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Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

True 😆

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

I can totally understand Yaar 😆,believe me I too had to try really hard to empathize with her 😆

Likh rahi hu, even on wattpad everybody is literally giving me Dhamki to update rhesha story 🤣

WHAT!! really...😆

if you need help just lets us know, I am free today...🤗

Originally posted by: Npdeepa

WHAT!! really...😆

if you need help just lets us know, I am free today...🤗

Arey really moni, emojis are hell scary 🤣

Really, I really want to write teaser for the new story but not getting idea how to start, could you help

Originally posted by: yrhpk_aus

Hi moni

oh i see. I get what you mean. I see the similarity with mishbir, I personally don't think it mishbir have gotten to that critical stage at all. Abir is not asking her to change her personality, or stop being who she is, for the sake of family. He isn't explaining himself properly to her, and it appears like he's taking Kuhu's side too much. He's trying to say that Kuhu's complications and fights with Mishti cannot be handled the way Mishti has been trying to for years now. Abir is honestly the only one who can get through to Kuhu since she respects him and is ready to listen to his words.

It's just disappointing that the writing of mishbir's conversations are purposely made to seem like mishbir are fighting or breaking apart. It's not like that though. These difficult confrontations occur between newly married couples, it's natural to have differences in opinons on how to handle each other's family members. And obviously both RV family and mishti-kuhu relationships are very complicated. I also feel awful for Mishti, I can see how she feels Abir isn't listening to her. As usual like many previous tracks, they are leaving small loopholes in the writing, to cause rift between characters and continue drama. It's part n parcel of the drama shows. Things will fall into place again sooner or later, Abir will realise how badly he's hurt Mishti, through his endeavours to solve the sister's bond with his inefficient band-aid theory. It's only a matter of time.👍🏼🤗

xx don't mind my disagreement. Just sharing my thoughts

Nandu guruji 2.0 🤗🤗🤗 I am missing you and your views out here 😳 please if possible regularly aaya karo ... sometimes I feel lost with my opinion 😔, in that case I look out for your opinion.... 😎

Bold - 👏👏 I 100% agree with this thought process... bang on as usual , I am really feeling bad for mishti , after a lot of failed attempts, she has actually started to share her real thoughts with abir and at the exact same time abir is in the situation where he is clouded by meenu's thoughts ... 😔 Haha abir's theory wont work now 😆 I hope he realises this soon 😆

Originally posted by: Mimzy

Dnt even compare the hero and Abir, both are totally different.😆

But the fact is true for everyone. When two people with contrasting personalities come together, it is always difficult to understand each other and their MO(Applicable for friends also ). Mishti who is confrontational is unable to understand Abir and Abir who is non confrontational with people is unable to understand Mishti. There is no problem in being different and having fights is normal in any relationship especially in the initial stages. But the fact is I can't understand the whole hypocrisy after they got married. Before marriage he was like encouraging her and all, now he is saying her methods are not right. He knew before also she was like that. Why calling her out now?? If he is calling her out, atleast make her understand why u are making this decision. As long as she didn't question him and followed him he was okay. He was not bearing brunt of her attitude ryt?? Others were the victims. Now that she is questioning him and his actions, somehow her MO is not right.I knw I am being harsh, par mujhe aisa hi feel ho raha hain with the character graph. Seems like a contrived fight like the brrakup thing. I am not able to digest this frankly speaking. Some actions of Abir doesn't go along with his character and is designed for a particular track. Like the pushing and all in breakup and now this. I wish they stopped meddling with him.

Oh the breaking down scene, I was talking abt Kuhu and Mishti infront of Maheshwari family not Abir or Kunal. Abhinal is actually transparent infront of the family, but not so in case of the sisters. Both are playing the roles Maheshwari family has tailored for them, the good girl and the immature one. But their actual personalities cannot be confined to this tag.

Oh btw my conclusion from the recent episodes is Abir and Kunal are alike amd Mishti and Kuhu are alike.

The girl who spoke about her equation with Kuhu only one day back with Abir, is now suddenly bitching about Kuhu infront of Kunal. Wonderful. She never even felt comfortable talking abt Kuhu to Abir, suddenly she is comfortable with Kunal??

