Is Asim not a loyal friend? He has ego issues? - Page 6

The word Loyalty has been abused here like anything. Loyalty for the wrong person is the worst thing you can do. Loyalty is overhyped by ppl in the house and the press, even dogs are loyal even when they're beaten to death by their owner. We're human beings classed as more intelligent than animals for a reason. Being loyal is nothing to be proud of.

He had to break free from Shukla's shackles and he did for good reason.

Originally posted by: Guneet80

He's 26 most of you say.

I gave rashmi a pass at this only. Because Asim is given a pass at everything.

He's under himanshi's influence

Pyaar mein hai. 26 y/o . Bashed (as if he's the only one)

Bullied ( not the only one)

channel bias(against rashmi too)

Chalo main Ek galti maaf karun uski. How many times?!!?!?!?

I could've forgiven him for bitching IF he apologized. We didn't see him doing it.

Chalo o would give him the benefit of doubt and say we don't see all 24 hours.

But what about how he hounded rashmi?

How can we give him a pass at this?

It was absolutely WRONG.

No excuses.

Agar you are using pyaar mein wala excuse for asim toh why are you questioning RD over defending arhaan. Wasn't she too in love?!!?!?!?

Why can't the same rules apply to rashmi which apply to Asim?!?!?!?!?

Why should we give him a pass always?!?!?!!?!

I didn't see him smile when Sallu bashed HK. In fact he even tried to talk to salman on her behalf.

Why did he ghuso in between rashmi and himanshi when they were sorting it out?

Who is he to come in between? It wasn't about him. Why did he come in between trying to talk on the behalf of himanshi?

Wasn't she defending herself all well????????

HK ke Saath he too overdid. It's a fact.

I dont think he should've hounded her like that specially when rashmi got to know what that arhaan said to himanshi.

Aur defend karne ki baat Ho Rahi hai toh tell me why Asim didn't defend rashmi when HK was sympathizing with arhaan and making rashmi look like a tyrant who doesn't value he BF "taking stands for her "?!?!?!?

Whatever u said doesn't make him disloyal. Disloyal means if he joins Rashmi's enemies in the game now such as Shukla or Pahira.

Bash him for other reason. But not disloyal.

Everyone has their own opinion and reasons. May be Asim himself is feeling insecure that Rashmi is being friendly with Shukla. U r watching TV her convo with Devo. Is Asim seeing those. Mind reader hai keya Asim? 🤣 Or yotish? How will he know? 🤣

The day before Sallu exposed we knew Arhan is bachelor.

Sallu was astonished knowing Rashmi knows he was married too.

Now changing everything. Saying she doesn't know he was married. Gave house key to a creepy guy whom she doesn't know??? Pagal hai keya? 🤔

What kind of woman is she? 😡

She keeps changing her word in every single time.

Kabhi bolti hai ...........main jaanti hooon. Kabhi nehi. God knows what next? This is her loyalty to her own word.

Comparing to her own loyalty to her ownself .........not only Asim..............Paras is also clear.

P.S.= Once upon a time I thought her mom/bro are cruel. Now I am understanding they are not cruel. Just afraid of her. If a person changes her own story so many times............sab ko daar jaroor hoga. Be it family/friend /fan.

Asim might be 28 too why only 26.

But Rashmi can't be less than 33. Her this kind of behavior is not expected at this age. People become responsible and mature when they get married. She got none..........naa age effect naa shaadi effect. Once upon a time I called her "Inspiration". I am withdrawing my word. No one should follow her. She is a very confused and screwed up person.

Originally posted by: Bluehue

but asim was pro arhan in that conversation.... Taking his side against rashmi. For once come out from Rashmi shipping and put urself in Asim's place...........aap naa toh Rashmi ko jaanti thi naa Arhaan ko.

Suppose Rashmi was ur enemy. And U just met Arhaan. But becoz of Arhaan u became Rashmi's frnd becoz he made u believe Rashmi is a fantastic person. Now Rashmi is saying Arhaan is bad. Arhaan is crying and saying Rashmi misunderstood him. Whom would U believe? Arhaan or Rashmi. THis is confusion. Nth intentional. He is inside that house. Knows nth about Arhaan or Rashmi.

