Meenu ki sachchai 🙊 - Page 9

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Woah I love the discussions on abir meenu dynamics One of my fav bond in show , very very interesting discussions I must say, I will not go for a repeat telecast of what is already written but will write something else here

If you all have read my coffee analysis, from the very beginning it was a clear worrying thought on abir's mind about how parul becomes meenu's scapegoat and has to suffer through the collateral damages because of it , that's why he asked kuhu to apologise to parul first , carefully note kuhu's words here, " I would have defended you but my family dosent know who are you " .... clearly this shows that parul's status in the family gives everyone liberties to put the blame on her and then also not support her at right times , even jas suggested kuhu to put the coffee blame on parul ...why ...because she is just a servant, even If she says anything in her defense, people won't believe and that's why people like nidhi get chance to raise fingers at parul ...therefore there is a level of urgency to give parul the recognition that she deserves and it was long overdue

Even kunal was shown to be upset with the servant , abir just gave him a permanent solution there , that unless you acknowledge it , others won't take it seriously, because only and only kunal is parul's biological son hence only his acknowledgement will give parul the sense of dignity and respect in the family, it was kunal came to ask for advice to mishti and abir , they just said a simple thing , mishti just said it's all about accepting, we can't change our parents , I accept that my parents aren't good persons but I was lucky to have been raised by BM BP , but my case is completely different from yours , your real mom is not a bad person infact she is a gem , so you shouldn't be having any problem in acknowledging her and what abir told is just that one day you will have to accept it , its upto you , you want to delay it and keep shutting others or you will accept it at once and end it , it's all your decision, he just showed the correct way according to him , chalna na chalna kunal ki marzi thi ...and in either case abir would have supported him ... all mishbir wished is that kunal accepts that parul is his maa ...only addressing parul as maa would have been enough ...even if ribbon cutting thing would have not happened then also AM would have been this happy only

Coming to the saree part , it wasn't a calculated move at all , Mishbir wanted to gift it to parul as it was a big day in rv family and more because she is kunal's mom , did you notice how those reporters commented on parul's attire and said she is a servant, so they just wanted to make her look that she is a family member and not just a servant ....it was purely out of fondness and admiration for parul ...just like how kuhu happily selected saree and jewellery for meenu

This is how kunal is , he has a bit touch of insensitivity and that's how his character is designed to be , honestly he is the most straight forward person in the show , ever wondered why he dosent get monologue ? Because he always speaks his mind #NoFilter , hate , love, anger ...everything is out there in the open.... notice the way he gives divorce papers to kuhu, at a navratri celebration pandal in public that too on the day they won best Jodi award ......notice the way he gave prenup papers to mishti .... entering her house with a lawyer that too on the day mishbir rishta got fixed, and now also his acknowledgement comes on the red pair anniversary day ....in front of all the media and mahs.... he wasn't wrong from his side , his only mistake was he didn't inform anyone , just like how he didn't inform anyone before presenting divorce or prenup papers .... honestly abir didn't knew what kunal was going to do but the way kunal approached meenu , abir guessed it that kunal will ask parul to cut the ribbon as well ....and that's why abir came forward to explain kunal's stand before anyone misunderstands ...

He beautifully explained the yashoda kanha and devaki part .... thereby actually giving a grand status to meenu here by acknowledging that she was the one who chose to raise kunal and the world will always remember her for all the days as kunal's maa in a rightful way but today just today since kunal has acknowledged parul by calling her maa, we should give her one day to feel happy and respected for this ...that's all ...from abir's side it was just a way to give some respect to parul that she deserves ....honestly cutting a ribbon dosent snatch anything from meenu ....parul dosent become of the owner of red pear nor she becomes the captain of the house or anything, neither mehul topic was out that would present a story to them or something.....it's just now the world will think twice before pointing finger at parul and that's what abinal wanted ....

Lekin kehte hai na , dekhne vale chand mein bhi daag dhundh lete hai aur dekhne vale toh kichad mein bhi Kamal dekh lete hai ...If you have a negative mentality , you find negative planning plotting to everything That's what happened with meenu, she saw this as an attempt to challenge her captaionship in the house .... where the reality was completely different

Also one thing I would like to say for meenu " jo dusro ke liye khada khod te hai, vo usme khud gire hai " ...she planned all this red pair thing to create more differences for mishku and then enjoy the game She forgot to notice at the back end that how abinal want to give parul the rightly deserved respect ...she completely overlooked it and she is now more angry on herself that how could she miss such a development in the family ...

