Asim loves Himanshi. Himanshi loves AsiManshi.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Disclaimer: Its just my opinion based on everything we've seen.


To me, it looks like Asim genuinely loves Himanshi. It looked OTT when she was gone, with all the perfume in bed shit, but with her coming back and publicly friend-zoning him even after the 'I'm waiting for you' message from Parag, he is still the same. This sorta convinced me that he loves her. Granted, she didn't completely friendzone him, but just didn't make it official. One problem here is how little time they have spent together. Somewhere, Asim may love the idea of Himanshi more than Himanshi herself, because he has spent more time apart from her (in an isolated house with literally nothing to do all day except overthink shit) than together. There is an unseen video from yesterday where the two are eating together and talking about how their parents are with them. Its a cute, genuine moment between a young couple getting to know each other. But the problem is - it highlights how little they know about each other! This was a second/third date conversation they were having after Salman (infront of the whole world) held Asim responsible for Himanshi's broken engagement. Its insane pressure on both of them. But to me, Asim seems serious.


On the flipside, I think Himanshi loves the idea of the ship #AsiManshi. She loves that she went (as, in her own words, a TOP star) to a huge reality show and met a good-looking boy who couldn't stop complimenting her! Over time, she allowed more and more comfort between the two, and by the time she left he was full-on giving her all the attention in the world and professing his love for her even though she had made it crystal clear that nothing was gonna happen. She fell in love with the attention. Then, she was unfairly evicted (keeping her TOP star self-belief intact) and she went back to normal life where her fiancee, a guy who she's known and been close to for 9 years, wasn't acting like Asim. I mean, of course not! Asim was a totally different dude, locked in an isolated house, who fell for her. This is why her complaints about Chow revolve around attention issues. "I was sick, he didn't care. His parents (who she still calls her in-laws 😵) didn't seem to care that I went to this huge show and am now even more famous." Plus she mentioned there was some shit between Sana's friend or something, and Chow's brother. Additionally, the young good-looking filmy boy was also super famous now and had thousands of his own fans who were now her fans as well by association. Basically, she just didn't feel as important outside as she did in the house.


But she did get the importance somewhere else - social media. #AsiManshi exploded in popularity because of the timing of her eviction, when people were just getting invested in them as a couple. So she went balls-out and promoted the shit out of the couple, even using hashtags like #WeNeedHimanshiBack etc. Chow must have gotten sick of this and officially ended it at some point. Then, she got the re-entry as she hoped, and she is fully getting the attention she craved again in round two. But this time, she's disappointing people who were hoping she genuinely loved Asim. She met him and immediately (I think innocently) told him "People are going crazy over US!" That's the part that she is smitten by! The AsiManshi hype. Even when Rashmi told her how she is coming across, look at her body language - she ended up saying 'lets do it!' and implied she has kept Asim hanging on for a bit, but will fully express her love just as she is leaving! She even loved that Asim claimed his love infront of Salman! Why should that matter in the big picture? And why on your way out? Why not now and just spend the remaining time giving him game-related advice so he doesn't lose his mind after the connections thing ends? That is not the plan of someone who should be advising Asim to focus on the game. That is the plan of someone trying to create a 'moment' for AsiManshi fans to fawn over and trend on social media.


Again, these are just my opinions. Its what I think is going on here. In a way, they're both innocent because they are just pursuing what they like. But, Himanshi absolutely is selfish in her timing and approach given that we are 2 weeks away from the finale, and Asim is dumb for building her up in her head so much. Salman/BB/creatives are also hugely responsible for putting the seed of an eternal romance for the ages, building off from the ashes of a failed engagement, in Asim's mind - while what he got was a sweet gesture of interest, a little bit of jhappi-pappi, and no official commitment.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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But either way people are liking Asim for it. I don't think it's ruining his game, rather making it stronger cuz that side of his personality was the only thing missing.

Also, I'm pretty sure people would rather see AsiManshi than SidNaaz (people meaning me lol)

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Posted: 5 years ago
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you said all,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: BBfan24x7

But either way people are liking Asim for it. I don't think it's ruining his game, rather making it stronger cuz that side of his personality was the only thing missing.

Also, I'm pretty sure people would rather see AsiManshi than SidNaaz (people meaning me lol)


Ya, I do agree with this. Asim really needed some positive footage because of the game BB was playing with him. (dumping all his fun stuff on Voot and keeping the angry stuff) With AsiManshi, the hype was so huge that they couldn't help but air it to TV, and the general audience got to see the loving side of his again.


