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Posted: 5 years ago
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Its laughable that he is concerned


1. He waved off artis panic attack (chalo maan lete hain usko sabne rok diya) but he let sana make fun of arti - teri mausi ki beti hai jo tu jayega (doesnt appreciate the gravity of mental illness)


2. He is constantly hot and cold with her. Giving her mixed signals. Says i wont see you after bb house and still snuggles and cuddles and kisses and spoons with her (confusing her)


3. Gaslighting her that she is fickle, untrustworthy, flipper, chipku. Bewkoof, gadhi, brainless (harms self confidence, considered as mental abuse)


4. Sl*t shames her, tu paras ke paas ja, boyfriend banane aayi, ja asim ke paas ja (builds up insecurities)


5. Mansplains by stating things like dimag mat laga, zyada soch mat, bewkoof hai tu, jitna bola hai utna kar, your opinion doesnt matter etc etc (making her feel stupid and worthless)


And there are many more ways he actually is harming her mebtal health. Aise log jab mental health ke liye concern dikhate hain to its laughable

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Sid is really concerned about Sana..

Sid started liking her as she was only one contestant chilled out and both soon developed great rapport..

And that is the reason he didnt change abruptly even after sallu giving clear signal.. But he tried not to get deep into it..and he normalise it he saying about GG, Paras and all..


He was indeed close to pratyusha and Sana antics are self harming whn things dont go in her favour.. So his concern around her is very genuine

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: x.inspire.x

I really don't like Siddharth per se, but it actually touched my heart, the way he sat her down and kept explaining to her, not to harm herself. How he would just be a phone call away whenever she feels like harming herself, so, she should give him a call. He has lost a friend this way, he seems determined not to let it happen again. Atleast, not without trying his best. He's scared and concerned and committed to protect his friends. I think this explains how he's being the same with Sana even after Salman warning him.

Agree .

He looked like a human after a long time. He did sth good instead of game plan.


P.S. I don't think Sana is faking those self harm as I know her kind of galz. Some galz who appear as very chirpy ........sometimes do those. It is not fake. They too have a story to tell. I believe her. At least in this she is real.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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That talk 💔 when Sid said I have lost my friend .he was talking about Pratyusha ☹️

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I don’t like Sid for many things but I liked him in this convo.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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How I see it is Sana is a headstrong girl who's been through a lot and still managed to keep a float.

So while Sid's concern might have been genuine, he's really wasting his time, she doesn't need it 😆 it's all a game.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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He is not really concerned for her..he is worried about himself. He has been trying,desperately trying lately to get her off his back. The way she clings to him zabardasti is setting off alarm bells in his head. The creepy pati patni references and all. He has been giving her hint after hint that he is not interested in this 'friendship' after the show but she pretends she doesnt get it and she drops other hints about her intention to stalk him . So he is trying saam daam dand bhed to get rid of her..now he is seeing if 'manana' would work. It wont. She is showing all kinds of signs of being a stalker.


Like Atonement said...its not exactly 'self harm'..the chest thumping and all. In an ideal world ..for someone with a reputation to worry about..you could say thats harmful in a way ..to make a joke of urself by acting like a freak but its not Self harm in the way he lumps it with Pratyusha's suicide. Actually that was insensitive -Pratyusha had to do it because she couldnt deal with sexual exploitation and abuse not because she didnt get 'ATTENSHUN ' from someone.


He never had any real concern for her..or for anyone and he is not going to have any.


Well for her sake I hope she picks the hint and lets him go ..otherwise it could get really ugly for her. Without cameras around..it wont end in the usual name calling or pinning down till she giggles.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Agree n he was talking about Pratyusha❤️ chalo ek genuine advice dekhne ko mili sidd ki taraf se good... Wo sana ko zada seriously le raha hai wo aisa kuch nahi karne wali she's full of life n shes enjoying her life

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I honestly think fame will really disturb Sana and her mental health. Shes so jhalli and stupid at times and wont be able to handle such fame. Aur pagal hojaye gi. Im glad Sid gave her heads up.

I also have a feeling Sanas family will push her hard to utilize this popularity but I hope its in a positive way and she doesn’t turn out to be a mess.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: TrollikaDevi

He is not really concerned for her..he is worried about himself. He has been trying,desperately trying lately to get her off his back. The way she clings to him zabardasti is setting off alarm bells in his head. The creepy pati patni references and all. He has been giving her hint after hint that he is not interested in this 'friendship' after the show but she pretends she doesnt get it and she drops other hints about her intention to stalk him . So he is trying saam daam dand bhed to get rid of her..now he is seeing if 'manana' would work. It wont. She is showing all kinds of signs of being a stalker.


Like Atonement said...its not exactly 'self harm'..the chest thumping and all. In an ideal world ..for someone with a reputation to worry about..you could say thats harmful in a way ..to make a joke of urself by acting like a freak but its not Self harm in the way he lumps it with Pratyusha's suicide. Actually that was insensitive -Pratyusha had to do it because she couldnt deal with sexual exploitation and abuse not because she didnt get 'ATTENSHUN ' from someone.


He never had any real concern for her..or for anyone and he is not going to have any.


Well for her sake I hope she picks the hint and lets him go ..otherwise it could get really ugly for her. Without cameras around..it wont end in the usual name calling or pinning down till she giggles.

The hot and cold relationship is from Sana and Sids side both. If he's leading her on again and again then thats terrible of Sid. Wasnt there a rumor that he confessed his love for her recently? Hmmm

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