Cracks...or no cracks?

I am talking about that in-famous pre-cap now!😆

So does everyone think Misbir are cracking...or not?

Their love is strong, they believe in one another and I personally think they will not crack so soon. Yes, they are having teething adjustment in their new role as husband and wife. The best of soulmates will have trouble adjusting, slight hiccup...no one can ever step from one situation to another without the littlest stumble. So when once they are joined in hip, as GF and BF, they are now stumbling a bit as husband and wife. Both have different ideas and solution. Both are very strong minded -yet would give the world for the other.❤️

So going back to that pre-cap, misleading as usual. Abir would definitely stay back, and that third prson in the car would be Meenu - she has most awful luck in strumbling across the lovers (remember that jungle in off-site? no one finds MIsbir yet she manages to get there!😲😆). Mishbir would romance one another and then more little cracks and the circle continues....🤣 What Abir said is true, Mishti is like a positive Meenu...doesn't the saying goes like this? girls look for their father's character in their partners...so why not the same for boys? I bet Abir's initial attraction to Mishti was because she was strong and true to her her word, just lik Meenu. In case of course things are being taken out of context for hurt to occur so of course sweetness can follow...the way of all lovers.

I find it interesting this aspect of their relationship so I suppose I am more patient then most. I see the love in the littlest action, the caring, that just because they are siding with others does not mean they forgot their love. Like I said before in my many threads, Abir and Mishti are shoring up their 'pillars' and Kuhu at the moment is their weakest link. I am not bothered with the forming of camps - as many know - I predicted that weeks ago so I know it is because of the what is coming ahead.....

I only fear their love being used against one another and it will soon go that way....😒

So what do you think?

i think first it will be cracks and then when they realise they are sinking without each other... they will talk and become one team and fight back with the situations...

So, I don't know about cracks and all. I haven't thought that deeply into this as of now and I want to see the episode for what it is. But truthfully, I don't think they are cracking. They haven't had to think about maintaining peace in the family as a couple. Sure, they've talked about it multiple times before but it was giving advice to each other for their respective families. Now, they both have a say in the matter. This all sounds very jumbled. Wait!

Basically, what I am trying to say is that before, when Mishti used to advice Abir about his family members, he could listen to the advice and decide how he wanted to go forward and he wouldn't be answerable to Mishti and she would never ask also. But now, since she is married and part of the family, the things she says and the advice she gives hold a more important place. Mishti expects Abir to be answerable and tell her his gameplan but Abir seems to be still stuck in old patterns. The shift probably hasn't dawned on him. I would assume that has to do with him being the guy and not having to leave his house after marriage. For the girl, the shift in her surroundings is much more apparent than the guy.

Whatever the reason for the conflicts, I am glad that the writers have taken this route because after this double marriage, I was hoping to see 2 sets of couple dynamics:

1. Lovers having to adjust in a family environment and understand the dynamics

2. Two people more focussed on the family than their own relationship trying to be a couple

I am really glad that I am getting to see both these stories with MishBir still grasping how their relationship fits within the family and KuKu trying to understand where they fit in each other's lives.

I don't think it would be bad to see some conflict between MishBir, only for them to resolve them and become even stronger. Relationships that face trials and come out of them are usually the strongest kinds of relationships. Plus, there is the fact that they've never had to worry about a collective family dynamic and how they should be integrating their relationship into that dynamic. The one thing I'd hate though, is to see their relationship follow in the footsteps of the parent show's lead couple, in which the couple splits over and over and over again just to come back together over and over and over again. That would be horribly tiresome.

Originally posted by: aquaHP

So, I don't know about cracks and all. I haven't thought that deeply into this as of now and I want to see the episode for what it is. But truthfully, I don't think they are cracking. They haven't had to think about maintaining peace in the family as a couple. Sure, they've talked about it multiple times before but it was giving advice to each other for their respective families. Now, they both have a say in the matter. This all sounds very jumbled. Wait!

Basically, what I am trying to say is that before, when Mishti used to advice Abir about his family members, he could listen to the advice and decide how he wanted to go forward and he wouldn't be answerable to Mishti and she would never ask also. But now, since she is married and part of the family, the things she says and the advice she gives hold a more important place. Mishti expects Abir to be answerable and tell her his gameplan but Abir seems to be still stuck in old patterns. The shift probably hasn't dawned on him. I would assume that has to do with him being the guy and not having to leave his house after marriage. For the girl, the shift in her surroundings is much more apparent than the guy.

