Originally posted by: Indibandi20
How well you put it @Uma...have been trying to be a neutral silent reader for the past couple of days more as a Sidnaaz detox mechanism...but this USUD again got me fingertips itching for some action.
So many have commented about the unfairness /double standards of Sids behaviour here ..but for me thats not even important now...if we truly believe in them as a pair then we know that their relationship is beyond the Tit for Tat stage. At least having observed Sana more closely I can say that definitely from her side its beyond the hurt games now...
So here's my concern..
Maybe it was all in fun with no deeper meaning from his side...but as Uma rightly said wasn't this a prerogative he has already given only to Sana to do with him as she wants.....which has been one of the key pillars of us shippers belief in building this ship...that Sid the man who doesn't let anyone even come close to him lets Sana get away with the most childish and at times irritating actions.
So how can he now at this stage of their relationship give this access to others to do with him as they want especially when he knows how strongly A comes on to him..
So by granting them this access and then issuing statements like he cannot choose between Sana and Arti..he is actually kind of putting them on the same level as far as he is concerned. I mean dude ..really ..did you have to actually say that.😥😥😥 when just last week you had moved the heaven and the earth to make her understand that she was your priority and whatever happened in chess task was by mistake. Come one man this is so not done.....
What really got my goat here was when she had kind of accepted his decision to save Paras as she was herself expecting the same going by his team logic...then why in the hell did he have to go and issue individual justifications to Arti ...he owed the explanation to no one except Sana and that too from a personal and not game POV coz in the end it's his game and he should have every right to take his own decision.
Sorry Siddy boy you got it wrong this time😥...not your decision..that's always yours to take and be respected but the way you handled it..could have been done better😥😥😥
P.S...on a side note in that Polaroid USUD ..I got the distinct feeling that seeing her their with him in the pic has again sent him into one of his overthinking and insecurity sprees..he says again and again I don't relate to this Sana..wonder why?..so was the Arti Mahira USUD 😖😖 which obviously happened later again an attempt on his part to withdraw himself...
Uff this man will be the death of me one day..one minute I hate him the other I feel sorry for him😡😡
1. Sid was having fun. I am certain about that. I have access issues too there. And Sana having similar fun wouldn’t have been taken well at all. It would have been filth flung at her. So, double standards without a doubt. Not done. Somebody needs to show these to him and how he is coming across. Having love is not enough. One needs to understand how to put it across too as she too has sometimes failed in the past.
2. The words he chose for Aarti were not required at all. He told PaHira too that Sana would have a problem if he chose Aarti. Why phaad the entire bill on Sana? So was Sana alone the reason he didn’t go for Aarti? If he had ulterior motives, why put it on Sana before the crowd and then struggle to explain all over and make a mess of it?
3. I was hurt too as how Sana had accepted Paras being saved. She is practical. Understands it’s a game. And eats her hurt. But to say that she does not want to question him or argue coz she is too tired to fall at him and manao him coz she needs him... well, that is NOT a good space to be in a relationship. I shall not elaborate.
In which USUD does Sid say I don’t relate to this Sana on the Polaroid? 😲 Don’t give me a cardiac arrest! Edit: Saw it. He is going to be in for a shock when he sees her music vids 🤣Bandi total pataakha hai if she isn’t one already in his eyes 😆
PS. Let nobody consider discussion about behavior and wrong choice of words as bashing. I seriously love the guy inspite of his faults. I would just like him as her to be aware of potential challenges that attitude issues could bring into the relationship in the future. Period.
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