Nine!! Nine!!👮🏻♀️
I really like the way you view their relationship and it's definitely much more flattering. You might be right about the big picture but I think Parul doesn't view herself as the somewhat empowered figure. Maybe that's what BB wanted. She wanted someone to hold down the fort but also be submissive to her demands. Oh so patriarchal Meenu ben! (It felt like I just described Parul as a nanny or actually like most Indian men treat their wives. Damn, that's sad! The nanny thing wasn't intensional but let's go with it as a 3rd perspective. The other 2 are coming up.)
From where I am standing after reading your POV and DQ's analysis as well as what we've seen in the show, I see 2 realities.
For Meenu, I think you are right to think that there was an agreement between the two and Parul has crossed the line quite a few times be it for Kunal or Abir. I can completely see the breadwinner-homemaker perspective fitting here with the agreement being the basis of their relationship. Also, I do feel that there was a motive behind this arrangement. If she would have left Parul to fend for herself, she would have always been scared of either the rise of the biological mother or her being manipulated by Mehul and somehow the truth of her marriage would have come out in the society. She already had one sword hanging over her head by not knowing Mehul's whereabouts and plans. She couldn't afford another one. With her giving Parul a place in her home, she gets to have some control that source of information. She knows Parul in and out now and in my head, if that happened, Meenu is a much more manipulative person than we've given her credit for.
The second reality that I see is Parul's. From the dialogues she has had, it seems like she sees herself as the queen's maid. The only movie reference I can think of right now is Jodhaa-Akbar. She is the the right hand, the sole confidante and the support system for Meenu like the daasis used to be in earlier times.
I would love to all you guys' thoughts on my theory but I think @Ria is going to tell us to move back to KuKu in a bit😬 (which I am 100% going to because I have seen today's episode and I am excited!!!) Sorry Ria! Just let us know when we should stop. It's just that after discussing KuKu with full fervor, all of us move to the story and then other characters come in.
@bold Lol not at all, even though the intention behind this AT was to show our love to KuKu I dont mind discussions about the storyline or other characters. Infact @sam I really like how she depicted both what Mishti is heading towards and what Kuhu is heading towards. They both seek different kind of acceptance from the elders of the house. And I really appreciate all the comments everyone posts here. It was just getting too much of Mishti and Kuhu and I didnt want this topic to become another debate thread.