It was actually nice that kunal didn't inform anyone here , if he had informed meenu before hand then she would have definitely manipulated him to believe that he shouldn't acknowledge parul ....

Also jinke ghar kaanch ke hote hai vo dusro pe pathar nahi maarte..... cruel ways are something that meenu has used to expose mahs and their secrets ...by calling naman on mishku GD day ....by manipulating mishti to bring out kuhu's birth truth on her haldi day .. and all this just because she want s her bahus to be " dikhayi de sunayi na de " so everything in the name of protecting the family and her sons is justified isn't that cruel....be prepared because karma comes back to you someday with double the intensity meenu ... here toh no one even planned to hurt her unlike her who plans to hurt in order to accomplish her selfish motives...

No sympathies for her, infact if I have any sympathy for anyone then then that would be mahs ...they are humiliated by meenu in the worst way possible for keeping secrets and now they got to know about a secret that RVs kept from them....naanu was not totally wrong when he said that because of meenu , mahs family relationships ki dhajiya udd gayi hai

Also some are telling that meenu does all this because she had a bad experience in love and that's why she wants to protect her sons....I don't believe this , it's just a cover up , like " main jo karti hun parivaar ke liye karti hun " ..... if she actually knows mishti, then she would have known very well that mishti is not mehul and mishti is the one who is capable of giving all the love and affection that abir rightfully deserves ... even if this was true that also it holds no logic here, if you meet with an accident on the road ...is it your fault , saamne vale ka fault or road ka fault ? ..... so just thinking that the road of love has been wrong for me that dosent mean it's wrong for others too ... just because you had a bad experience so you stop others by adapting such wrong methods? There should be a limit to everything.... if she actually wants she could have tried her best to solve the differences btw sisters but no she only wants to prove her point here that she was right here thats all ....Who is happy then here ...no one ...infact I have a weird theory on meenu on why she is like this.... I won't be surprised if actually baba comes back for a chapter 2.0 to reveal more on their story ...m still counting on their story when he says that there is so much more to my story that wa hidden....

And not to worry, if abir realises that somewhere because of his idea of giving respect to parul has hurt meenu in a wrong way, he will be the first one to settle things unlike meenu who will plan something dangerous again to hurt her own family members ...

You know why meenu's plans don't succeed inspite of them being planned and executed in the best manner ...that's because she overestimates the outcome of her plan she thought kunal won't marry in the end , he did .... she thought mishbir will be completely over after break up , they pached up again, and now she believes that both the bros will leave the sisters ...another mistake of misjuding the outcome

Anyways thank you @aqua 🤗🤗 For putting up this thread and starting the discussions, i really love discussing abir meenu dynamics and reading the views out here gives me much insightful thoughts 👍🏼

Bold - uru same Qoute used by me too 😆🤗

Completely agree with every sentence of yours 🤗

Originally posted by: aquaHP

Yes!!! Finally!!! Someone who understands me!!! I have been trying to say this thing kal se but I couldn't put it in the right words!!!

You had not elaborated in the first paragraph but I understood it because I haven't been able to elaborate this point. I don't think Abir is mean or anything but he is thodu sa manipulative and that's what he does in his Nanko's case. And he would definitely leave it for the time being with a sad face but whenever Abir sees an opportunity, he tries to turn it (this line will probably again be taken in the wrong way. I so need to work on writing my perspective properly 🙆🏻‍♀️) Thank you so much for writing this!🤗

EDIT: I haven't read the band-aid theory. I'll go read it now🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

Ohhh ok i understand yaar the words may come out differently... the thing is manipulative is not the word... 😆 but even i'm not good at words... it happens... 🤗

ok maybe i can explain kunal side for better understanding of this.. 😆

I know abir uses it on kunal not for proving his point but to put thoughts in his head... but he is not the only one even meenu uses it to prove her point, also kuhu has done it... to understand this we need to understand kunal...

kunal is a business man, a very practical person, if we go straight to him n say you are wrong or this is the right thing to do or anything he wont agree, he wont even give it a thought.... but when he is calm n there is a practical situation and at that time if you explain him your view then he will understand, he doesnt have any middle ground either its right or wrong... and read uru post to know about kunal more.... the main thing is this is the only way to make kunal understand not only by abir but by anyone... let me give some example..

meenu used his hatred for mish to get her goal achieved during kuku shaadi..

kuhu even if she wanted to give that relationship a chance he was not ready, and they kept rebelling but then when kunal was accepting mish for his brother (a practical situation) kuhu explained herself n said if you can accept mish for abir why cant you give chance to us...

mishti n kunal dont get along or he never listen to mish bcoz of this n his hatred was overpowering now that he is calm... he went to mish for advice bcoz he saw she is also in same situation as him, so he listened to her...