🤣yes ofcourse, Abir is one of a kind. None like him before nor after.

I understand your frustration and disappointment, I'm also confused with the inconsistent writing. But I'm gonna have to agree to disagree with some of your points about current Abir n Mishti's dynamics, it's quite complicated, but yes a clear simple deep conversation is all they need. The writers are being the big obstacle for that. So we'll just have to accept and go with the flow.

@Bold: oh i see...that's a very nice idea. Yes the maheshwari family are living in this unbelievable fake bubble in regards to the sisters. At least Abir has a band-aid theory and work on it. Here BP BM varsha and shaurya have turned a complete blind eye to mish-ku problem, they've raised them from young, but still don't understand or see the severity of their issues. They just try to cover it up superficially and end up putting more pressure on them to make sure they keep the RV bro's bond intact🤔 Mish-ku bond is very much more deep-rooted and complex than just the obedient sister and the immature one. Sadly the writers are not exploring and dealing with these issues, properly but rather just making more drama mess.

Vaishnavi wattpad par rhesha ki story upload kar di ye??

Originally posted by: MishBirStruck

Arey really moni, emojis are hell scary 🤣

Really, I really want to write teaser for the new story but not getting idea how to start, could you help

Journalist and actor one na...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Welcome to AT eighty one

I am missing the old mishbir fun

Kuchh bolne ka nahi karta mann

This is absolutely not done

Ab toh rhyme bhi ho raha mujhse

I am actually watching the old episodes...makes me realise what a master piece it was , I mean it still is on many levels when there were no unnecessary justifications for what they do , the story was so straight crisp and clean ...and so were the characters.... and the pace was so dheere dheere , like viewers ko time milta tha , to digest everything...

So even after courtship they don't know how to work as a team then what's the use of courtship Its like extra classes lene ke baad bhi exam mein toh mediocre performance hi di sorry for the lame comparison but still

So much to delay abir not listening to mishti .. . Kuchh bhi ...abir was always shown to be a good listener... especially when it comes to mishti .. this is for abir then

Sun abir sun

Mishti ki baat ki dhun

Usne tera perspective chunna

Tu bhi uska Chun Chun Chun Chun

Cool wrote one bhramastra line - they need to work as a team ...

that's the thing , they have to learn to work as a team ... fighting your own battles and thinking that other one has to understand my thoughts will not solve the purpose now

Now I actually doubt the whole idea of courtship actually If they didn't learn how to work as a team, then what is the whole point of knowing each other before marriage , sirf ek dusre ko jaan liya , sikha kuchh nahi It's more like choti choti test se kuchh nahi hota , real exam aaye toh pata chalta hai kaun kitne paani mein hai ... but they have developed a strong bond, thanks to the bitter past experiences...they very well know how life is without each other and that's why the over layer of protectin comes for each other

If you notice , after kuku shaadi track, these two have stopped working as a team, they take decisions on their own even when the decision is about "them" .... we can give justifications that achha yeh reason tha isiliye nahi bataya n blah blah blah lol but the reality is that the team factor was always missing , it was more like one does something and the other fixes it up without the first one having no idea what the other one is fighting for and the other one having no idea what the first one is fixing up They were trying to solve out things with their own perspectives being a priority thereby inviting a lack of communication ...creating collateral damages on both the sides for each other Then again the process of fighting and fixing starts

Now with marriage, this dynamics is changing, now lack of communication and only thinking from individual perspective will not lead then anywhere....they both want to solve their respective puzzles ( meenu and kuhu ) but they aren't aware that their own individual puzzles will get solved only when they will find the missing pieces and that missing pieces are there with each other ... so a flawless communication without arguments will only solve the purpose ... this kind of communication is a new thing for both of them actually And whenever we come across a new thing in life , it takes time to adjust to the changes... as I said , it will take then trial and errors to come on the same page. Aisa lagta nahi tha AM ke saath aisa hoga lekin ho raha hai

