characterization of Antara- open for discussion - Page 3

Originally posted by: Rein123

When you deceive someone, you take that choice away from them, because you are manipulating them into making a choice they shouldn’t be really making.

It’s just like those cases where women who wish to join the glamorous film industry end up getting duped into prostitution or marginalised women looking for work to support their families through agents get caught in human trafficking. Moreover if you take into consideration how Sudhir, Amir joined MJ it was obviously seemed believable enough to prey on an unsuspecting young woman.

When a person is raped their life is ruined, similarly getting exploited sexually also ruins their life.

But still a really smart person can get away unscathed. The victim can make a choice to believe him or not. Had Maya not been so naive, she wouldn't have fallen for MJ. Or should've broken it off midway. She did have that much of an agency.

In deceit, the victim has the time and space to analyze actions and think over things.

In rape, you cannot do anything unless you can defeat the predator's strength.

Originally posted by: Mahisa22

But still a really smart person can get away unscathed. The victim can make a choice to believe him or not. Had Maya not been so naive, she wouldn't have fallen for MJ. Or should've broken it off midway. She did have that much of an agency.

In deceit, the victim has the time and space to analyze actions and think over things.

In rape, you cannot do anything unless you can defeat the predator's strength.

@bold So tell me one thing, should Maya be blamed for being Naive when she was just starting out and inexperienced? Then what would you say about Rishi being Naive and falling for Maya? Should he also be blamed for his own death?

Not everyone is born smart or experienced enough to discern between people like MJ and those that love them genuinely, this takes time and requires some amount of experience. As seen in the case of Rishi where Maya just repeated everything that MJ did to her.

And moreover in a world where the weak are vulnerable to getting hurt and exploited can you really blame them for being weak or unable to protect themselves?

Coming to rape, let’s take the recent case that happened in Hyderabad, where the girl had her Scooty punctured by the perpetrators, was she naive here as she parked her bike in a place where anyone can puncture it? Was she naive for not taking a cab walking out alone where those monsters were able to easily nab her?

When women get raped, people go around blaming the girls only, by pointing at their clothes, the fact that they were out late at night etc. In a date rape the girl is drugged and then raped by her boyfriend was she being naive? Is trusting a person equal to being naive?

It’s not just about strength, to get a woman where you want her, that also requires some level of deceit. This is a common trait of sexual predators.

No matter how smart a person maybe if someone wishes to hurt them they will find every way possible to do so.

Originally posted by: Rein123

@bold So tell me one thing, should Maya be blamed for being Naive when she was just starting out and inexperienced? Then what would you say about Rishi being Naive and falling for Maya? Should he also be blamed for his own death?

Not everyone is born smart or experienced enough to discern between people like MJ and those that love them genuinely, this takes time and requires some amount of experience. As seen in the case of Rishi where Maya just repeated everything that MJ did to her.

And moreover in a world where the weak are vulnerable to getting hurt and exploited can you really blame them for being weak or unable to protect themselves?

Coming to rape, let’s take the recent case that happened in Hyderabad, where the girl had her Scooty punctured by the perpetrators, was she naive here as she parked her bike in a place where anyone can puncture it? Was she naive for not taking a cab walking out alone where those monsters were able to easily nab her?

When women get raped, people go around blaming the girls only, by pointing at their clothes, the fact that they were out late at night etc. In a date rape the girl is drugged and then raped by her boyfriend was she being naive? Is trusting a person equal to being naive?

It’s not just about strength, to get a woman where you want her, that also requires some level of deceit. This is a common trait of sexual predators.

No matter how smart a person maybe if someone wishes to hurt them they will find every way possible to do so.

Underlined: Did you just seriously make that comparison? What does 'naivete' come here? You cannot predict beforehand that someone will puncture your tyres. Dude, that's not even a comparison to being seduced.

In rape it is never the girls' fault. And nobody is saying its Maya's fault either for what happened to her. But she could've seen the warning signs if she was smarter. She wouldn't have fallen prey to Mritunjay if she refused to be interested in him.

What happened to Manvi was heinous, but in no way it can be compared to rape.

Antara

Since starting am saying that the woman like Antara deserves the man like MJ

Antara is the woman who loves the title of Mrs Roy

Ok I'll share my theory about Antara MJ and Diya

They're college friends we all know , so diya n Antara both like MJ but MJ liked Diya as she's his confidant

and I think Antara somehow blackmailed MJ into marry her by getting pregnant with his child, we have already seen MJ's mom affection for Antara and hatred for MJ n Diya ,so maybe she took his mom on her side to become Mrs MJ

Have you guyz noticed Diya's expression when Antara said only she have right to called Mrs Roy .....her face was saying many things

But still am not sure if she knew about MJ n Diya affair or not

But one thing is clear ....MJ never loved Antara ...he was tolerating her for his sons only