SidNaaz DT 34: Humein Todne ki Koshish karne mein bahut Late Ho Gaya😎 - Page 79

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Posted: 5 years ago

Another thought coming to my mind...


Why was Sid always clarifying to Paras that its no ehsaan, no friendship gesture. And its only payback and this was his last chance to pay Paras back. He was very careful with his words that he chose to explain to Paras.


This has happened after his conversation with Sana where she asked him to do the sacrifice for her. To get Pahira out of her life. They affect her a lot. Sana was very serious about it and Sid seems to be listening too. I found it very weird that immediately after conversation he goes and saves Paras. Sid has never been that ignorant to Sana. He knew she will be hurt like a major hurt after PC, even then he did. I think he thought about it seriously too.


My thought is that Sid wants to get even with Paras before pushing him out of their life for good. This is the reason he kept on insisting payback word. He never called Paras a friend in the entire conversation.


This whole payback thing has been boggling my mind.  Also, because Sid chooses his words very carefully.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Meenakshi-rg

What was that convo about sana wanting to leave ??Did she say She doesn't want to see him???

Sid said tere saath rishta banaya aur woh life long rahega . Tujhe rakhna ho toh rakhna????

What was that ???

Yeah. She did. And I am glad she is sensible and not just a stupid senseless romantic. There is thought happening.

At night, when he has the breakdown she ensured he doesn’t lose it completely. It’s always best that when there’s a conflict among a couple, that when one shouts, the other doesn’t react then, right? Here, she was more than understanding at night.

We are not sure of what happened at night- all the edited talk, to result in the hug. But she was surely processing all the filth he flung at her in anger. It’s more like how can the man I love and I know loves me be as bad as this too? She has been in a really bad relationship for 2 years we need to remember and has left the person. So, all this is tough on her.

So, they have had conversations we haven’t obviously been privy to and come morning, she is deeply hurt at the loyalty accusation that she has to hear from Paras and as we would know the fact that Sid did not say a word against Paras. I knew this would be her reaction the day before when I saw the snippet of the fight. The taunts just got to her and she said she would leave. I wouldn’t blame her at all, truth be said. I know I couldn’t live for a day with this.

But then there’s the WA conversation that we were cut off from and they are fine at yoga and during the gifting process, it is clear they have patched up things. She is with him.


Both of them need to be very careful these last few days... they need to nurture what they have and then take it outside and decide. We know what she wants- she already considers him her husband. Yesterday would have just put her in a tough spot to recalibrate once again as to why she was still in love with him. It’s a tough process.

As I have always said and as some people have always been in denial here, both need therapy for multiple issues. Half the house does.

Also, once outside Sid needs to cut off from Paras after giving him a verbal lashing. This sort of talking to his girl on loyalty and other nonsense is not something she needs to hear from the guy who sl*shamed her at a press meet.


I have to say I am a pretty proud fan of Sana today. She held her own and him when it was required of her.

Edited by Uma2010 - 5 years ago
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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: jyoti06


During fight Sid told her that I warned u about the task and not to react to which sana said yes i know u told me not to react but still ...


So they did hv a word about this plan of exposing asim ..


Rest sana felt bad that paras was choosen over her which was separate issue but sid had told her not to react beforehand itself ..


I agree sid has no control on his words when he is angry bec sana deeply affects him and he cannot express it openly either bec cameras around. But Sana is difficult girl too and its not easy to handle her either which paras keeps saying that she was so ott that i had to cut off with her.. So if Sid needs a sana to control his temper then sana too needs a sid to control her emotional vulnerability which we saw how sid did in that wkw when sana broke down after jealousy tag...


So Both deserve each other in a way 😆..Sid ne toh bol diya lifelong ka. .lets see if sana wants same too ..but i guess she wants it too ..she said during fight that khasam tu hai mera, kisi aur ko khasam mat bana.. Khasam is husband in punjabi.

If Sid told sana not to react then y did she reacted.. y did she tell tu mujhe ghar she nikalna chahatha hai.. she had problem when she saved Aarthi last time.. now with paras( Sid clearly didn’t want to keep any debts from paras, and also his reasoning of not saving paras was also right) .

I didn’t get y she went and cried on others bed, if she knew that Sid will not save her, she knows if she cries, those fake people come to show sympathy for at least footage, what stupid story Rashmi was reciting ..