Their fights seems very natural to me actually , abir has this character trait where after a certain point he can't take arguments, and he walks out , next day he starts a fresh after having a break ...its not like he dosent listen, he does but for him the tone matters ( we have seen this with meenu ) ... and mishti who is actually confrontational and she dosent shy away from putting across her thoughts , its like now or never for her when she decides that bas ab bohot ho gaya ( we have seen it with kunal ) ....so a kind of their core traits are coming across each other in such a way where they are actually working for the betterment for each other but it seems that they aren't concentrating on each other , but in reality they are concentrating on each other only, abir's puzzle ends with saving mishti from meenu's big plan , he has seen the extent of hate meenu has for mishti that she blames mishti for even bringing baba back ( that time mishti ko idea tha ki baba aise niklenge ) and mishti's puzzle ends when she puts forth the real intentions of kuhu behind the coffee thing and photo frame thing in front of abir so that abir can get a clear picture about kuhu...he hasn't seen the side mishti has seen ... for the first time their core traits are against each other it's an internal battle that they are fighting and I don't know for wired reasons I am enjoying it *dont kill me for this * the story still intrigues me to see how they will reach on the same page , as usual after every track abir will join his hands and say I am sorry

I have seen couples fighting and wife saying mein ghar nahi jaungi and husband be like theek hai mat aana I am going but then they realise arey re baba blunder ho gaya mishti should actually say " jaa abir jaa jee le apni zindagi" 🤣🤣

aisa hota hai , when we are at our emotional peak we do tend to say things that we dont mean , anger hoti hi aisi chez hai ... this reminds me of one more incident in AM's life, if you all remember that eye surgery thing ...mishti was so tensed and hurt too , she wanted to straight away say no to kunal but was struggling with her words , at that time abir actually stood up for her but she was all stressed and said " ankhein meri , surgery meri , tumhara kya hai " .. actually she liked what he said but she was at her emotional peak ... I know that time they were Just friends and now they are husband and wife so can't compare the incidents , also I am not saying ke mishti is also like this, I am just saying we sometimes become mean and we always don't mean what we say ...in the end she did follow abir's advice and didn't change her mind on surgery thing , m sure abir too will follow her advice soon

I was actually finding it so relatable and funny on their characters yesterday but then yahan sab serious chal raha tha toh main kuch boli nahi

Vaise I really feel vo mishbir 1.0 koi aur hi the , mera farewell post banane ke baad chale Gaye sach mein n lambe baal n chasma

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Stay safe

Stay healthy

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Bold- Tune kab farewell post banaya??😒

Yaar.....do u think its really natural Uru??🤔

One thing I liked about their equation was they were friends first that could share anything without judgement. But then it changed when they become a couple. They stopped talking to each other. Still they understood each other's emotions. But after they got married, baatein bhi samajh nahi aate naa emotions.

So is it true that ur equations change when ur relationship name changes ??🤔

I knw its true in real life for many people. But is it true for every one ??

I admit I am probably overreacting but I am just pissed.......but this sudden change hota hain kya?? Itni jaldi both of them took each other for granted??

I agree with what u and cool said.....they dnt wrk as a team. Individually kuch na kuch karte rehte hain.........aisa konsa couple karta hain ...woh bhi friends to partners???

I have seen real life best friend turned partners scenario and I liked their equation, they are friends first ....life partners baad mein. Maybe Mishbir will become a good team with time........Tab tak mera stress level saatve aasman mein hoga.......😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Hi pali

Ek baat kahun .... I have seen certain members did have a different pov since the very beginning of the show , it's not a today thing , it was there from the very beginning...so let it be , aise drastically opposite views ho sakte hai , kahaan nahi hote .... yeh toh serial ki baat hai , real life mein bhi kitni jagah aisa chalta rehta hai...

you were bang on khidki tod replies ... and I love you for that, except a few points on abir, I agree to everything that you said but its okay, if still its difficult to come on the same page then leave it yaar..

pata hai once I was so upset and I decided to leave the forum , you said mat jao , I am like abir in the forum, can I say something now and I really mean that...if I am abir, you are adorable mishti in the forum , sensible smart lovely fierce (aur mein kabhi kabhi amul butter laga leti hun ) like main sahi likhna chahti hun , aap sahi likhte ho and I love you for that ...

Pata hai I am watching the old episodes, baap re kya din the vo jab baal the aur baal analysis bhi arey I am missing mishbir 1.0 badly ...

