Its laughable that he is concerned
1. He waved off artis panic attack (chalo maan lete hain usko sabne rok diya) but he let sana make fun of arti - teri mausi ki beti hai jo tu jayega (doesnt appreciate the gravity of mental illness)
2. He is constantly hot and cold with her. Giving her mixed signals. Says i wont see you after bb house and still snuggles and cuddles and kisses and spoons with her (confusing her)
3. Gaslighting her that she is fickle, untrustworthy, flipper, chipku. Bewkoof, gadhi, brainless (harms self confidence, considered as mental abuse)
4. Sl*t shames her, tu paras ke paas ja, boyfriend banane aayi, ja asim ke paas ja (builds up insecurities)
5. Mansplains by stating things like dimag mat laga, zyada soch mat, bewkoof hai tu, jitna bola hai utna kar, your opinion doesnt matter etc etc (making her feel stupid and worthless)
And there are many more ways he actually is harming her mebtal health. Aise log jab mental health ke liye concern dikhate hain to its laughable