took their guidance but their way of explaining things to abir was different... even then he had lot of why cant we do like this, why n what if, his own input he wanted to have different approach but they made him understand...

Abir is a good supporter, with support can do things but when it comes to involving him actively n working as team he is confused n rebel type... but does think of their words when he is cool... even while painting he did think of mish words...

Mish is someone who likes to take lead, wants to do things on own but when it comes to explaining herself she gets a little staggered that time she needs support.. like courtship she knew what she wants but didnt knew how to approach n took abirs support... now its not about herself but kuhu n she wants to do something so that kuhu wont go overboard but she is not able to talk or explain properly to abir when he is in rebel mode... mish too will find a way to approach him n say clearly what she wants.. like mishbir sangeet she gave him time to cool then during chai tapri scene she explained him calmly about meenu...

They will find a way to work as team after trail n error its just we are loosing our patience.. 😆

ok i wrote alot hope something made sense 😆

Chashma n lambe baal i'm waiting for it come back in hope we will get back even the old mishbir once their identity comes back 😭

Ufffff this reminds me of so many incidents 😲 and I totally agree with your views 🤗 and you made complete sense too 🤗

Haan absolutely correct , like mini said in friendship phase they were actually very honest with each other...it was a #NoFilterPhase... they used to talk it out no matter what , there was more patience on both the sides but un dino drama bhi toh itna nahi hota tha 😆

Oh yes you pointed out so well , he wasn't an active participant before , he was just a witness but now things have changed... its ulta now, he is an active participant but not a witness

I agree if mishti had gone for direct confrontation, things would have been different for abir... infact kunal's reaction would have also played a role here for abir to understand more...actually abir listens to those who don't go on confrontational tone with him , the moment he realises that saamne vala is going on a heads on way , he will also do the same 😆 He is more like jaise des vaisa bhes...with meenu he has a different tone , with kuhu and kunal a very different tone ...he gets confrontational only when the other person tries to challenge him ( like we saw in nannu's case ) so he gets confused but then he does go for advices when needed...

I agree on mishti's take... mishti takes good decisions for others , when it comes to herself she is an over thinker but once she makes up her mind she wants to take the lead and go on a particular way ...

Actually both of them are leaders in their own way, that why it is difficult for two leaders to work as a team 😆😆 Here it's not like one will take the lead and other will simply follow ...they have to discuss and find a middle ground here...Bach ke kahaan jayenge lol 😆

Originally posted by: Gaurirane366

true🤗

Love you both❤️

Awe I love you two three free ❤️❤️🤗🤗