Abir tried explaining the same on shivrathri day but as kunal was not in mood to even give it a thought n there was so proper reason for him he rebelled but now that the situation was here abir gave it a chance an explained which kunal accepted...

neither abir is wrong or kunal... its the understand... and also uru explained well on why kunal did it in public.. i totally agree with her... he is such a open person n consequences are something he doesnt think much.. but then both boys are samajdar when they see the other side of he effect it had they will surely make it right...

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Woah I love the discussions on abir meenu dynamics One of my fav bond in show , very very interesting discussions I must say, I will not go for a repeat telecast of what is already written but will write something else here

If you all have read my coffee analysis, from the very beginning it was a clear worrying thought on abir's mind about how parul becomes meenu's scapegoat and has to suffer through the collateral damages because of it , that's why he asked kuhu to apologise to parul first , carefully note kuhu's words here, " I would have defended you but my family dosent know who are you " .... clearly this shows that parul's status in the family gives everyone liberties to put the blame on her and then also not support her at right times , even jas suggested kuhu to put the coffee blame on parul ...why ...because she is just a servant, even If she says anything in her defense, people won't believe and that's why people like nidhi get chance to raise fingers at parul ...therefore there is a level of urgency to give parul the recognition that she deserves and it was long overdue

Even kunal was shown to be upset with the servant , abir just gave him a permanent solution there , that unless you acknowledge it , others won't take it seriously, because only and only kunal is parul's biological son hence only his acknowledgement will give parul the sense of dignity and respect in the family, it was kunal came to ask for advice to mishti and abir , they just said a simple thing , mishti just said it's all about accepting, we can't change our parents , I accept that my parents aren't good persons but I was lucky to have been raised by BM BP , but my case is completely different from yours , your real mom is not a bad person infact she is a gem , so you shouldn't be having any problem in acknowledging her and what abir told is just that one day you will have to accept it , its upto you , you want to delay it and keep shutting others or you will accept it at once and end it , it's all your decision, he just showed the correct way according to him , chalna na chalna kunal ki marzi thi ...and in either case abir would have supported him ... all mishbir wished is that kunal accepts that parul is his maa ...only addressing parul as maa would have been enough ...even if ribbon cutting thing would have not happened then also AM would have been this happy only

Coming to the saree part , it wasn't a calculated move at all , Mishbir wanted to gift it to parul as it was a big day in rv family and more because she is kunal's mom , did you notice how those reporters commented on parul's attire and said she is a servant, so they just wanted to make her look that she is a family member and not just a servant ....it was purely out of fondness and admiration for parul ...just like how kuhu happily selected saree and jewellery for meenu

This is how kunal is , he has a bit touch of insensitivity and that's how his character is designed to be , honestly he is the most straight forward person in the show , ever wondered why he dosent get monologue ? Because he always speaks his mind #NoFilter , hate , love, anger ...everything is out there in the open.... notice the way he gives divorce papers to kuhu, at a navratri celebration pandal in public that too on the day they won best Jodi award ......notice the way he gave prenup papers to mishti .... entering her house with a lawyer that too on the day mishbir rishta got fixed, and now also his acknowledgement comes on the red pair anniversary day ....in front of all the media and mahs.... he wasn't wrong from his side , his only mistake was he didn't inform anyone , just like how he didn't inform anyone before presenting divorce or prenup papers .... honestly abir didn't knew what kunal was going to do but the way kunal approached meenu , abir guessed it that kunal will ask parul to cut the ribbon as well ....and that's why abir came forward to explain kunal's stand before anyone misunderstands ...