Whatever the reason for the conflicts, I am glad that the writers have taken this route because after this double marriage, I was hoping to see 2 sets of couple dynamics:

1. Lovers having to adjust in a family environment and understand the dynamics

2. Two people more focussed on the family than their own relationship trying to be a couple

I am really glad that I am getting to see both these stories with MishBir still grasping how their relationship fits within the family and KuKu trying to understand where they fit in each other's lives.

That's so brilliantly put.

I have something to write regarding the current scenario hopefully am able to make some sense.

Originally posted by: beguiling

That's so brilliantly put.

I have something to write regarding the current scenario hopefully am able to make some sense.

Thank you Nikkie!!🙆🏻‍♀️

I'll be waiting read your take. I'm pretty sure your post will have some gems that I hadn't thought of, as usual.

Originally posted by: aquaHP

Thank you Nikkie!!🙆🏻‍♀️

I'll be waiting read your take. I'm pretty sure your post will have some gems that I hadn't thought of, as usual.

Thanks buddy. You are very kind.

Originally posted by: ruhi19

i think first it will be cracks and then when they realise they are sinking without each other... they will talk and become one team and fight back with the situations...

Yeah I think so as well.

See it would not be a love story if all they did was gaze at the stars and whisper in each other's ears!

We need to see sadness, tears, happinss, joy and of course being with each other through thick and thin. Things like this makes you strong in a relationship because you will see the true nature of your soulmate. You will see even if he does not support you in little things but in big things he will have your back and hold you tight. As this is a show, we will of course see lot of Mishbir fear play out..❤️

Originally posted by: aquaHP

So, I don't know about cracks and all. I haven't thought that deeply into this as of now and I want to see the episode for what it is. But truthfully, I don't think they are cracking. They haven't had to think about maintaining peace in the family as a couple. Sure, they've talked about it multiple times before but it was giving advice to each other for their respective families. Now, they both have a say in the matter. This all sounds very jumbled. Wait!

Basically, what I am trying to say is that before, when Mishti used to advice Abir about his family members, he could listen to the advice and decide how he wanted to go forward and he wouldn't be answerable to Mishti and she would never ask also. But now, since she is married and part of the family, the things she says and the advice she gives hold a more important place. Mishti expects Abir to be answerable and tell her his gameplan but Abir seems to be still stuck in old patterns. The shift probably hasn't dawned on him. I would assume that has to do with him being the guy and not having to leave his house after marriage. For the girl, the shift in her surroundings is much more apparent than the guy.

Whatever the reason for the conflicts, I am glad that the writers have taken this route because after this double marriage, I was hoping to see 2 sets of couple dynamics:

1. Lovers having to adjust in a family environment and understand the dynamics

2. Two people more focussed on the family than their own relationship trying to be a couple

I am really glad that I am getting to see both these stories with MishBir still grasping how their relationship fits within the family and KuKu trying to understand where they fit in each other's lives.

Oh Aqua, you explained it beautifully!👏⭐️🤗

Exactly what I had been saying. Before they were GF/BF and going back to their own home. But now they are living in this place where others do as well and have to look outside their immediate relationship and sometimes other people's views/feelings/opinions will be taken before their partner.

Yes this is what we are seeing. So that pre-cap is just another difference...and we will see more of it. Abir is not dismissing Mishti's words or concerns, instead he is internalising it for the moment, but he has to think of the bigger picture. Little thing like that will not crack them...long run it will make them stronger...of course BigBen is waiting in the corner and will try to wedge a crack between them. She will only succeed if they let her.

Men and women do see things differently. Women are more emotional ie things are viewed with emotions and men more pragmatic.

Originally posted by: journalgirl321

I don't think it would be bad to see some conflict between MishBir, only for them to resolve them and become even stronger. Relationships that face trials and come out of them are usually the strongest kinds of relationships. Plus, there is the fact that they've never had to worry about a collective family dynamic and how they should be integrating their relationship into that dynamic. The one thing I'd hate though, is to see their relationship follow in the footsteps of the parent show's lead couple, in which the couple splits over and over and over again just to come back together over and over and over again. That would be horribly tiresome.

I so agree with you about everything but especially the purple.👏👍🏼

Please do not get me started on the PS, it is like a big joke!🤣

Mishbir in that respect are older and wiser. What we had seen so far is both are good together. When everyone else around them fails them, they turn to one another and become a solid foundation so I hope we will see this in between some conflicts, which is natural.

However, some of it is gearing up to something big but I really hope Mishbir will get up, lick their wounds and continue loving. Hate seeing contrived conflicts!😛