Originally posted by: journalgirl321
Does it make me a bad person if I say that I actually felt really bad for Kuhu in today's episode? It's probably how Kaveri executes her facial expressions and projects Kuhu's character through the screen, but my heart hurt when I saw tears pool in her eyes after Kunal left her hanging to go running to see Mishti and Abir. I felt as if it was symbolic to her as to what was going to happen regularly once Mishti starts living in the RV house as her jethani. To be honest, I really don't want to see Kuhu have to share her sasural with Mishti. I want to see her shine and I want her to build her own world, separate from her family members who have done nothing but (unintentionally) build up her insecurities little by little. It also irritated me to see BM constantly sharing worried looks with BP throughout Kunal and Kuhu's wedding, and BP constantly checking his watch. This implied that had Mishti and Abir's wedding happened first, Kunal and Kuhu's wedding would have never happened. And BM and BP knew this. That's why BM and BP were so bothered with Kuhu getting married first. I'm sorry, but that is incredibly crappy of the two of them. Didn't BM claim that she doesn't differentiate between Mishti and Kuhu? Then why was she completely okay with the high possibility of Kuhu's wedding not happening? The hypocrisy, I tell you.
Agreed, had Kuhu never made the demand to get married on the same day Mishti, all of this probably wouldn't have happened. But it should be noted that no one would be even talking about Kunal and Kuhu's remarriage had Mishti kept her nose out of business that isn't hers, and had left her inherent need to be mahaan. I don't completely agree with everything Kuhu said to Mishti in the market in one of the recent episodes, but one thing I agreed with is that Mishti is, at least on a subconscious level, trying to redeem herself after breaking Nannu's heart and disappointing her family. Kunal and Kuhu could have easily smoothed over things quietly without a word to their families, and Kunal wouldn't have felt obligated to propose to Kuhu's parents. This brings me to another problem I have with this whole shebang.
In my honest opinion, Kuhu should have waited to marry/get back together with Kunal. Maybe not divorced, but definitely waited. There is no doubt that Kunal loves Kuhu, but even he himself doesn't know whether he loves Kuhu, the Rajvansh bahu, or Kuhu, his wife. He was clearly trying to maintain the peace between the two families so that Mishti and Abir's wedding goes off without a hitch, so he took the drastic step of remarrying Kuhu. It bothers me that Kunal may have just pulled this stunt to keep both families happy, not because he treasures the personal relationship he shares with Kuhu.
And for the billionth time, can someone ship Jasmeet off to London?! This woman, who claims to understand Kuhu, is clearly only trying to exact revenge on Mishti by using Kuhu to wreck her marriage. She doesn't actually genuinely care about Kuhu, and I wish Kuhu was self-aware enough to realize that.
@Bold- 100% on point. No it doesnt make you a bad person and you are not the only one. I felt bad for Kuhu to, might be Kaveri's way of expressing throught her eyes, poor girl cant get a break. She wanted just one thing 100% to herself the marriage and her family to herself, is it selfish yes, but is it wrong? No. Sometimes you have to selfish, you have to care for your own happiness. And why couldnt Kunal take her with him, you just married her, all you had to do was take her hand take her outside and have her stand with you and the rest of the family, rather than handing her the sherwani dupatta and not even looking back to see if she is coming. If Kunal wants to give 100% to Kuhu, he better start now before the rainbow is covered with stormy clouds. Dont even get me started on BP and BM, I dont think they have ever considered Mishti and Kuhu as equal. They always brush off Kuhu's problems.
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