Originally posted by: vibha28
I agree with you babes - I said that too I donāt see any closure and definitely not with the donor drama. I also agree and said that I too would love it if he just stops insulting and starts treating her with respect. Not because she is his estranged wife but because every one (man or woman) deserves to be treated with respect.
Itās kinda sad that a ML who doesnāt think at all. Aman is a very very weak and insecure man who has zero confidence in his own abilities or decisions and thatās why he is always indecisive. He didnāt had a bad childhood in fact he had his mum, grandma, aunt, and sisters and he is overseas educated and with money. Dad left him but look at Farah she is normal and her dad left her too and her mum was more stigmatised. Amans mum influenced him no doubt but surely she didnāt teach him to call names to women who are not worthy according to them?
On the other hand roshni was raised by a courtesan but she learned value of relationships and in fact she should be the one like Aman but I guess her Dil.
Aman has no confidence within him and thatās why he never go looks for things and waits until itās sorted for him. You look before LCR he saw and he believed, then his MU was cleared and after roshni left he never tried to look for her. Here as well that snitch Khanna told him and he saw CCTV and he believed. If he was a strong and confident man he would have thought but in his impulsiveness he believes what he sees. He refused to listen about Alia even though there were signs. I kind of wonder that did they wrote his character as a mentally challenged person and then got Vikram so dropped it but continued with the script? I have never met such a ML who is not smart at all.
Vibha,
I would like to give my opinion on aman's character. I dont quite agree with you on his character as a whole but I completely agree with your take on aman post alia track and now. The thing is I cant reconcile the post alia aman to the pre alia. So my way of enjoying the earlier episodes is I dont try to judge that aman through the lens of this aman.that was an aman probably as originally characterised for a 100 episodes show.and this one is after extension meant to drag the show. I really hope they get him back on track.
Anyway.. if u see early episode discussions in forum u will see many opinion that aman was best Gul ML. At that time I agreed with the sentiment. Forced marriage and MCP are typical gul hero traits. But at that time I didnt see aman as an MCP. As I have said few times before only teh forced wedding was an exception in his behavior.apart from that he was decent. But yes he was always a guy who thought more with hsi heart than brain.
He did have prejudices thanks to his mom. But he didnt mert roshni acting on those judgments and prejudices. Salma was responsible for cementing some of his prejudices. I havent followed gil shows much but enough to decide that I dont like her heroes. There is always a forced marriage and these pushing against wall pinning romance.. and then back to ill treating her until something major happens to change
. I hated that..
I was glad aman roshni marriage wasnt shown that way.. from.next day of marriage aman felt guilty and resolved to be nice to her. His reaction after he hurt her as a beast is what made me love him and why I thought he was a good man. He says to dadi I dont think roshni will want to stay with me.she was talking abt police complaint.. even if she does Its ok.. if anyone had done this with sara saima i would have dont same.. that guy was not a hypocrite. It was start of story so I dont judge is flaws so severely as that is what growth is all about .. him overcoming those flaws..and it was developed very well..
He also went against his mom and was firm on his decisions ..
Now the post Alia aman I dont recognize.. he was never this dumb.
And the foreign educated part I never understood b is I always had this impression that he was never alone without his family..
Its fact that he is heavily dependent on hsi family.they protected him since childhood against kala jinn. So he may not have had bad childhood but a troubled one for sure. Not bcos of his dad.. but the threat of jinn.. and him transforming to beast.. he would be chained at that possibility and was always in fear he will hurt somebody
Edited by minu_8 - 5 years ago