He beautifully explained the yashoda kanha and devaki part .... thereby actually giving a grand status to meenu here by acknowledging that she was the one who chose to raise kunal and the world will always remember her for all the days as kunal's maa in a rightful way but today just today since kunal has acknowledged parul by calling her maa, we should give her one day to feel happy and respected for this ...that's all ...from abir's side it was just a way to give some respect to parul that she deserves ....honestly cutting a ribbon dosent snatch anything from meenu ....parul dosent become of the owner of red pear nor she becomes the captain of the house or anything, neither mehul topic was out that would present a story to them or something.....it's just now the world will think twice before pointing finger at parul and that's what abinal wanted ....

Lekin kehte hai na , dekhne vale chand mein bhi daag dhundh lete hai aur dekhne vale toh kichad mein bhi Kamal dekh lete hai ...If you have a negative mentality , you find negative planning plotting to everything That's what happened with meenu, she saw this as an attempt to challenge her captaionship in the house .... where the reality was completely different

Also one thing I would like to say for meenu " jo dusro ke liye khada khod te hai, vo usme khud gire hai " ...she planned all this red pair thing to create more differences for mishku and then enjoy the game She forgot to notice at the back end that how abinal want to give parul the rightly deserved respect ...she completely overlooked it and she is now more angry on herself that how could she miss such a development in the family ...

It was actually nice that kunal didn't inform anyone here , if he had informed meenu before hand then she would have definitely manipulated him to believe that he shouldn't acknowledge parul ....

Also jinke ghar kaanch ke hote hai vo dusro pe pathar nahi maarte..... cruel ways are something that meenu has used to expose mahs and their secrets ...by calling naman on mishku GD day ....by manipulating mishti to bring out kuhu's birth truth on her haldi day .. and all this just because she want s her bahus to be " dikhayi de sunayi na de " so everything in the name of protecting the family and her sons is justified isn't that cruel....be prepared because karma comes back to you someday with double the intensity meenu ... here toh no one even planned to hurt her unlike her who plans to hurt in order to accomplish her selfish motives...

No sympathies for her, infact if I have any sympathy for anyone then then that would be mahs ...they are humiliated by meenu in the worst way possible for keeping secrets and now they got to know about a secret that RVs kept from them....naanu was not totally wrong when he said that because of meenu , mahs family relationships ki dhajiya udd gayi hai

Also some are telling that meenu does all this because she had a bad experience in love and that's why she wants to protect her sons....I don't believe this , it's just a cover up , like " main jo karti hun parivaar ke liye karti hun " ..... if she actually knows mishti, then she would have known very well that mishti is not mehul and mishti is the one who is capable of giving all the love and affection that abir rightfully deserves ... even if this was true that also it holds no logic here, if you meet with an accident on the road ...is it your fault , saamne vale ka fault or road ka fault ? ..... so just thinking that the road of love has been wrong for me that dosent mean it's wrong for others too ... just because you had a bad experience so you stop others by adapting such wrong methods? There should be a limit to everything.... if she actually wants she could have tried her best to solve the differences btw sisters but no she only wants to prove her point here that she was right here thats all ....Who is happy then here ...no one ...infact I have a weird theory on meenu on why she is like this.... I won't be surprised if actually baba comes back for a chapter 2.0 to reveal more on their story ...m still counting on their story when he says that there is so much more to my story that wa hidden....

And not to worry, if abir realises that somewhere because of his idea of giving respect to parul has hurt meenu in a wrong way, he will be the first one to settle things unlike meenu who will plan something dangerous again to hurt her own family members ...

You know why meenu's plans don't succeed inspite of them being planned and executed in the best manner ...that's because she overestimates the outcome of her plan she thought kunal won't marry in the end , he did .... she thought mishbir will be completely over after break up , they pached up again, and now she believes that both the bros will leave the sisters ...another mistake of misjuding the outcome

Anyways thank you @aqua 🤗🤗 For putting up this thread and starting the discussions, i really love discussing abir meenu dynamics and reading the views out here gives me much insightful thoughts 👍🏼

Ohh guruji what a kidki thod post yaar 👏👏👏🤗

as always loved loved reading it... the way you explained abir kunal n meenu... superb... 🤗👏

@bold - this is just perfect... i was actually thinking of making a post on this but did it so well... just bcoz of our bad experience we cant judge anyone n say everyone are like that... n also now the rift she is trying to create between sisters definitely doesnt give any logic other than her wanting to prove her point... she just wants to see n prove her side of coin... the other for her even if she understands will always remain wrong...