And I agree, I'd rather see AsiManshi than SidNaaz anyday! In fact, I would love to see Asim, Himanshi, and Sana together lol. Shukla's presence just brings out such an annoying, whiny, clingy Sana. When she flips to the other side, she becomes funny, independent, confident, and hilarious!

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Asim loves himanshi thats confirm right but himanshi dont love him ? How do you know? How can we judge someone? If she did not say it than she did not deny it. She has given game related advice to asim and asim game did not get affected from her entry.

Her talk with RD was real. For once think from her perspective. She is a introvert person for her its not easy to express her feelings. What's wrong in it if she wants to carry to relationship in outside world. Don't judge her. We are not God. We dont know about anyone's intentions.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I completely agree with you. She is loving all the attention she is getting. But that shows how she is full of herself. I would have appreciated her if she had tild Asim how well he is playing and people are loving him outside. But she is too busy playing a victim on one hand and on other hand glorifying how well she is handling it.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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I think she was probably very young when she entered this relationship and must have lead a sheltered life revolving around her career and this guy and his family like a golden egg laying goose.

May be for the first time she was on her own in BB house.All the attention she got from Asim must have made her lose her head.

Then after her eviction she saw all the hype and wants more of it and also she likes all the attention that Asim gives her which she didn't get in her previous relationship.So it's possible that she wants to give her relationship with Asim a chance.

So it's two birds in one shot for her,

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: aparnauma

I think she was probably very young when she entered this relationship and must have lead a sheltered life revolving around her career and this guy and his family like a golden egg laying goose.

May be for the first time she was on her own in BB house.All the attention she got from Asim must have made her lose her head.

Then after her eviction she saw all the hype and wants more of it and also she likes all the attention that Asim gives her which she didn't get in her previous relationship.So it's possible that she wants to give her relationship with Asim a chance.

So it's two birds in one shot for her,


This i agree with personally because I never got the attention seeker thing . Why would person destroy his own life for little attention from unknown people ! Himanshi did say that her fiance and she met in school post that things happened. Even Sana had said that her fiance was strict what if he had a strict hold on her ? Dominated her ?


Asim is very different on the other hand he is a person who goes all in ! Showers the girl with attention heck he also showers his friends with attention - artis rant ( Mittu ye Mittu wo 😆 ) .


I think she is not love with Asim but yes she is intruiged and likes the attention Asim provides that too after her 10 year old realtionship the newness of Asim intrigued her. She is not in love with Asim but definitely loves the idea of Asim !

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Posted: 5 years ago
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Originally posted by: _NINA_

Asim loves himanshi thats confirm right but himanshi dont love him ? How do you know? How can we judge someone? If she did not say it than she did not deny it. She has given game related advice to asim and asim game did not get affected from her entry.

Her talk with RD was real. For once think from her perspective. She is a introvert person for her its not easy to express her feelings. What's wrong in it if she wants to carry to relationship in outside world. Don't judge her. We are not God. We dont know about anyone's intentions.


Did you read my post?

If you didn't - I am not blaming her at all. I'm just making a point (which is a purely subjective opinion) that Asim and Himanshi are both in love with two entirely different concepts. Asim loves the idea of this beautiful woman who is a soft-spoken, gentle, sweet presence for him. Himanshi loves the idea of being a part of a grand reality TV story where she falls for a guy whose career is on the rise, who gives her unlimited compliments and attention. That's it. Both aren't wrong. They just have different ideas of what their relationship is/will be.

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Posted: 5 years ago
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They should have left it when the tag was at its peak. Currently it looks like both are stretching it a bit, intentionally or not.

I personally was not that interested in the bond or Himanshi as such. But SM created this hype with sappy videos and cheesy background music and I fell for it too! Looking at those made me see Asim differently.

He had this aura of heartbreak and unrequited love which, according to me, gave his character new dimensions.

Now both are falling victim to bb's scripted narrative. They channel shows what they want the audience to see, and it's not enjoyable to watch those two getting lost in one another and forgetting about the game or friends.

I still support Asim, but the couple needs to make some mature decisions about taking this outside.


P.S I am sure people are liking the chemistry and that's absolutely alright! But this is not my kind of entertainment so just sharing my views about the same.

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