Why no one has problem with Guneet’s Mom??

I have been reading all the negative posts about Amber Sharma.

Seriously!!
Everyone is making it look like all his fault. Why does no one point out how badly Guneet’s mom treats him even before she entered the house?? Not to mention, she has always maintained that Guneet and herself are going to own the house. THAT IS NOT HER HOUSE. Who is she?? Guneet and her are always doing whatever they want in his house ( renting it out to make extra income, keeping Randeep even when they know how much AS hates him). They come and take whatever they want from his kitchen anytime. Still not a shred of gratitude. She never even acknowledges the fact that Amber Sharma let them stay in his house when they had no where to go. No gratitude from the mom. EVER.... Both of them behave like they own the house.

The matter of the fact is,

it is Amber Sharma’s house, he has all the rights in the world on his house. Nobody can tell him what to do and how to do. Nobody can tell him what to do with his daughter. Nia is an adult and she can very well take care of herself. She knows how to deal with her dad. She has been doing it for past 8-9 years. Who are these Mother-Daughter to come and interfere with their life so much all the time. I even sometimes don’t like Nia for siding with Guneet and her Mom. I really hated Guneet’s mom for calling the police on AS. Not done!! Nobody pointed how badly she has been treating AS all along. If I have a tenant like them, I will throw them out ASAP, even if I don’t get any rent still I would not want such people living in my house at all. That’s how much atrocious I find their behavior, especially towards AS.

Done with my rant. I just had to say it. I am tired of people blaming AS all the time.

guneet mom is irritating but not like that toddler Amber the kharus..I dont like her either but this time I would thanks to her for call the police otherwise this crappy old guy would have never been felt guilty and got back his senses..now he has become little decent as his so called walnut brain understand that nia is his daughter who is taking care of him ,she lost her job coz of this pathetic behavior and attitude af 🤢 pummy is irritating too but not like this as...she fights back as this old crap always behind their back ..

Originally posted by: kinu17

guneet mom is irritating but not like that toddler Amber the kharus..I dont like her either but this time I would thanks to her for call the police otherwise this crappy old guy would have never been felt guilty and got back his senses..now he has become little decent as his so called walnut brain understand that nia is his daughter who is taking care of him ,she lost her job coz of this pathetic behavior and attitude af 🤢 pummy is irritating too but not like this as...she fights back as this old crap always behind their back ..

That’s the point they don’t have to live there. Find another place. Leave!! Nia and her dad were living fine before they came. No one would want to be treated like they treat Amber. He does not OWE them anything. Whatever it is good or bad between Nia and Amber, it is their problem not Guneet’s and Mom’s. Who made them to be a moral police?? If they hate him so much, they shouldn’t be there in the first place. End of story. Both of them have a huge contribution towards making him behave the way he does.
What was the need for Guneet to bring Anurag’s daughter to Amber’s kitchen to give her chips or whatever. Is she the lady of the house?? No!! Still she went like she owned the house. She did not stop there. She let Anurag’s daughter put toothpaste in Amber’s cookies, knowing very well that he will get upset. Who does that to a stranger?? Amber is a stranger for Anurag’s daughter. On top of that she is fighting with Amber and defending the daughter. Why?? To look good in her eyes. Totally unacceptable!! Then they wonder why he behaves the way he does.🙄

I agree with parts of what u say, except Ambar’s nastiness is for everyone & often unprovoked.

I have pointed out in many posts that Pammy is an uncouth, unscruplous, foul-mouthed woman who provokes the worst in Ambar and deserves much of the nastiness she gets from him. But she seems to be generally pleasant (though in self-interest) towards others.

Also pointed out many times that Guneet, while well-meaning, is interfering & crosses the line of restraint for a tenant & is conveniently unethical many times. Pretty much like the well-meaning but nosy pushy neighbours we all have.

But all this doesn’t explain or justify Ambar’s angst & nastiness against the world at large.

I think it is a case of the writers going overboard in establishing personality traits, instead of letting us understand it they are hammering it in.

Well talk about timing ..I was going to make a similar post on Guneets mom

She is OTT..from day 1 she has been berating Guneet (at least AS doesn’t do this ) and reminding her daughter of all the wrong she has done ...rarely does she acknowledge all of Guneets sacrifices

on top of this she acts like the house belongs to her. It is NOT HER HOUSE...so if Amber didn’t want the Roka there Guneet and her mom should have booked a hall.

