#Ladaku Chokro-A KuKu (Ritvik and Kaveri) DTNt Pg 31 AT Nt Pg63/143 - Page 67

Originally posted by: journalgirl321

Does it make me a bad person if I say that I actually felt really bad for Kuhu in today's episode? It's probably how Kaveri executes her facial expressions and projects Kuhu's character through the screen, but my heart hurt when I saw tears pool in her eyes after Kunal left her hanging to go running to see Mishti and Abir. I felt as if it was symbolic to her as to what was going to happen regularly once Mishti starts living in the RV house as her jethani. To be honest, I really don't want to see Kuhu have to share her sasural with Mishti. I want to see her shine and I want her to build her own world, separate from her family members who have done nothing but (unintentionally) build up her insecurities little by little. It also irritated me to see BM constantly sharing worried looks with BP throughout Kunal and Kuhu's wedding, and BP constantly checking his watch. This implied that had Mishti and Abir's wedding happened first, Kunal and Kuhu's wedding would have never happened. And BM and BP knew this. That's why BM and BP were so bothered with Kuhu getting married first. I'm sorry, but that is incredibly crappy of the two of them. Didn't BM claim that she doesn't differentiate between Mishti and Kuhu? Then why was she completely okay with the high possibility of Kuhu's wedding not happening? The hypocrisy, I tell you.

Agreed, had Kuhu never made the demand to get married on the same day Mishti, all of this probably wouldn't have happened. But it should be noted that no one would be even talking about Kunal and Kuhu's remarriage had Mishti kept her nose out of business that isn't hers, and had left her inherent need to be mahaan. I don't completely agree with everything Kuhu said to Mishti in the market in one of the recent episodes, but one thing I agreed with is that Mishti is, at least on a subconscious level, trying to redeem herself after breaking Nannu's heart and disappointing her family. Kunal and Kuhu could have easily smoothed over things quietly without a word to their families, and Kunal wouldn't have felt obligated to propose to Kuhu's parents. This brings me to another problem I have with this whole shebang.

In my honest opinion, Kuhu should have waited to marry/get back together with Kunal. Maybe not divorced, but definitely waited. There is no doubt that Kunal loves Kuhu, but even he himself doesn't know whether he loves Kuhu, the Rajvansh bahu, or Kuhu, his wife. He was clearly trying to maintain the peace between the two families so that Mishti and Abir's wedding goes off without a hitch, so he took the drastic step of remarrying Kuhu. It bothers me that Kunal may have just pulled this stunt to keep both families happy, not because he treasures the personal relationship he shares with Kuhu.

And for the billionth time, can someone ship Jasmeet off to London?! This woman, who claims to understand Kuhu, is clearly only trying to exact revenge on Mishti by using Kuhu to wreck her marriage. She doesn't actually genuinely care about Kuhu, and I wish Kuhu was self-aware enough to realize that.

@Bold- 100% on point. No it doesnt make you a bad person and you are not the only one. I felt bad for Kuhu to, might be Kaveri's way of expressing throught her eyes, poor girl cant get a break. She wanted just one thing 100% to herself the marriage and her family to herself, is it selfish yes, but is it wrong? No. Sometimes you have to selfish, you have to care for your own happiness. And why couldnt Kunal take her with him, you just married her, all you had to do was take her hand take her outside and have her stand with you and the rest of the family, rather than handing her the sherwani dupatta and not even looking back to see if she is coming. If Kunal wants to give 100% to Kuhu, he better start now before the rainbow is covered with stormy clouds. Dont even get me started on BP and BM, I dont think they have ever considered Mishti and Kuhu as equal. They always brush off Kuhu's problems.

@Meera: If you're a bad person, I'm a bad person because I completely agree with everything you said, about BM and BP especially. This half an hour muhurat didn't bother anyone when Mishti and Abir's shaadi was supposed to happen first, but suddenly it's a huge commotion when the order gets switched? It just goes to show that the Maheshwaris were trying to humour Kuhu so she would let her public humiliation go and let the marriage happen without a hitch. Ek baar Mishti ki shaadi ho jaaye, then who cares if Kuhu feels slighted?