@italic - Hifi i said the same for abir but you said meenu side too... this is were the difference between both of them lies.. both have same trait but their intentions n the way they use it are poles apart... abir is the most optimistic n purest soul but meenu dont even know what to say... 😆

Originally posted by: Onyourface

Woah I love the discussions on abir meenu dynamics One of my fav bond in show , very very interesting discussions I must say, I will not go for a repeat telecast of what is already written but will write something else here

If you all have read my coffee analysis, from the very beginning it was a clear worrying thought on abir's mind about how parul becomes meenu's scapegoat and has to suffer through the collateral damages because of it , that's why he asked kuhu to apologise to parul first , carefully note kuhu's words here, " I would have defended you but my family dosent know who are you " .... clearly this shows that parul's status in the family gives everyone liberties to put the blame on her and then also not support her at right times , even jas suggested kuhu to put the coffee blame on parul ...why ...because she is just a servant, even If she says anything in her defense, people won't believe and that's why people like nidhi get chance to raise fingers at parul ...therefore there is a level of urgency to give parul the recognition that she deserves and it was long overdue

Even kunal was shown to be upset with the servant , abir just gave him a permanent solution there , that unless you acknowledge it , others won't take it seriously, because only and only kunal is parul's biological son hence only his acknowledgement will give parul the sense of dignity and respect in the family, it was kunal came to ask for advice to mishti and abir , they just said a simple thing , mishti just said it's all about accepting, we can't change our parents , I accept that my parents aren't good persons but I was lucky to have been raised by BM BP , but my case is completely different from yours , your real mom is not a bad person infact she is a gem , so you shouldn't be having any problem in acknowledging her and what abir told is just that one day you will have to accept it , its upto you , you want to delay it and keep shutting others or you will accept it at once and end it , it's all your decision, he just showed the correct way according to him , chalna na chalna kunal ki marzi thi ...and in either case abir would have supported him ... all mishbir wished is that kunal accepts that parul is his maa ...only addressing parul as maa would have been enough ...even if ribbon cutting thing would have not happened then also AM would have been this happy only

Coming to the saree part , it wasn't a calculated move at all , Mishbir wanted to gift it to parul as it was a big day in rv family and more because she is kunal's mom , did you notice how those reporters commented on parul's attire and said she is a servant, so they just wanted to make her look that she is a family member and not just a servant ....it was purely out of fondness and admiration for parul ...just like how kuhu happily selected saree and jewellery for meenu

This is how kunal is , he has a bit touch of insensitivity and that's how his character is designed to be , honestly he is the most straight forward person in the show , ever wondered why he dosent get monologue ? Because he always speaks his mind #NoFilter , hate , love, anger ...everything is out there in the open.... notice the way he gives divorce papers to kuhu, at a navratri celebration pandal in public that too on the day they won best Jodi award ......notice the way he gave prenup papers to mishti .... entering her house with a lawyer that too on the day mishbir rishta got fixed, and now also his acknowledgement comes on the red pair anniversary day ....in front of all the media and mahs.... he wasn't wrong from his side , his only mistake was he didn't inform anyone , just like how he didn't inform anyone before presenting divorce or prenup papers .... honestly abir didn't knew what kunal was going to do but the way kunal approached meenu , abir guessed it that kunal will ask parul to cut the ribbon as well ....and that's why abir came forward to explain kunal's stand before anyone misunderstands ...

He beautifully explained the yashoda kanha and devaki part .... thereby actually giving a grand status to meenu here by acknowledging that she was the one who chose to raise kunal and the world will always remember her for all the days as kunal's maa in a rightful way but today just today since kunal has acknowledged parul by calling her maa, we should give her one day to feel happy and respected for this ...that's all ...from abir's side it was just a way to give some respect to parul that she deserves ....honestly cutting a ribbon dosent snatch anything from meenu ....parul dosent become of the owner of red pear nor she becomes the captain of the house or anything, neither mehul topic was out that would present a story to them or something.....it's just now the world will think twice before pointing finger at parul and that's what abinal wanted ....

