Relating to Riddhima. - Page 2

Originally posted by: umberk

so agree with u. n a very nice topic.i also relte 2 ridhima in many way..sometime i feel shes playng some of myreal life chrct and being a girl u thnkalot in ur evrystp of ur life..and the sustuation which she is facng if i was there i b confusd...i like her the way she portyng/playng chrt.. 👏

yeah definitely..at first i wasnt sure what to think of riddhima and i had no clue who shilpa anand was before this show..i was expecting an overly beautiful actress and i thought she was kinda of funny looking...but i think that's apart of her appeal..its nice to see that the "simple" goody-two shoes girl attracting the hot "cool" guy and having their relationship progress in a real and natural way...like im so glad that they arent married or engaged as yet b/c that DOES NOT happen in real life...most people dont end up with their first boyfriends..and if the creatives continue down the path they are going i think there is a good chance Riddhima will have other relationships...which in my opinion is healthy...plus it doesnt seem like Shashank is encouraging her to get involved with anyone.. i would love to see more of their relationship and a lot more of Riddhima - Anjali ...their was so much potential to see the dynamics of their relationship@ the beginning of the show and then Anjali got sidelined for more scenes of A-R..which i dont mind but i dont blame Muskaan Mehani for leaving the show!

Originally posted by: BaAZiGar1

thanks hun..i've been wanting to discuss this with someone else for a long time because i find Riddhima so realistic...but i dont know anyone else in real life who watches this show unfortunately..which is why im sharing my thoughts on here with you guys...i like that she's not in control of every situation in her life but that at the same time she's not a complete mess either..she does what makes her comfortable but at the same time pushes herself to try new things...like dressing sexy for Armaan...i know that ive been put into that situation before where my bf wants me to "wear something sexy" and asks me to in a "joking" way...but we all know there is truth to every joke .... i remember how i felt when Ridz was in her sexy clothes in the kitchen with Armaan recently and her red overslip thingy ripped..triggering her to drop the coffee and kinda fall in the most awkward and ungraceful way...it was such a real scene! ...like i felt how she felt at the moment trying to cover herself up and recover from her fall ...for me that scene was brilliant!

Riddhima really outdid herself in that scene. The awkwardness that she showed and the way she tried to cover herself up.. I see myself and many other girls doing the same thing.. Also, the part where she stopped herself and Armaan before going too far. If it were some other show, I'm sure they would've taken it farther just to create some problems in the future... But, the way Riddhima, and also Armaan, acted in that situation is exactly how it probably would've been in real life... Like you, I too felt for her during this scene and many others... And probably for this reason, I see why Riddhima is confused rite now and I think that every action (or almost every action) she has taken and will take is real and justified...

i totally agree with you..she's very realistic..and if i was in all of her situations (which i hope i get someday..but the good ones 😳 😳 😆 ) that's probably the way i would handle it or maybe even more closed..cuz she's always careful about her izzat as i think a girl should always be..very awesome character..but at this time i think she's wrong in some situations..likr calling armaan a friend..i mean that makes her seem like she was playin around or somethin...idk though...cuz i'm pretty sure if i was in the situation, shayad mere munh se iss se zayadah ghalat alfaaz nikal jaate 😆 😆 😆

Originally posted by: huma_0999

yehh your right..i can also relate to ridhiam..because if someone broke my trust two times i would also be a little confused if i should still have a relationship with that person..😳
ver well written..👏

u r absolutely right...

i truly agree wid u.........
u knw....wenever i see ridz character..it makes me feel its me....who she is playing the role....
in reality....my character and hers is the same....
sumtymes....i tend to predict...wht will she do next..
and most of the tym it turns out to be true.......
though i dunt wear more of salwars 😊 ...but nature-wise .......we are almost the same.... 😊

actually i cn also relate myself 2 riddhima.... although, i wasnt hapi bout wht she did.... bt wen i read ur post.... u made me fink dat.... wht shes actually doin, cn b justified....

riddhima is a typical girl... wiv lots ov traditional values, respect 4 family.... n i cn reali relate myself 2 her...

im nt bein rude or nefink.... bt lyke d way armaan has bin portrayd... hes gt lots ov experience wen it cums 2 gurls.... which doesnt hav 2 b a bad fing.... so he knws dat riddhima is d gurl ov his lyfe....

bt lukin bac at riddhima... she doesnt hav d slightest clue bout boys, which isnt her fault.... coz if i go in her position.... im totaly clueless as wel....

bt 1 fing dat i wud lyke 2 add.... wen it cums 2 arguments.... in relation 2 armaan n riddhima's... i cudnt relate myself 2 her.... her words r reali heart wrenchin, very painful.... i cudnt utter such harsh words 2 ne1.... no matter hw upset iam wiv dem....

hope i havnt offended ne1.... if i hav i apologise....

hey i agree with u.........i can also relate to riddhima in the sense that i also i did like some1 who was or is jus like armaan! one of the biggest flirt! n it is hard to really trust that person when u love that person n u know what kind of history they have! plus i can relate to her personality i think....coz every1 around tell me that im bholi bhali like her n too kind to people!!!

in some ways i can relate to her...

i can understand her confusion before she confessed her feelings to armaan, i know how difficult it is to trust a flirt especially if u donno much abt boys and relationships..n she is shown as someone who doesnt hav many friends, so she cant know from their lives also..i learnt a lot from my friends' love stories, so had an idea of wat sort of guy i want to be with..thats not the case with everyone..ridz is mature but not in this field..

i can relate to her confusion if its love or something else before she confessed her feelings...if u dont have any male friends n find urself getting attracted to the first boy who is close to u, u'll get confused..if its love or attraction or infatuation or just close friendship..u need to test urself n ur feelings b4 deciding wat it is...

i can relate to her in the way she doesnt want anyone to know abt her relationship with armaan..its a personal choice u know, some feel its not necessary that everyone knows abt ur lovelife n some feel there's no need to hide it..here AR r on opp sides in this aspect... n they r just out of college, not yet settled in their career, so i can understand y she wants to hide her relationship...like jab waqt ayega tab batayenge..

i can relate to her feelings in love..how she got scared when he came too close to her, the discomfort n i just love the way armaan made her feel comfortable after that on the staircase..

i can relate to the way they argue n fight..who is a better lover.. who gives more importance to the other one..n even the fight after truth abt muskaan comes out, just shouting in anger n trying to pursuade widout lettin the other person cool down n think...

BUT i cant relate to her now, confusion after confession!! bcoz she has been thru some very unrealistic situations...tell me how many hav seen ur boyfriend in boxing ring?? or fightig with goons?? or even acting as someone'e would-be?? so, the bottomline is creatives r becoming very filmy n taking the story far from reality..