I hear your concerns about Kuhu going back to Kunal in this situation, but I also think it was ultimately the right decision. He has always had strong feelings for Kuhu the person, and enjoyed her presence, but Kuhu the RV bahu showed him that his desires didn't have to be at odds with his family life and that's when he accepted he loves her. As he said himself, I would be repeating old mistakes if I say that I want to save my relationship for bhai -- so that's not quite it, but at the same time, these two will forever be that khandaani couple.

Despite the tension in their interpersonal equation, their mutual commitment to family moulded them into a unit over the last five months and that is what they love most about each other. Kuhu herself doesn't know anymore if she is more Kunal's wife or more the RV bahu -- one bleeds into the other. And it is as an RV bahu that Kuhu truly found herself and a family that supported her in doing so. For her, it's never been just about her relationship with Kunal -- she wants to stay with her family.

If Kunal had done today's dupatta thing for Ketu's wedding, I think Kuhu would have rolled her eyes and laughed. It's all the baggage that comes with Mishti that made it such a trigger. That's Kuhu's personal demon that she'll have to contend with.

@Nikkie: Welcome to our cozy AT, pal! And thanks go to lopli (whose name I just found out is Ria!) for creating this wonderful place!

The episodes are getting harder to watch because of the overwhelmingly negative tone and the extremely manipulative writing. However, I do give them credit for building Kuhu's mistrust of Mishti well over the course of the leap. I think we are all just hoping in whatever little way that we get to see a mirror image of Kunal doing for Kuhu what she did for him, i.e. standing with her through a period of intense insecurity and pulling her back from self-destruction.

Originally posted by: lopli

@Bold- 100% on point. No it doesnt make you a bad person and you are not the only one. I felt bad for Kuhu to, might be Kaveri's way of expressing throught her eyes, poor girl cant get a break. She wanted just one thing 100% to herself the marriage and her family to herself, is it selfish yes, but is it wrong? No. Sometimes you have to selfish, you have to care for your own happiness. And why couldnt Kunal take her with him, you just married her, all you had to do was take her hand take her outside and have her stand with you and the rest of the family, rather than handing her the sherwani dupatta and not even looking back to see if she is coming. If Kunal wants to give 100% to Kuhu, he better start now before the rainbow is covered with stormy clouds. Dont even get me started on BP and BM, I dont think they have ever considered Mishti and Kuhu as equal. They always brush off Kuhu's problems.

WHY didn't he do this 😒 Kunal is pissing me off man. If anything, he's only going to serve to further sink Kuhu's self-esteem going forward. #TactlessChokro

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

@Meera: If you're a bad person, I'm a bad person because I completely agree with everything you said, about BM and BP especially. This half an hour muhurat didn't bother anyone when Mishti and Abir's shaadi was supposed to happen first, but suddenly it's a huge commotion when the order gets switched? It just goes to show that the Maheshwaris were trying to humour Kuhu so she would let her public humiliation go and let the marriage happen without a hitch. Ek baar Mishti ki shaadi ho jaaye, then who cares if Kuhu feels slighted?

I hear your concerns about Kuhu going back to Kunal in this situation, but I also think it was ultimately the right decision. He has always had strong feelings for Kuhu the person, and enjoyed her presence, but Kuhu the RV bahu showed him that his desires didn't have to be at odds with his family life and that's when he accepted he loves her. As he said himself, I would be repeating old mistakes if I say that I want to save my relationship for bhai -- so that's not quite it, but at the same time, these two will forever be that khandaani couple.

Despite the tension in their interpersonal equation, their mutual commitment to family moulded them into a unit over the last five months and that is what they love most about each other. Kuhu herself doesn't know anymore if she is more Kunal's wife or more the RV bahu -- one bleeds into the other. And it is as an RV bahu that Kuhu truly found herself and a family that supported her in doing so. For her, it's never been just about her relationship with Kunal -- she wants to stay with her family.

If Kunal had done today's dupatta thing for Ketu's wedding, I think Kuhu would have rolled her eyes and laughed. It's all the baggage that comes with Mishti that made it such a trigger. That's Kuhu's personal demon that she'll have to contend with.

@Nikkie: Welcome to our cozy AT, pal! And thanks go to lopli (whose name I just found out is Ria!) for creating this wonderful place!

The episodes are getting harder to watch because of the overwhelmingly negative tone and the extremely manipulative writing. However, I do give them credit for building Kuhu's mistrust of Mishti well over the course of the leap. I think we are all just hoping in whatever little way that we get to see a mirror image of Kunal doing for Kuhu what she did for him, i.e. standing with her through a period of intense insecurity and pulling her back from self-destruction.

