Originally posted by: myviewprem
Why MJ is to blamed? very good topic
He is more to be blamed because hes the married guy with kids not Maya
He was supposed to maintain his limits as an married man as someone more mature than Maya
Bu he thought this is just a fling, lets show Maya her place and had an affair telling so many lies to Maya
MJ never expected that Maya shall have a baby ever and declare it to press and call a press conference etc
Maya may not be first girl he had extra marital relation with may be. The before girls just aborted and remained silent
In corporate world such affairs are common be it US or India
Its just that women are not like Maya to announce to world. They will abort and swallow their pride and move on in life.
But Maya not ready to move on, she does not realize consequence of not aborting baby and moving on in life for both Maya and MJ
If baby comes MJs business will have loss, shares will fall, his reputation in society will go, his wife and kids will leave him etc. Which man in late 40s will risk all that in life. MJ had only thought Maya is passing affair neither he want to marry her nor want any child from her. He did not want anyone to know their affair
A recent survey by an app revealed that 70% of women cheat on their husband and have extra marital affairs (google it) in corporate world(business standard report)
So you can imagine men percentage who cheat on wives, it will usually be more
Look at Hrithik Kangana affair, Hrithik told her i am divorcing wife and got into affair with her saying he wants to marry her. Usually such affairs are hidden by both parties, very brave of kangana to have revealed it. You saw back lash she is getting even today by bollywood. Loss of work, being made fun of in award functions and what not she had to face. Whose fault was it more kangana or hrithik, of course hrithik he lied and had that affair. (I am giving bollywood ex because its more famous and all know it)
Please read paneesh murthy affairs on google (you can google many more cases in india only) just that corporate india will never take any action on its senior mangement and will remove girls only having that affair or who faced harassment. In US since laws are strong action happens in more cases.
There are many such cases going on daily in work place. Just that hardly 0.001% come out in public , rest all brushed under carpets. Maya not ready to brush under carpet.
So Mj did what he did to save his family and reputation