Shukla i don't agree that she is being friendly at first place... Cordial or come exist as shukla said... He called him fake, below the belt humour wala said him to stay in his limit yesterday only so no she is not at all being friendly to him. I also don't believe she can ever forgive Shukla as I am watching his dual actions on TV. Asim stays in another room when Shukla tortures Rashmi and Rashmi also taunts Shukla. How will he know ? As Shukla is lovey dovey in front of Asim and other. Shukla is intentionally creating this to confuse Asim and Vishal.

She told devo he is not his type loud and clear, told him cordial hai use zyada kuch nahi kar sakti loud and clear. No rashmi fans are not at all confused on her standing with shukla. You saw this on TV. Did Asim saw that? How will he know? Devo was also angry at Rashmi before Rashmi talked and explained the whole thing to her. Was that bitching of Devo or disloyality of Devo. Itne secrets kaun chhupate hai jo Rashmi is doing. Do u hide this much secrets? Cause I don't.

What truth did she hide? Arhan ke bare me listen to her answer which she gave to reporter about what she did know and didn't knowNow Asim knows it. But at that time for which u r blaming Asim...... did he knew? Did U knew ? Or did HK or Sallu or BB knew?

First of all I would never bitch about my friends personal life if I do I want call them wrong for the mess arhan created and If my friend was hurt because I was bitching behind my back my first reaction would be oh my god I an so sorry and clear my meaning rather than shouting on a friend who is in shock and clearly hurt and uske parents ko to conversation me bilkul na lati. That is very sweet of U. Even I am like U. Asim will also react like us when he will come out and read all those we are reading.

As far as Rasim are concerned, these are the times when I’ve felt they’ve made mistakes and not been a good friend to the other. But they’ve not been intentional or malicious and imo there are understandable reasons for why they behaved that way, so for me, Rasim are very much a great bond. And I think both of them are loyal and genuinely fond of one another.

These are not irredeemable mistakes, nothing that big that needs to break their friendship.

Ok - And these are based on my own expectations of friendship of course.😂

1. In the horse task fight when Shukla told Rashami not to get in between, as a friend I would expect her to say I will do what I want, I will support my friend and if you don’t want anyone getting hurt then YOU fix yourself and stop getting violent.

2. Horse task fight - that comment to Shukla that he is mature&don’t fight - after he went into Asim’s face for the nth time and pushed him again, that comment is seriously WTF. To any outsider that doesn’t look like she’s Asim’s friend, it looks like she’s playing both sides.

I personally would be furious if my friend had said that to the guy who had just been violent to me.

3. The times Rashami is silent when Arti (especially) has twice given her tippani or bitched about Asim. Ideally she should say - he’s my friend, I don’t want to hear this.

Ok now, for all those instances, I can give reasons for why Rashami behaved in that way cos I know she’s not a bad person. But regardless, they are all mistakes that show a failure of proving your friendship to someone - imo.

1. Asim not stopping Himanshi from talking about how Arhaan is upset that Rashami is cordial with Shukla.

Himanshi started bitching with her ‘if that was me, I wouldn’t blah sh1te blah’, and Asim should’ve stopped that and said, Rashami is my friend, I don’t want to hear this.

He’s already told Rashami about his frustration with the way she makes excuses for Shukla, and he spoke on behalf of Arhaan so he was referring to that kind of thing when he added his tippani. But it was wrong to say all that with only Vishal & Himanshi present. Also, Rashami’s approach towards Shukla is her business and since he’s gone and said an unnecessary sorry to Shukla, he’s the last person to be unhappy with her approach.

2. When the convo was shown on WKW, things went off on a tangent based on Himanshi’s bitchy comment. Devo wanted to rebut by saying that Rashami WAS looking out for Arhaan’s image - and so we got to know that Rashami hadn’t even known about his ex marriage but that she had been pretending all this time to knowing about it. So then it became about - for Devo and Arti - what a horrible guy Arhaan was. And Arti was fuming that how can Himanshi/Vishal/Asim be defending the guy.

Err well because they were never talking about his past, they were only talking about him being upset with Rashami’s cordial relationship with Shukla.

Asim was stuck on - Oh no my jaanu jaaneman is being bashed and actually what’s wrong that we were discussing Arhaan’s message when Rashami wanted outside news of Arhaan herself?

But he was wrong. And he was not recognising what the issue was. The issue was, that in bringing up this Arhaan message and talking about it without Rashami present to give her replies, Himanshi was making Rashami look bad.

