I totally agree intitally I did feel bad for sid coz sana did do wrong things ..the first breakup post himanshi was her fault ..sid was definately hurt ..I felt hurt for him ..even during gg phase I feel sid was hurt ..but sometimes it does happen it’s easy for us to give opinions as viewers ..when people are in that situation..mistakes happen and we don’t realize it ..nobody is perfect ...like during first breakup what thing hurt Shehnaaz was that why is sid going close to himanshi after knowing how I will feel ...she was wrong absolutely but she could have discussed it with sid but rather she distanced herself from him and even other housemates which I found equally wrong ..she should have seen how hurt everyone was special sid ...during gg task also I feel sana did go a bit overboard ..plus even if I don’t count gg thing I was feeling she kept on having paras rant even after knowing that it might hurt sid ..which boy will like it ..that chuha billi task was very important phase ...but then I feel Shehnaaz was not even aware of her feelings ...neither was she aware of sids feelings ..she knew both are important for each other but she didn’t know it was love ...people go through lot of emotions when they are in such house and your emotions do go for a toss and you tend to get messed up not realizing what is happening and what you are doing is wrong ...so I feel that was evolving time for Shehnaaz and for sidnaaz both ...and as far sid is concerned even he has made his share of mistakes which I was equally upset about as I was for Shehnaaz ..there are times when his behavior with Shehnaaz was not right ..no girl would have taken it but Shehnaaz didn’t give up on him ...during makdi task honestly I feel I don’t thing it was Shehnaaz fault ..sid moved Aarti’s pawn in chess task by mistake but he didn’t even give any explanation about his mistake until her bday when it was too late and she was badly hurt ..which boy tells like this jo apni ma Baap ki sagi nahi woh kisi ki nahi..ouch I myself watching on couldn’t take it but Shehnaaz inspite of that went to him trying to clarify why he said so ..I do feel at that time maybe Shehnaaz was wrong about paras thing when her dad came ..but still sid shouldn’t have said that without any explanation...the problem with sid is he doesn’t like giving explanation what hurt him neither he gives explanations when he does something wrong ..there are few more incidents where I feel he was wrong ....during makdi task sid was not part of that task why will Shehnaaz support him if she has decided to return favour by favoring Asim rashmi team as they helped her In chess task ..sid was pissed at Shehnaaz Coz of wromg reason ....I disnt like the way he behaved towards sana during the following wkv (when Varun dhvan came )he blamed Shehnaaz for fixed deposit thing when she kept on saying I didn’t say ...that too in front of salman sir..he blamed her and said bad things have been said for my and Aarti’s relation by her ...I felt bad for Shehnaaz that day ..that whole day his behavior was not acceptable...but Shehnaaz went back to him when he initiated patch up ..she went straight through his bed on one ishara...but then sid also realized his mistakes he did say my behavior with sana was not right ..maybe he realized after seeing the clip in aap ki adalat episode...so I feel both had there share of mistakes but both come back filling that void ...both are madly in love which is the final truth and that is what matters at the end
I know Sana has made mistakes out of immaturity and her impulsive nature. And her flip during Himanshi entry was entirely her fault. Even during chuha billi task,she was at fault. Sid was hurt. But other than these two scenarios, it was always two sided fault. And one thing people conveniently forget is that she was never assured by Sid about his feelings in words. She was always guessing about his emotions towards her. She used to get insecure seeing Sid with other girls and Sid added onto her insecurities day by day by being flirty with them. He didn't give her any security in words. So then she started wth her testing games and flipping games.
But one thing which is commendable about their bond is that they never betrayed eachother. They did things out of hurt and in the process hurt the other.
I think as sidnaaz shipper we should look at it this way that they were in love and did silly things to get undivided attention of eachother. Both were adamant and didn't want to be tamed by the other but ended up being tamed by eachother every time. They always held their grounds, their swag, their ego and tried to have things their way but still always came back and compromise/adjusted according to eachother. They both put efforts. It's just that their ways were different. But both did change themselves for eachother. And that is why it is the most organic and real love story. Because they both worked at it and didn't give up.
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