Lekin kehte hai na , dekhne vale chand mein bhi daag dhundh lete hai aur dekhne vale toh kichad mein bhi Kamal dekh lete hai ...If you have a negative mentality , you find negative planning plotting to everything That's what happened with meenu, she saw this as an attempt to challenge her captaionship in the house .... where the reality was completely different

Also one thing I would like to say for meenu " jo dusro ke liye khada khod te hai, vo usme khud gire hai " ...she planned all this red pair thing to create more differences for mishku and then enjoy the game She forgot to notice at the back end that how abinal want to give parul the rightly deserved respect ...she completely overlooked it and she is now more angry on herself that how could she miss such a development in the family ...

It was actually nice that kunal didn't inform anyone here , if he had informed meenu before hand then she would have definitely manipulated him to believe that he shouldn't acknowledge parul ....

Also jinke ghar kaanch ke hote hai vo dusro pe pathar nahi maarte..... cruel ways are something that meenu has used to expose mahs and their secrets ...by calling naman on mishku GD day ....by manipulating mishti to bring out kuhu's birth truth on her haldi day .. and all this just because she want s her bahus to be " dikhayi de sunayi na de " so everything in the name of protecting the family and her sons is justified isn't that cruel....be prepared because karma comes back to you someday with double the intensity meenu ... here toh no one even planned to hurt her unlike her who plans to hurt in order to accomplish her selfish motives...

No sympathies for her, infact if I have any sympathy for anyone then then that would be mahs ...they are humiliated by meenu in the worst way possible for keeping secrets and now they got to know about a secret that RVs kept from them....naanu was not totally wrong when he said that because of meenu , mahs family relationships ki dhajiya udd gayi hai

Also some are telling that meenu does all this because she had a bad experience in love and that's why she wants to protect her sons....I don't believe this , it's just a cover up , like " main jo karti hun parivaar ke liye karti hun " ..... if she actually knows mishti, then she would have known very well that mishti is not mehul and mishti is the one who is capable of giving all the love and affection that abir rightfully deserves ... even if this was true that also it holds no logic here, if you meet with an accident on the road ...is it your fault , saamne vale ka fault or road ka fault ? ..... so just thinking that the road of love has been wrong for me that dosent mean it's wrong for others too ... just because you had a bad experience so you stop others by adapting such wrong methods? There should be a limit to everything.... if she actually wants she could have tried her best to solve the differences btw sisters but no she only wants to prove her point here that she was right here thats all ....Who is happy then here ...no one ...infact I have a weird theory on meenu on why she is like this.... I won't be surprised if actually baba comes back for a chapter 2.0 to reveal more on their story ...m still counting on their story when he says that there is so much more to my story that wa hidden....

And not to worry, if abir realises that somewhere because of his idea of giving respect to parul has hurt meenu in a wrong way, he will be the first one to settle things unlike meenu who will plan something dangerous again to hurt her own family members ...

You know why meenu's plans don't succeed inspite of them being planned and executed in the best manner ...that's because she overestimates the outcome of her plan she thought kunal won't marry in the end , he did .... she thought mishbir will be completely over after break up , they pached up again, and now she believes that both the bros will leave the sisters ...another mistake of misjuding the outcome

Anyways thank you @aqua 🤗🤗 For putting up this thread and starting the discussions, i really love discussing abir meenu dynamics and reading the views out here gives me much insightful thoughts 👍🏼

Oof!! I loved reading this!! I agree with most of the points here and I do see why there was a need for Kunal to accept Parul as his mother.

I get the urgency but I hate it anyway because it hurts Nanko. It doesn't give him the time that he wants. Yes, he is straightforward but he also does what everyone around him tells him to do. 2 se 3 baar koi cheez keh do use, and his no turns to a yes. And that's the reason I hated it when Abir would advise him to give Parul the respectful place in his life. There were a lot of other (but slower) ways to make Parul reach a respectable status but this was the fastest one.

I didn't mind the MishNal scene. It was sweet and I can understand why Kunal took Mishti's advice but sach kahu to I don't get the dialogue which Mishti had. Just because Parul is a gem of a person, it does not mean Kunal has to accept her as his mother. Yes, she is the one who gave birth to him but she also gave up the right for a better future for him. She made that decision. Just because the truth is out now does not mean that Kunal is obligated to give her the designation. It should have been wholely and solely Kunal's decision and that is the reason why Mishti and Abir telling him to do the right thing was the wrong thing on their part. They should not have been interfering in the matter in the first place. Agar kuch karna hi tha to they should have helped to build the trust between Kunal and Parul so that this moment could come faster but to tell him again and again to give Parul the designation of his mother just seemed like badgering to me.