So Asim was wrong to get involved here and have a go at Rashami. (That line - you must’ve been asking about Arhaan because you won’t be asking about your mum/dad - complete non-issue). Asim should’ve stayed out of it, let Himanshi/Rashami talk and said sorry for his part too.

Again, for these instances, I can give reasons for why Asim behaved in that way too, it’s not cos he’s a bad person. But regardless, they are mistakes that show a failure of proving your friendship to someone - imo. 😂

Okay that’s it.. that’s all I can think of right now. 😂😂 But like I said before, these mistakes aren’t of the friendship-breaking sort imo. It’s just a mix of misunderstandings and high or unknown expectations.

Originally posted by: Guneet80

How convenient to blame himanshi for the actions of Asim too. I know what she was doing and it was absolutely deplorable.

But Asim bhi koi chaabi wali gudiya nahi hai that he goes accordingly to anybody like he said on katghara.

Himanshi apni bitching Kar rahi thi. Vishal and Asim PARTICIPATED with their own will.

They could've listened to her and avoided talking negatively about their friend. But they did not.

I agree he asked them to stop first and then said haan haan but then the very next instance he bitched about rashmi who he calls his friend.

"woh sab Kar rahi hai jo nahi Karna chahiye. Haan alag khel rahi hai ", ye kisne bola?

Who are even these three to decide what RD does or doesn't?!!?

If Asim is pointing at Shukla then he himself apologized to him. Rashmi ne Shukla ko Kabhi bhaav hi nahi diya. Anyway he must have known what he wanted to say himself.

And you are talking here about being a friend right? Chalo I agree rashmi screwed up by defending arhaan. Ab kisiko itni badi Baat aise platform pe pata chalegi. They wouldn't know how to react. I'm not justifying her but she isn't perfect either.

Aur Asim se Kuch chupa nahi hai. What that arhaan has does to rashmi. Itni dosti thi toh respect mein chup reh jata but nahi.

First bitched about her then didn't even show any remorse and even hounded her over himanshi before she even uttered a word.

Rashmi didn't even blame himanshi yet he was shouting on her. Is this how a friend treats another friend when they know they are sensitive about some issue?

Wasn't rashmi even allowed to be sad about bitching session?

Zari ke saath why asim did it low-key everybody knows so please.

I don't understand the expectations people have from Rashmi

She should not hide reveal everything about her life

So is there a person in BB right now who has told each and everything?

I m sorry but she gets to decide what to tell people and how much. No one has the right to question. She need not tell each and everything going on in her mind.

But yet I feel the reason she did not tell about arhaan initially was because she has some financial thing with him. May be she wants to settle that. And if things would have gone ugly from her end may be that fraud would run away.

So please stop judging her. Arhan is a fraud. He is in question by multiple people for fraud.

She got cheated by this fraud and its so hard to handle this that too in a place like this. Things like this happen all the time

I dont see one single person whose personal life has become public as much as Rashmis. If she was guilty and wanted to hide, then she would not have told in the 1st place.

And stop unnecessarily targeting her to show your fav contestant better.

Looks like people aren't able to digest that she is such a big celebrity yet so good.

Let Asim and Rashmi decide if they want to be friends or not.

Even a 6 year old these days understand who they want as thier friend.

Originally posted by: Bluehue

bold : things have changed so much after that recently he bitched behind her back with himanshi and vishal not about game about her personal life and problem.

Brought her late father and mother in to the conversation where it was totally uncalled for and highly insensitive to prove a stupid non existenting point... And shouting and blaming her for his bitching iske bad as arti said dhajiya uda deni chahiye thi dono ki but she was still supporting her in front of press when he was fumbling.

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Originally posted by: jhalak7

Anyway my main issue with him was shouting at her not the bitching sirf bitching hoti to maybe I would have been ok it's how whole situation went down. If for once he had said rashmi it's not what it looks like rather than blaming her it would have been ok.

Originally posted by: Bluehue

first of all dont use that tone with me. And didn't he told shukla that arhan did something wrong to someone he knew? Maybe he came close to rashmi due to rashmi but he knew about hiding about kid maybe not marriage but he knew about hiding kid.

Anyway my main issue with him was shouting at her not the bitching sirf bitching hoti to maybe I would have been ok it's how whole situation went down. If for once he had said rashmi it's not what it looks like rather than blaming her it would have been ok.