And as a teacher aapne hamesha mujhe hw diya hai na , today badla time , I am giving you an order- no going down down down ..mera haath pakdo aur upar aao

Regarding nannu, i saw that video too don't worry he isn't coming back ( main supposedly nannu lover aapko keh rahi hun) he was talking about other show a new show as in not this one ... also I think he got a gujju movie so his chances of coming back are slim, very slim ...

Toh @UskiVichar ... kya hai aapke vichar?

Your funny , lovely and very irritating student

Uru

PS: Nirnal anand ki Jay 🙏

aww uru "soo sweeet" *Abir style* 😉🤗

@bold: that is such a beautiful compliment👏❤️ Pali and Uru make the best team!! "more power to you both"😃

Pali you really do have such a unique trait and talent to be able to put out the truth but also troll the story n characters with such finesse and entertaining way. 👍🏼

Guruji ofcourse you have an awesome way with words that not only make us laugh, but teach us something new each time you give your khidki tod analysis posts👏

Love you both xx❤️

Pali! we won't let you go down. We're all in this together.🤗

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Welcome to AT eighty one

I am missing the old mishbir fun

Kuchh bolne ka nahi karta mann

This is absolutely not done

Ab toh rhyme bhi ho raha mujhse

I am actually watching the old episodes...makes me realise what a master piece it was , I mean it still is on many levels when there were no unnecessary justifications for what they do , the story was so straight crisp and clean ...and so were the characters.... and the pace was so dheere dheere , like viewers ko time milta tha , to digest everything...

So even after courtship they don't know how to work as a team then what's the use of courtship Its like extra classes lene ke baad bhi exam mein toh mediocre performance hi di sorry for the lame comparison but still

So much to delay abir not listening to mishti .. . Kuchh bhi ...abir was always shown to be a good listener... especially when it comes to mishti .. this is for abir then

Sun abir sun

Mishti ki baat ki dhun

Usne tera perspective chunna

Tu bhi uska Chun Chun Chun Chun

Cool wrote one bhramastra line - they need to work as a team ...

that's the thing , they have to learn to work as a team ... fighting your own battles and thinking that other one has to understand my thoughts will not solve the purpose now

Now I actually doubt the whole idea of courtship actually If they didn't learn how to work as a team, then what is the whole point of knowing each other before marriage , sirf ek dusre ko jaan liya , sikha kuchh nahi It's more like choti choti test se kuchh nahi hota , real exam aaye toh pata chalta hai kaun kitne paani mein hai ... but they have developed a strong bond, thanks to the bitter past experiences...they very well know how life is without each other and that's why the over layer of protectin comes for each other

If you notice , after kuku shaadi track, these two have stopped working as a team, they take decisions on their own even when the decision is about "them" .... we can give justifications that achha yeh reason tha isiliye nahi bataya n blah blah blah lol but the reality is that the team factor was always missing , it was more like one does something and the other fixes it up without the first one having no idea what the other one is fighting for and the other one having no idea what the first one is fixing up They were trying to solve out things with their own perspectives being a priority thereby inviting a lack of communication ...creating collateral damages on both the sides for each other Then again the process of fighting and fixing starts

Now with marriage, this dynamics is changing, now lack of communication and only thinking from individual perspective will not lead then anywhere....they both want to solve their respective puzzles ( meenu and kuhu ) but they aren't aware that their own individual puzzles will get solved only when they will find the missing pieces and that missing pieces are there with each other ... so a flawless communication without arguments will only solve the purpose ... this kind of communication is a new thing for both of them actually And whenever we come across a new thing in life , it takes time to adjust to the changes... as I said , it will take then trial and errors to come on the same page. Aisa lagta nahi tha AM ke saath aisa hoga lekin ho raha hai

