Why the double standards? - Page 3

Originally posted by: hasini009

Who called him worst contestant. Rashmi?

Extreme fans /haters toh har fandom mein hote hain. nothing new in it😆

Rashami ne nahi😆

Also I don't support Asim defending HK. Baad mein pachtayega. Sorry bol de jaldi se bas. But I do understand where he is coming from.

Nobody labelled Asim as backstabber or liar or any sorts of names. Because he isnt.

Problem is Rashami was talking with Himanshi and even Himanshi was understanding it but he was coming in between interrupting conversation saying Himanshi needs not to say sorry. Even Rashami said that Himanshi is understanding what she is trying to say. Rashami had problem with two things, One- Arhaan saying all these things to Himanshi despite knowing Rashami is in house and he should wait for 2 weeks as she herself needs answer of so many things. Two-Himanshi saying all things infront of Asim-Vishal who are no way related to it as it was sensitive matter and it came across more of a bitching session trying portray Rashami as villain and Arhaan as victim.

And there is no double standard, Rashami herself has received backlash for accepting Arhaan and proposing him back despite getting to know about kid and marriage. Even HMs(Shukla-Sana were bitching about it), People outside have questioned her intentions accusing her of doing it for money and all. Even Kamya came and blasted her indirectly saying dont repeat the same mistakes.

Originally posted by: Mannu_ahuja

Hmmm. Makes sense. But don't you think the reaction is a bit too extreme.

I mean at the end of the day he was defending the person he loves or atleast claims to for a crime which was way less heinous than AK who is just 🤢.

He is blinded by her love just as Rashami was. If Rashami is sweet and naive then how does Asim becomes a backstabber and fake person?

I mean he would not be the first person in the world to take side of his girlfriend over his friends and acting like a fool which he might regret later.

Regarding fans I can only talk about myself I have seen aism fans targeting rashmi for even giving sarcastic reply to shukla that she wants footage she will ditch asim for shukla 15 lakh ke liye bik gai etc when asim said sorry to shukla it was just a good gesture... Nahi bolti thi tab tak it was asim ko kya stupid dost mili hai who can not even talk asim ko bachaana padta hai. Aaj she is being blamed for asim and himanshi bitching about her by giving reason that would khud bhi karti hai... Are it's her life apne bare me bat na kare bandi? And asim is given excuse ke wo frustrated tha so rashmi pe chilaya and rashmi ke mom and late father ko drag kiya conversation me...

If one fandom targets the other's favorite like that by being so hypocrite... They will receive befitting reply.

Firstly, I feel like I am intruding upon a fan war here. Please know that I am on neutral side and support both. Disclaimer done!

So, I feel you are comparing two situations which are worlds apart. Rashami lied to save her bf's reputation yes, but at that time she was judged and bashed for the same. People called her fake for setting this up, stupid for giving him a chance, drama queen who is playing a sympathy card for votes and a ton of other things.

When her friend Debo doubted her as well, she took it without questions and did not shut her down because she thought it was said out of concern. Yesterday when the lie was revealed people did not blame her because it made sense and her defense did not hurt anybody but her own reputation.

When Asim defended Himanshi, he refused to look at any other perspective but the one which belonged to his lady love. And his defense was against a person who was the victim here, not the guilty party.

Himanshi was in the wrong, and he failed to see it. I do not support the extreme hate he is receiving, just as I did not support the hate that Rashami received during the Arhaan fiasco. But, people are allowed to feel disappointed because their expectations from Asim were high.

There is no double standards here , just difference in opinions.

Originally posted by: LastManStanding

Nobody labelled Asim as backstabber or liar or any sorts of names. Because he isnt.

Problem is Rashami was talking with Himanshi and even Himanshi was understanding it but he was coming in between interrupting conversation saying Himanshi need not to say sorry. Even Rashami said that Himanshi is understanding what she is trying to say. Rashami had problem with two things, One- Arhaan saying all these things to Himanshi despite knowing Rashami is in house and he should wait for 2 weeks as she herself needs answer of so many things. Two-Himanshi saying all things infront of Asim-Vishal who are no way related to it as it was sensitive matter and it came across more of a bitching session trying portray Rashami as villain and Arhaan as victim.

And there is no double standard, Rashami herself has received backlash for accepting Arhaan and proposing him back despite getting to know about kid and marriage. Even HMs(Shukla-Sana were bitching about it), People outside has questioned her intentions accusing her of doing it for money and all. Even Kamya came and blasted her indirectly saying dont repeat the same mistakes.

@bold That was the lowest of the low🤢

I mean I understand uska bhai but Kamya? Really?

That was low Even for colors.