Of course it doesn’t entirely excuse AS as he still tends to overdo things a bit (the mooli wasn’t necessary ) but yes I do believe Guneets mom is a catalyst or igniter. Guneet not so much ...I feel she tries her best to meet Amber half way but she is also human and may give into her temper

Well now we are seeing a more reformed Amber(although it’s a bit quick)

Guneets mom needs a reality check...without Guneet and Amber she would be on the street

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Well talk about timing ..I was going to make a similar post on Guneets mom

She is OTT..from day 1 she has been berating Guneet (at least AS doesn’t do this ) and reminding her daughter of all the wrong she has done ...rarely does she acknowledge all of Guneets sacrifices

on top of this she acts like the house belongs to her. It is NOT HER HOUSE...so if Amber didn’t want the Roka there Guneet and her mom should have booked a hall.

Of course it doesn’t entirely excuse AS as he still tends to overdo things a bit (the mooli wasn’t necessary ) but yes I do believe Guneets mom is a catalyst or igniter. Guneet not so much ...I feel she tries her best to meet Amber half way but she is also human and may give into her temper

Well now we are seeing a more reformed Amber(although it’s a bit quick)

Guneets mom needs a reality check...without Guneet and Amber she would be on the street

Agreed .. she is too much. ..Guneet's mom is too much of everything ...she called lots of guests inspite of the fact the Guneet's didn't want a huge to do .. Guneet has been bullied many times by her ..And Pammy ji and her arch enemy Amber ji are both too much ...

They bring out the worst in each other

Agree that they have shown Guneet and her mom to be taking too many liberties with their landlord's home. I don't like the way they go in and out of his home and use his kitchen for cooking, take stuff from his kitchen etc. This is all totally wrong. First of all they should not be entering and exiting through his part of the house, they should be using a separate entrance. Unfortunately this is the only way they can think of to make the characters keep meeting and getting into conflicts.

Guneet's mom also unnecessarily gets into fights with Amber and I don't like her calling him 'tu' just because he is younger than her.

If she hates it there so much, they are free to leave. As someone mentioned they have gone overboard trying to establish character traits and have not understood where to draw the line.

Originally posted by: silvermoonlight

Well talk about timing ..I was going to make a similar post on Guneets mom

She is OTT..from day 1 she has been berating Guneet (at least AS doesn’t do this ) and reminding her daughter of all the wrong she has done ...rarely does she acknowledge all of Guneets sacrifices

on top of this she acts like the house belongs to her. It is NOT HER HOUSE...so if Amber didn’t want the Roka there Guneet and her mom should have booked a hall.

Of course it doesn’t entirely excuse AS as he still tends to overdo things a bit (the mooli wasn’t necessary ) but yes I do believe Guneets mom is a catalyst or igniter. Guneet not so much ...I feel she tries her best to meet Amber half way but she is also human and may give into her temper

Well now we are seeing a more reformed Amber(although it’s a bit quick)

Guneets mom needs a reality check...without Guneet and Amber she would be on the street

agree.

Originally posted by: kar08

Agree that they have shown Guneet and her mom to be taking too many liberties with their landlord's home. I don't like the way they go in and out of his home and use his kitchen for cooking, take stuff from his kitchen etc. This is all totally wrong. First of all they should not be entering and exiting through his part of the house, they should be using a separate entrance. Unfortunately this is the only way they can think of to make the characters keep meeting and getting into conflicts.

Guneet's mom also unnecessarily gets into fights with Amber and I don't like her calling him 'tu' just because he is younger than her.

If she hates it there so much, they are free to leave. As someone mentioned they have gone overboard trying to establish character traits and have not understood where to draw the line.

Bang on!! Exactly my thoughts!! Thank you. I can not stand her character. She comes across as a very selfish, moohphat and ungrateful person. Totally dislike her!!🤢👎🏼 The actress is doing an amazing job in making her character hated. I love the actress for her talent. 👏😳

Thanks and applause to the OP for the much needed post. I also got super annoyed by people's obnoxious hue and cry about each and every small actions of amber every single day. Why can't we accept the fact, this is scatch for Amber's character meant to be. So just relax and enjoy the show and if u still can't enjoy then wait for amber to get more kind and humble approach from writers.