Originally posted by: Uma2010
Don’t women face this every single day in our personal and professional lives, Camlin? Walk like this, smile like that, don’t laugh too loud, love like this, not like that, stick to etiquette, keep your voice low, don’t act like a guy... it’s endless. It depends on us and our dearest ones to help us not lose our identity, while also correcting ourselves if we have truly committed some gross error like robbery, smuggling, substance abuse or adultery. I don’t think Sana’s gone any of those places as yet 😆
Because society has somehow associated a woman’s behaviour as the reflection of her entire lineage! They want her to carry the burden and mind her walk, talk, her heart, her entire self.
I never found anything wrong in her behaviour the first time she met Gautam. I am not someone who should be judging her for that. I couldn’t relate to it because I cannot be so unbound. But aren’t we who actually loved her for her free spirit and honest reactions? I could understand Sid taking an exception to that. In a new and yet not defined relationship one tends to be a bit over-demanding, as we saw they both were during that phase. But to be actually fretting about her reaction is truly a bit unfair.
As women, we must learn to understand that society is already expecting a lot from us, let’s not over-expect from each other.
My dear Uma, you forgot the biggest crime is she fell in love. Now she shoulders the sole responsibility of keeping the dignity of this relationship intact, that is by not Running like a woman road roller to Gautam Gulati. (Hopefully you read the sarcasm here😂)
Edited by Camlin - 5 years ago