She gave chance to Paras to talk.. she made Sid upset .. what was the need, Iam genuinely confused

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Posted: 5 years ago

Most of the time tum sab k views itne one sided hote Hain k it's amusing and confusing😆

Anyhow, I really want to see their bathroom bed convo.. I wish USUD is released

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: sweety1994

If Sid told sana not to react then y did she reacted.. y did she tell tu mujhe ghar she nikalna chahatha hai.. she had problem when she saved Aarthi last time.. now with paras( Sid clearly didn’t want to keep any debts from paras, and also his reasoning of not saving paras was also right) .

I didn’t get y she went and cried on others bed, if she knew that Sid will not save her, she knows if she cries, those fake people come to show sympathy for at least footage, what stupid story Rashmi was reciting ..

She gave chance to Paras to talk.. she made Sid upset .. what was the need, Iam genuinely confused

Sana insaan hai...Robot nhi ki programmed ho kar react karegi ..bura lagega tab kyu nhi bolegi...Sid bhi temper loose kiya jo bolna tha bola aur bura bola sana ne manaya bhi aur ab usi ko bura bolo...ab sana ke fans sid ko bura bolenge....Haan sid ne bahut bura bola i agree wo sana ko hadd se jyada pyaar karta hai...jab keh nhi paa raha... insecure hai tab blast ho ja raha hai...dono ko counseling chahiye but dono bure nhi hai na fake hai...dono ne apne hisaab se react kiya....but ye kehna ki sana ne sid ne jo bola kyu nhi maana is too much...a bit insensitive ...

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Posted: 5 years ago

Siddharth’s reaction to Sana during the laughter task hurt me the most I have to admit and I am sure it hurt her too quite deeply. To forbid her from laughing! Yes, it’s a task, but we know who Sana is. She is a girl born to laugh and make others laugh and she was taunted for smiling and laughing when people were deliberately trying to make her laugh. Siddharth needs to show maturity under duress and not lose his head. That girl is his for life unless he stretches her so much that she breaks.

He will come across several other acquaintances of men in her life at work and otherwise. He will come across several men who will have a crush on her with whom she will have to engage for work. She can’t avoid them. A couple of my colleagues have harboured feelings for me through years inspite of knowing I am well married and committed. One can’t avoid them in professional space. Siddharth cannot imagine she has a soft corner for all or would like to go to bed with them. Possessiveness can be beautiful, but not to these toxic extents where you clip the wings of those you love. I hope and pray their life outside with therapy will teach both to be better persons for each other. They deserve all the love in the world.

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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Most of the time tum sab k views itne one sided hote Hain k it's amusing and confusing😆

Anyhow, I really want to see their bathroom bed convo.. I wish USUD is released

I ignore! If I read, then mann karta hain, counter karne ka, so better ignore! 🤣

I doubt they will release the USUD of the bed convo

But bathroom convo we may get USUD! But it will be worthless I feel


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Posted: 5 years ago

Originally posted by: Uma2010

Siddharth’s reaction to Sana during the laughter task hurt me the most I have to admit and I am sure it hurt her too quite deeply. To forbid her from laughing! Yes, it’s a task, but we know who Sana is. She is a girl born to laugh and make others laugh and she was taunted for smiling and laughing when people were deliberately trying to make her laugh. Siddharth needs to show maturity under duress and not lose his head. That girl is his for life unless he stretches her so much that she breaks.

He will come across several other acquaintances of men in her life at work and otherwise. He will come across several men who will have a crush on her with whom she will have to engage for work. She can’t avoid them. A couple of my colleagues have harboured feelings for me through years inspite of knowing I am well married and committed. One can’t avoid them in professional space. Siddharth cannot imagine she has a soft corner for all or would like to go to bed with them. Possessiveness can be beautiful, but not to these toxic extents where you clip the wings of those you love. I hope and pray their life outside with therapy will teach both to be better persons for each other. They deserve all the love in the world.

Yeah that was not needed from Siddarth's side. I was hoping that he will understand how hard was it for Sana at that time. She was hurt, her smile was very brief one and not the laugh.

I am not sure why was he so pissed off though. For me their relation has gone beyond the stage where Asim making her laugh pisses him. May be it was building up starting from the guilt to not able to explain to her why he saved Paras. Then things added up.

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