Their fights seems very natural to me actually , abir has this character trait where after a certain point he can't take arguments, and he walks out , next day he starts a fresh after having a break ...its not like he dosent listen, he does but for him the tone matters ( we have seen this with meenu ) ... and mishti who is actually confrontational and she dosent shy away from putting across her thoughts , its like now or never for her when she decides that bas ab bohot ho gaya ( we have seen it with kunal ) ....so a kind of their core traits are coming across each other in such a way where they are actually working for the betterment for each other but it seems that they aren't concentrating on each other , but in reality they are concentrating on each other only, abir's puzzle ends with saving mishti from meenu's big plan , he has seen the extent of hate meenu has for mishti that she blames mishti for even bringing baba back ( that time mishti ko idea tha ki baba aise niklenge ) and mishti's puzzle ends when she puts forth the real intentions of kuhu behind the coffee thing and photo frame thing in front of abir so that abir can get a clear picture about kuhu...he hasn't seen the side mishti has seen ... for the first time their core traits are against each other it's an internal battle that they are fighting and I don't know for wired reasons I am enjoying it *dont kill me for this * the story still intrigues me to see how they will reach on the same page , as usual after every track abir will join his hands and say I am sorry

I have seen couples fighting and wife saying mein ghar nahi jaungi and husband be like theek hai mat aana I am going but then they realise arey re baba blunder ho gaya mishti should actually say " jaa abir jaa jee le apni zindagi" 🤣🤣

aisa hota hai , when we are at our emotional peak we do tend to say things that we dont mean , anger hoti hi aisi chez hai ... this reminds me of one more incident in AM's life, if you all remember that eye surgery thing ...mishti was so tensed and hurt too , she wanted to straight away say no to kunal but was struggling with her words , at that time abir actually stood up for her but she was all stressed and said " ankhein meri , surgery meri , tumhara kya hai " .. actually she liked what he said but she was at her emotional peak ... I know that time they were Just friends and now they are husband and wife so can't compare the incidents , also I am not saying ke mishti is also like this, I am just saying we sometimes become mean and we always don't mean what we say ...in the end she did follow abir's advice and didn't change her mind on surgery thing , m sure abir too will follow her advice soon

I was actually finding it so relatable and funny on their characters yesterday but then yahan sab serious chal raha tha toh main kuch boli nahi

Vaise I really feel vo mishbir 1.0 koi aur hi the , mera farewell post banane ke baad chale Gaye sach mein n lambe baal n chasma

________

Stay home

Stay safe

Stay healthy

😊

Ohhh gurujiiiii 🤗🤗🤗

Ok ok now this whole post is giving some different view about both mishbir... i agree to everything you said.. after confession they were working as an individual for one or other reason n this is why most of us found the lack of communication....

its not like from start they had a clear communication but then they used to talk, even in riddle, they had understanding, they share things.. get each others opinion... like lets say mish talked with abir about courtship got is opinion n support, they used to discuss kuku, abir talked about baba, they looked so different then...

Abir supported n encouraged mishti when she wanted something like courtship, exposing ved, breaking GD, haldi one as she was forced, even the boutique one, brining back baba for him, nish mish, even for kunal truth he gave a benefit of doubt that she might have a reason... In all this he had been a witness not an active participant...

Now its about kuhu where even he is to be involved rather than being a witness... and confrontation is not his thing like you said until it has reached some breaking point... mishti once she decided she wont back off she is confrontational..

maybe if mish directly went ahead n confrontation kuhu abir would not have interfered... can i say that abir is most of the time confused on approaches n does what he feels is right at the moment, like during nish mish without kunal, naanu or maasi support abir wouldnt have known how to proceed he took their guidance but their way of explaining things to abir was different... even then he had lot of why cant we do like this, why n what if, his own input he wanted to have different approach but they made him understand...

Abir is a good supporter, with support can do things but when it comes to involving him actively n working as team he is confused n rebel type... but does think of their words when he is cool... even while painting he did think of mish words...

Mish is someone who likes to take lead, wants to do things on own but when it comes to explaining herself she gets a little staggered that time she needs support.. like courtship she knew what she wants but didnt knew how to approach n took abirs support... now its not about herself but kuhu n she wants to do something so that kuhu wont go overboard but she is not able to talk or explain properly to abir when he is in rebel mode... mish too will find a way to approach him n say clearly what she wants.. like mishbir sangeet she gave him time to cool then during chai tapri scene she explained him calmly about meenu...

They will find a way to work as team after trail n error its just we are loosing our patience.. 😆

ok i wrote alot hope something made sense 😆

Chashma n lambe baal i'm waiting for it come back in hope we will get back even the old mishbir once their identity comes back 😭