If you've noticed Kunal's expressions enough, you can tell when he has wholeheartedly done something because he felt it was right and when he has done something which is right for everyone. This time, it was the latter. If he would have been given his own sweet time and then he would have called Parul "Maa", I'd be jumping and crying infront of the screen and that's how I personally wanted to see it.

I guess it's high time I accept the fact that whatever I had been excited for in Kunal, Parul and Kuhu's storyline will never be shown because they are supporting characters. Their stories are always going to be compromised so that the show can go on. Same happened with the divorce track and now, this, and how the relationship between Kuhu and Parul is going to turn out.

Anyway, all my sadness aside on what could have or should have happened, I do agree on the points you mentioned. Thank you for sharing your POV!🤗

EDIT: I just realised I hadn't replied to your view on BB, na iss post me na coffee waale me. I'll do it in some time. See you soon!😛

Originally posted by: Onyourface

For this, I'm assuming you are poining to me.. Please correct me if I'm wrong..

Also some are telling that meenu does all this because she had a bad experience in love and that's why she wants to protect her sons....I don't believe this , it's just a cover up , like " main jo karti hun parivaar ke liye karti hun " .....

I am not trying to justify meenu here at all, trust me that was not my intention at all.. and anyway nothing justifies her actions on getting forcing kunal for his first wedding, balckmailing abir for the breakup or all the other things she has done... I am just trying to understand her motivations for the actions she takes.. for why she is not behaving like the typical itv vamps..

if she actually knows mishti, then she would have known very well that mishti is not mehul and mishti is the one who is capable of giving all the love and affection that abir rightfully deserves ...

The mishti part is the same thing I'm trying to say is that she knows mishti, she is quite correct in her assessment of mishti, she understands the individuality and strength mishti's character holds and that will not allow meenakshi to manipulate her when she wants.. why she wants a gaay bahu is simply because she does not want a contradicting voice in the house, she tolerates abir because he's her son.. she just barely tolerated parul going against her for kunal, she knew abir was standing right beside parul that's why she sucked up and did not do anything regarding parul..

Also, I don't remeber her ever saying that mishti is not right for you abir, like she does not love abir.. "Her cd is stuck on mishti is parivaar ke liye sahi nhi hai.."

even if this was true that also it holds no logic here, if you meet with an accident on the road ...is it your fault , saamne vale ka fault or road ka fault ? ..... so just thinking that the road of love has been wrong for me that dosent mean it's wrong for others too ... just because you had a bad experience so you stop others by adapting such wrong methods?

I agree completely here.. even in real, how many people understand this?? If only people understood the concept of different perspectives and live and let live, it would be a much more beautiful world overall...

There should be a limit to everything.... if she actually wants she could have tried her best to solve the differences btw sisters but no she only wants to prove her point here that she was right here thats all ....

Well, then there wouldn't be any drama.. meenu ka to sara point hi khatam ho jayega, if she started assessing situations and thinking before reacting.. even thinking that she ends up hurting her own son more when she tries to attack mishti..apna hi past record dekhle..

Who is happy then here ...no one ...infact I have a weird theory on meenu on why she is like this.... I won't be surprised if actually baba comes back for a chapter 2.0 to reveal more on their story ...m still counting on their story when he says that there is so much more to my story that wa hidden....

Would love to read your theory and I do hope Mehul does come back in the show, he was the only one who could tame meenakshi and challange her directly..

Though, nice post, overall..👏

Originally posted by: aquaHP

Oof!! I loved reading this!! I agree with most of the points here and I do see why there was a need for Kunal to accept Parul as his mother.

I get the urgency but I hate it anyway because it hurts Nanko. It doesn't give him the time that he wants. Yes, he is straightforward but he also does what everyone around him tells him to do. 2 se 3 baar koi cheez keh do use, and his no turns to a yes. And that's the reason I hated it when Abir would advise him to give Parul the respectful place in his life. There were a lot of other (but slower) ways to make Parul reach a respectable status but this was the fastest one.