Originally posted by: BaylorBee

Firstly, I feel like I am intruding upon a fan war here. Please know that I am on neutral side and support both. Disclaimer done!

So, I feel you are comparing two situations which are worlds apart. Rashami lied to save her bf's reputation yes, but at that time she was judged and bashed for the same. People called her fake for setting this up, stupid for giving him a chance, drama queen who is playing a sympathy card for votes and a ton of other things.

When her friend Debo doubted her as well, she took it without questions and did not shut her down because she thought it was said out of concern. Yesterday when the lie was revealed people did not blame her because it made sense and her defense did not hurt anybody but her own reputation.

When Asim defended Himanshi, he refused to look at any other perspective but the one which belonged to his lady love. And his defense was against a person who was the victim here, not the guilty party.

Himanshi was in the wrong, and he failed to see it. I do not support the extreme hate he is receiving, just as I did not support the hate that Rashami received during the Arhaan fiasco. But, people are allowed to feel disappointed because their expectations from Asim were high.

There is no double standards here , just difference in opinions.

Even I am disappointed with him. Not supporting him anyway here.

Just trying to be empathetic without supporting ( if that makes sense). I mean being disappointed is okay but I just don't get the hate.

And less said about people who called Rashami Fake/ sympathy seeker the better it would be.

Originally posted by: Mannu_ahuja

P.s. I am an Asim supporter who doesn't support Asimanshi at all. These are my views and kindly avoid name calling here.

Yesterday Rashami/ Devo revealed that she lied to know about Arhaan's marriage, just to defend him in front of Salman Khan and the world. She should not have and that was wrong but she did it for the guy she loves and I understand where she is coming from.

So when Asim tries to defend Himanshi, the woman he supposedly loves, he becomes a backstabber, a liar, etc etc ( insert all other bad words here)

I genuinely believe that Himanshi is exploiting his fame and was there for her personal vendetta. She should not have brought in Rashami's personal life on National Television just like Arhaan should not have exploited Rashami.

What I genuinely don't understand is that if Rashami makes a mistake in love she is termed as sweet and naive. But when Asim makes a mistake of defending the woman he loves in something she was clearly wrong in then he receives all the negative terms there are.

Same thing for which Rashami gains sympathy, Asim receives backlash.

Why so? Take it as a genuine question and not some mocking of any sort. Why does the moral compass is so different for two people.

Also, let's keep in mind that Rashami has more experience and worldly- wisdom. She understands the nuances of relationship better than Asim who is clearly an immature when it comes to relationships. If she can be played than why can't be Asim who is locked in an isolated house where emotions are clearly heightened?

@The part in bold - Because, jab Rashami ne Arhaan ke liye jhooth bola tab usne voh baat apne upar li, she lied. Usne blame kisi third person par nahi daala. She tried to protect Arhaan's image by lying and putting herself at blame ki usko marriage wali baat pata thi. That's why she got sympathy. I agree Rashami ne galat kiya by lying for that fraud but atleast usne kisi aur ko toh villain nahi banaya iss chakkar mein.

Asim didn't do this. Asim blame Rashami par daal raha tha. Himanshi ne blame Asim par daala ki Asim ne poocha tha Arhaan ke baare mein aur Asim ne Rashami par ki Rashami pooch rahi thi baar baar. See, Rashami was the victim in this situation but Himanshi was trying to act like ki uske khudh ke saath galat hua and Asim was supporting her in playing "victim" card. He was also disrespecting Rashami by using words like "phus phusana" and shouting at her. Rashami toh Asim ko kuch bol bhi nahi rahi thi. Rashami toh Himanshi ko bhi kuch nahi bol rahi thi. She was mad at only one person, that is Arhaan...phir bhi Asim aur Himanshi milke Rashami ko hi wrong prove karne ki koshish kar rahe the.

Like when Himanshi tried to put the blame on Asim by saying ki Asim pooch raha tha Arhaan ke baare mein, toh Asim bol deta ki, "Haan it's my fault. Maine poocha tha. I am sorry Rashami. I am sorry Himanshi"...jhooth bol deta Himanshi ke liye. But, putting the blame on Rashami was wrong. He wasn't even letting Himanshi and Rashami clarify the matter.

That's why Asim don't get any sympathy in this matter. Agar usko out of love Himanshi ko defend karna tha toh apne par blame leta, par Rashami ko kyun suna raha tha and galat saabit karne ki koshish kar raha tha. Even when Himanshi was apologizing, he was like, "aap kyun sorry bol rahe ho. Aapne kuch galat nahi kiya". THAT WAS WRONG! And, that's the reason people like me bashed him.

