So far I've seen the Mishti vs Kuhu thing on the forum, so I don't know how this post is taken.
Also, I don't get the time to watch the episodes daily so most of the times it's binge watching of all my fav ones based on the LUs. Now that I've removed hotstar(due to my eye infection), it's only possible for me to catch the episode on TV, else, on insta pages ๐ญ
It's gonna be a long post, so please bear with me๐ค
The main reason I've started watching the show was the first promo and of course Shaheer
Being a girl, it's so difficult to know what exactly we expect from a marriage or from our partner and once we realise it, it's more difficult to explain it to your family, because #logkyakehenge
There are people who marry just because their parents wants them to go for it, or they are becoming old or because all of their friends are getting married, but don't exactly know what they want from this relationship, thus end up with adjustments, misunderstandings etc. Especially if you have been watching ITV since childhood and if they have any impact on u, those fears will increase, because all we've shown is the #ablanaaris ๐ต
Though some shows started with showing FL as a strong woman, while the episodes progress, they're back to being bechari and always need a man to help/support them
But somehow, the trailor and presence of Shah made me feel that this was going to be different๐๐ผ๐ณ
Being a fan of Shah, I must admit that adoring him and also the fact that I used to watch the episodes in a jiff, I actually forgot to concentrate on the other characters, especially Kuhu..
Later, I suggested one of my friends to watch the show and she started talking about Kuhu & Kaveriapriyam. That's when I rewatched the episodes and started understanding Kuhu's character.
I've seen many people on the forum say that Kuhu had multiple layers and even I feel the same. The way she supported Kunal during all the times shows how understanding & caring she is. I know she had flaws, but that's how people are in real life, aren't theyโ
Mishti- I can relate to her in many aspects and I'm sure most of the people on this forum also relate to her. Especially the spects, the taunts she faces by people๐. Even her character is realistic.
Initially, I never liked Kuhu and I always wanted to see her reaction once she gets to know that Varsha isn't her mother.. Mostly because of the way she kept taunting Mishti
Slowly, I have realised that there is a backstory to what exactly Mishti feels.. But there's nothing much shown on why Kuhu behaves like that.
Mishti's situation was out and open to everyone. People know about her parents, her trauma and understand her. Yes, there are people who taunt her at each point of life, but she also had her bp and bm to help her understand things๐ค. Also, she is more than happy for the love she gets from Mahs and feels that she is indebted to them for all the love and care bm & bp have for her
On the other hand, we aren't given much insights on to Kuhu's background. She is good at heart, but when it comes to Mishti, she can't digest the fact that she needs to even be with her. Yes, we know that deep down, these two love each other and whatever they do for eo, they think that it's for family. But it's not. Also, writers didn't explore to dig into her character and show us what triggered such thoughts in her.
For me, there isn't much analysis on her character or rather I should say that the depth of those layers were not handled properly by the writers. Post leap, there was real growth in her character but it completely took a U turn with Nishant's exit.
I have always wanted to see writers explore those layers of hers than tagging her as an immature, jealous, grey or negative one ๐
No, I'm not supporting her deeds, all I'm saying is, if handled well, her character would've had better growth.
But as someone mentioned on the forum, the characters are writers imagination and they can flip the moment they want to.. & we viewers would be scratching our heads to understand these characters
Well, even after making her do all things out of jealousy or immaturity or whatever u say, instead of abir addressing her issues, it would have been better if Kunal tried to understand her.
All of us know that he knows the hatred she has for Mishti. All of a sudden, he started liking her for the sake of bhai doesn't mean everything's fine between these two. He should have understood it by the time she asked for mandap.
I would love to see kunal sit and talk to her.. Ask her why does she want only that mandap and not a new one or why does she want to do puja only at NGO.. Any of those situations, had Kunal started the conversation, their relationship would have been stronger. At least there'll be some growth and not make it stagnant. yes, everyone say, kunal's EQ is 0, so he can't understand things. But there should be some growth in the character isn't it?
Also, It would be good to see brothers working on their respective partner's insecurities than abir doing the whole thing. That would have saved us from the bro jaap may be (or am I expecting too much?)
All in all, I'm not so good at putting my point forth and especially making a long post on this forum is like a nightmare to me. Thanks to all of u and your discussions that made me open up๐ค
PS: I'm not a fan of any character but I love the story and the concept and that's what keeps me hooked to the show. So please, I'm not biased towards any character and I kept my views as neutral as possible. Apologies if I had hurt anyone unintentionally.
Please do share your views, but not any discussion on Mishti vs Kuhu or fan vs fan; PEACEโ
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