I think that is kunal's character as we have known.. He does a lot of things impulsively or on insistence and without caring about the repercussions his actions are going to create.. And his straight forward thinking is the reason, he never sees the underlying layers.. And that is point where nanko needs to grow up..

I didn't mind the MishNal scene. It was sweet and I can understand why Kunal took Mishti's advice but sach kahu to I don't get the dialogue which Mishti had. Just because Parul is a gem of a person, it does not mean Kunal has to accept her as his mother. Yes, she is the one who gave birth to him but she also gave up the right for a better future for him. She made that decision. Just because the truth is out now does not mean that Kunal is obligated to give her the designation. It should have been wholely and solely Kunal's decision and that is the reason why Mishti and Abir telling him to do the right thing was the wrong thing on their part. They should not have been interfering in the matter in the first place. Agar kuch karna hi tha to they should have helped to build the trust between Kunal and Parul so that this moment could come faster but to tell him again and again to give Parul the designation of his mother just seemed like badgering to me.

Mishti's advice made sense to me, atleast..The whole point is that Just because parul is a gem of a person, he being her son should give her the rights she willingly relented for his better future.. if she was someone who left her son and left, then there would be no point of this whole discussion.. the reason she stayed in rv house and worked there tirelessly was kunal only..

I don't mind mishti and abir saying that, just that they should have given him a bit more space maybe..

I have already expressed my opinion on the whole truth coming out in front of media and everyone.. that was the point where things went wrong for me mostly..

Also, my opinions might seem to be contradicting in multipl posts, but that's just becasue thinking from all the pov's in the show, things are a little contradicting right now..

Originally posted by: peacenfun

@bold: thanks, now the rushed mishnal bonding makes complete sense to me, kunal is going to mishti for advice because ultimately it her who is going to be blamed, so they had to show mishti guiding him

ofcourse it is not true because abir is equally responsible, and even kunal, but to create the rift in family(which will start from mishku & then leading onto the whole rjv family), mishti's influence needed to be voiced out

@red - Aaaahhh, um no. Mishti does not create the rift, that will be done by Meenu and Kuhu. What I meant when I said Mishti will be blamed is because according to Meenu Mishti is the scourge of the earth and should not even be in her house so anything that goes wrong/or against Meenu it will be of course Mishti's fault.

It all boils down to Kunal being a follower and heeding big bro's words to the point of all else. All he needed was some signposts aka words and he just connected the dots. Clever guy.😎

@ green - that bonding is created to further the story for where it is heading now.

Originally posted by: Dreamygal301

@red - Aaaahhh, um no. Mishti does not create the rift, that will be done by Meenu and Kuhu. What I meant when I said Mishti will be blamed is because according to Meenu Mishti is the scourge of the earth and should not even be in her house so anything that goes wrong/or against Meenu it will be of course Mishti's fault.

It all boils down to Kunal being a follower and heeding big bro's words to the point of all else. All he needed was some signposts aka words and he just connected the dots. Clever guy.😎

@ green - that bonding is created to further the story for where it is heading now.

@bold: yeah, what I meant was that mishti will be blamed for creating the rift, while meenu(through kuhu) will be the one doing it

arey meenu toh corona ke liye bhi mish ko hi blame karegi😉

also on abir & meenu having similar traits & techniques:

as per my understanding, that is what is the crux of this plot, and infact the show as a whole of whatever we have been shown

that abir's love & his methods empower people & helps them grow & become independent, take their own decisions, and take responsibility of the consequences of those choices, and family will support you in fulfilling those responsibilites, and also guide you if you falter

but meenus's love is over protective, controlling, she forgot where she crossed the line & became rather obsessive & controlling instead of being loving & supportive

also another lesson that your wounds can make you better or worse depending on what you choose to become, to learn from those mistakes & hurt & become more compassionate & understanding of others pain or become bitter

and thats what abir did, he missed a dad's love so he made sure that kunal doesnt suffer the same pain and he became a father figure to him

Originally posted by: peacenfun

@bold: yeah, what I meant was that mishti will be blamed for creating the rift, while meenu(through kuhu) will be the one doing it

arey meenu toh corona ke liye bhi mish ko hi blame karegi😉

Lol, if I understood that correctly then yes.🤣

Even the War in the Middle East...Trump coming into power...anything else you want to chuck into the pot go ahead....I often wonder how can writers write the dialogues that come out of Meenu's mouth?!🤣