Originally posted by: nehaaa.14

@The part in bold - Because, jab Rashami ne Arhaan ke liye jhooth bola tab usne voh baat apne upar li, she lied. Usne blame kisi third person par nahi daala. She tried to protect Arhaan's image by lying and putting herself at blame ki usko marriage wali baat pata thi. That's why she got sympathy. I agree Rashami ne galat kiya by lying for that fraud but atleast usne kisi aur ko toh villain nahi banaya iss chakkar mein.

Asim didn't do this. Asim blame Rashami par daal raha tha. Himanshi ne blame Asim par daala ki Asim ne poocha tha Arhaan ke baare mein aur Asim ne Rashami par ki Rashami pooch rahi thi baar baar. See, Rashami was the victim in this situation but Himanshi was trying to act like ki uske khudh ke saath galat hua and Asim was supporting her in playing "victim" card. He was also disrespecting Rashami by using words like "phus phusana" and shouting at her. Rashami toh Asim ko kuch bol bhi nahi rahi thi. Rashami toh Himanshi ko bhi kuch nahi bol rahi thi. She was mad at only one person, that is Arhaan...phir bhi Asim aur Himanshi milke Rashami ko hi wrong prove karne ki koshish kar rahe the.

Like when Himanshi tried to put the blame on Asim by saying ki Asim pooch raha tha Arhaan ke baare mein, toh Asim bol deta ki, "Haan it's my fault. Maine poocha tha. I am sorry Rashami. I am sorry Himanshi"...jhooth bol deta Himanshi ke liye. But, putting the blame on Rashami was wrong. He wasn't even letting Himanshi and Rashami clarify the matter.

That's why Asim don't get any sympathy in this matter. Agar usko out of love Himanshi ko defend karna tha toh apne par blame leta, par Rashami ko kyun suna raha tha and galat saabit karne ki koshish kar raha tha. Even when Himanshi was apologizing, he was like, "aap kyun sorry bol rahe ho. Aapne kuch galat nahi kiya". THAT WAS WRONG! And, that's the reason people like me bashed him.

Couldnt have described it better than this.

Adding to that the way of talking with Rashami who is his friend.

Rashami when she was going outside with mug in hand she said very calmly to Himanshi that let her come outside and only then she can prove who is right and wrong, Where Asim was saying with high tone, "Thik hai thik hai, Do that, Do that"... This is the way Shukla talks to his friends, Not Asim.

Originally posted by: LastManStanding

Couldnt have described it better than this.

Adding to that the way of talking with Rashami who is his friend.

Rashami when she was going outside with mug in hand she said very calmly to Himanshi that let her come outside and only then she can prove who is right and wrong, Where Asim was saying with high tone, "Thik hai thik hai, Do that, Do that"... This is the way Shukla talks to his friends, Not Asim.

Yeah...he was jumping on Rashami with his allegations, "apne poocha tha", "aap phus phusa ke pooch rahe the", "aap yeh aap woh".

And, with Himanshi, he was like, "You're wrong", "Aap ki galti nahi hai", "She asked you", "aapne toh bas message diya".

Like Seriously!? The fact is that Himanshi wasn't just passing down the message, she was also giving her opinion on Rashami and Arhaan's matter and trying to portray Rashami negatively and Arhaan positively.

Ofcourse Rashami ko bura toh lagega hi and she has every right to feel bad. Asim and Himanshi should've just apologized to Rashami and ended the issue right there but Asim ne poora argument kheech diya and started blaming Rashami.

Originally posted by: nehaaa.14

Yeah...he was jumping on Rashami with his allegations, "apne poocha tha", "aap phus phusa ke pooch rahe the", "aap yeh aap woh".

And, with Himanshi, he was like, "You're wrong", "Aap ki galti nahi hai", "She asked you", "aapne toh bas message diya".

Like Seriously!? The fact is that Himanshi wasn't just passing down the message, she was also giving her opinion on Rashami and Arhaan's matter and trying to portray Rashami negatively and Arhaan positively.

Ofcourse Rashami ko bura toh lagega hi and she has every right to feel bad. Asim and Himanshi should've just apologized to Rashami and ended the issue right there but Asim ne poora argument kheech diya and started blaming Rashami.

Only Vishal had realized how bad that conversation was. He had literally taken back seat and it was evident that he was feeling guilty.

Rashami is so naive that she had not even problem with them judging her in bad taste which actually she should have which even Aarti and Devoleena said that The conversation wasnt at all positive about Rashami still Rashami was saying to HK that tu Galat nahi hain and all.

The episode ended with 3 of them arguing so we will get to see today what happened thereafter..