That's what I thought as well but I later realised the original plan was to get them married at the same time, that's why Abir and Kunal were sitting in the mandap together and Varsha said that they didn't have time for sequential ceremonies.

Still, BP-BM's reactions to KuShti's dynamics always leave a bad taste in my mouth. They don't seem to care much for Kuhu.

Coming to #CluelessChokro, I think the dynamic between KuKu will change in the sense that though both of them consented to the marriage this time, there will be a rift between them because of Kunal's Kluelessness. There will probably be many instances where Kuhu feels ignored because of his Lakshman level devotion to MishBir.

So, the rift this time will happen because of their different priorities and Kunal's inability to have a fulfilling husband-wife relationship that doesn't revolve around his Bhai and family. Kunal is the type to book tickets for a movie and Kuhu will get excited only to realise he booked tickets for the whole family. 😆

Originally posted by: clarity

That's what I thought as well but I later realised the original plan was to get them married at the same time, that's why Abir and Kunal were sitting in the mandap together and Varsha said that they didn't have time for sequential ceremonies.

Still, BP-BM's reactions to KuShti's dynamics always leave a bad taste in my mouth. They don't seem to care much for Kuhu.

Then this was so badly communicated. BP clearly said yesterday that there is a half an hour muhurat and they would do MA's shaadi first and then KK's.

Whatever 🤔

I'm ready to stop whining and start fangirling now. That wink and blush alone can fire a thousand headcanons about this #boldchokri and her #sharmilashauhar ☺️ And the way Kunal was looking directly into her eyes through all the rituals was like watching him make a thousand silent promises. I really hope someone makes a VM that edits out all the BM/BP tension and is just a continuous stream of these two ❤️

Originally posted by: clarity

Coming to #CluelessChokro, I think the dynamic between KuKu will change in the sense that though both of them consented to the marriage this time, there will be a rift between them because of Kunal's Kluelessness. There will probably be many instances where Kuhu feels ignored because of his Lakshman level devotion to MishBir.

So, the rift this time will happen because of their different priorities and Kunal's inability to have a fulfilling husband-wife relationship that doesn't revolve around his Bhai and family. Kunal is the type to book tickets for a movie and Kuhu will get excited only to realise he booked tickets for the whole family. 😆

Lol that made me laugh so hard, or he will be like Kuhu tum toh already filmy ho, yeh tickets are for Bhai and Babhi.

Originally posted by: Samanalyse

Then this was so badly communicated. BP clearly said yesterday that there is a half an hour muhurat and they would do MA's shaadi first and then KK's.

Whatever 🤔

I'm ready to stop whining and start fangirling now. That wink and blush alone can fire a thousand headcanons about this #boldchokri and her #sharmilashauhar ☺️ And the way Kunal was looking directly into her eyes through all the rituals was like watching him make a thousand silent promises. I really hope someone makes a VM that edits out all the BM/BP tension and is just a continuous stream of these two ❤️

@Bold- me too! And if someone can just add the bekhudi song in the background. I like the song they selected for the wedding, but nothing beats bekhudi as the background tune for our KuKu.

Originally posted by: clarity

So, the rift this time will happen because of their different priorities and Kunal's inability to have a fulfilling husband-wife relationship that doesn't revolve around his Bhai and family. Kunal is the type to book tickets for a movie and Kuhu will get excited only to realise he booked tickets for the whole family. 😆

I totally agree, except that I think Kuhu will be one step ahead. Oh, that movie? I watched it with Ketu and Mami last week. 😎 They work so well together because she is equally into involving the whole family -- need we look further than her first event and that "business meeting" she was having at the dining table the next day?

Originally posted by: PureDrivenSnow

@bold: I have a confession to make...woh hug scene maine aprox 300 times dekh liya hai ☺️😆

Mat karo, please mat karo...humare andar umeed mat jagao. Dil pehle se toota hua hai

It would be lovely to get a genuine convo between the two but I'm not getting my hopes high.

Can we expect kunal giving good advices to kuhu & she agrees.Whenever she becomes hyper he hugs her,pacifies her & she melts down.Such scenerio will not take place only in dreams