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Originally posted by: vibzee

BHASKAR WELL JOB DONE...👏.

BEST WISHES !!

ANWESHA FANS BE CAREFUL..

ITS A "BAN-TIME" HERE...!!!

wohhh ...is it a humor ?????😕..... this week is too crucial to get banned !!!!!

Originally posted by: ReemAnshu

Dear Bhaskar,

Its a pity that you read too much into the comments. I have not even thought of what you are thinking. The comments I have made were infact indicating that in the heated arguements people dont control and often cross the line. I have mentioned that you should think before you write because emotions are high. I have in no ways indicated any bias nor have i felt any. Infact I have only commented that members tend to loose control and go overboard. What is wrong in that ? I am asking all of us for restraint. Even those members who have written to me are refering to my self control as the debates are heated and I try not to go overboard, something which they could not do.

okay, first thing first - what tells u u r not going overboard? u need to go back and take a second look at all u have dished out so far. most of them have PERSONAL ATTACKS packed at members. even in this paragraph, i have bolded the personal attack u r making at bhaskar. apart from members, attacking candidates and gaj ji is also a violation of coc here. i do not need to tell u how many times u have broken that coc.

The only time you have correcyted my comment was the 'dyselexic' comment which was made in humour. I am here to make friends and its a pity if people dont have a little sense of humour. Infact that member took it sportingly.

wah bhai wah. khud karo toh mazak aur doosra kuchh sahee bhi point out karey toh they don't have a sense of humor!!! apni lagey deh mein doosrey ki lagey deewar mein...kyoon, theek hai na!!! i again see attacks on fellow dmers who objected to the "dyselexic" comment which was in very bad taste. let me make this clear here. u have no rt to call others dyselexic or lacking sense of humor because they r not in ur bandwagon.

Even my post for which you warned me was in good humour, not any allegations. If you feel that me telling people to control emotions and write sensibly is against the rules, then I better not write anything. I will not be visiting here anymore so you can relax. Its just sad that because of your interpretation on my post is all wrong.

it will be ur personal choice what u want to do and what u don't want to do. please don't try to pin that on bhaskar now. he has a job to do as a global moderator. being a gm does not mean that he has no right to voice his likes and dislikes for contestants. he's first a member of IF and then a GM. lets not forget that while accusing him that he sides with aish fans. aish fans never get personal with anwesha fans...this is the fact.

read all ur posts. so many times u have attacked fellow members and the mods here...and i'm not even counting the attacks on people directly associated with asvoi. if u get reprimanded for those violations and attacks, it's because u deserved them. so puhleez....leave bhaskar outta ur decision of not posting anymore.

I use to come here to share views, have fun and make friends. But i certainly do not want people getting offended like that and so I will not visit anymore.
Maybe I am too Old for a forum like this anyways.

well, that's for u to decide. it's ur personal choice and i am clueless why u r making it so public. i feel people shd keep their husbands, their families, their ages, their occupations, their pets, their children, their personal achievements, their personal failures...list just goes on and on...outta their posts. once u mention them in ur post...u make them public and open for comment. i'd refrain from declaring my personal decisions on forums like this and try to take leverage outta them by pining them on some innocent person who's just trying to do his job here.

I will just advice you that you should see things the way they are meant to be and try to get a sense of humour.

who r u to dish out these advices in the first place..and that too on open forum!!! this is again assuming he is incapable...a grave personal attack i see here!!!

This is a place to share views and make friends. What is the point if you cant fool arround with your friends ???

fool around with those who u have a comfort level with and same wavelehgth with. don't attack others behind the false pretense of "sense of humor" "sharing ur views" and "piling ur views on others" r two totally different thigs.

It is not the parliament or board room. Dont forget that.

yes, it is not. like our parliament - joota chappal and maar pitai is not allowed here. and that is precisely what bhaskar has been ensuring.

Anyways, good luck and Bye.I will miss the arguements we had.

mods here r doing an awesome job. we shd keep in mind that they r also members and they r also going to air their views. just because ur fav is diff than their favs doesn't mean they r being partial. pretty much all aish fans here started out as both anwesha and aish fan. why some distanced themselves from anwesha fans is for all to see. the personal attacks...not only on members here but also on aish, her family, judges and gaj ji did get to a point that they were just too much to take!!!

if one can't control the attacks they make on others repeatedly , the least they can do is not hold someone else responsible for them getting reprimanded and quitting as a result.

jatey jatey bhi itna personal attack ker diya. kamaal hai yaar!!!

Originally posted by: vibzee

BHASKAR WELL JOB DONE...👏.

BEST WISHES !!

ANWESHA FANS BE CAREFUL..

ITS A "BAN-TIME" HERE...!!!

job well done!!!! itna personal attack key baad bhi abhi tak warning naheen mila iss poster ko jisey tum ney quote kiya and u r saying bhaskar did his job well!!! kaun sey job ki baat ker rahey ho bataogey zara?

gaj ji bura, judges partial, song selection bekar, conspiraciies angainst anwesha, aish's family and connection, aish is mean...yeh sab bol ker dil naheen bhara toh ab lag gaye bhaskar key peechhey!!! this is THE height yaar. apney writings per control naheen toh mods ko blame ker do. wah kya baat hai!!!

show me one single post of bhaskar where he is telling anwesha fans to not support anwesha....where he's trashing anwesha's family...where he is attacking anwesha's fans and calling them names. koi bhi ek post aisa ho toh dikha doh phir tali peeto.

Originally posted by: vibzee

BHASKAR WELL JOB DONE...👏.

BEST WISHES !!

ANWESHA FANS BE CAREFUL..

ITS A "BAN-TIME" HERE...!!!

Another insinuation!

OK... let me take this one as a member .....

1. Using all caps is seen as shouting in forums and members are always requested not to use them. Right? I thinks its mentioned in the IF COC too. But when one uses them despite that - is that breaking a rule ?

2. "Anvesha fans, be careful, It's a Ban time here " - what is that sentence supposed to mean ? another accusation or was it also an innocent sentence ?

What is it that the supposed "anvesha fans" (mind you, not all, its just a handful) want really ?

Throw the rule book into the garbage and allow anything in the name of fanfare? creation of multiple ID's; deviation from the discussion in hand and getting personal, or abusing others, should all that be allowed and then things will be very fair?

How do you know Ashwariya fans haven't also faced similar actions when they crossed the line.

The person whose post you quoted, had you seen his/her earlier post? Trust me no matter how innocent this one is made to look at it really wasn't so innocent.To quote her from there :

Originally posted by: ReemAnshu

Why do you want to get me banned ??? Waise bhi while replying to Bhaskar, main ek ek word naap tol kar likhti hoon, becoz as it is I am arguing with him on page after page, so he already must be mad at me. One slip and I will be gone !!😆 There have been many members (all Anu supporters btw) who have PMed me saying that how can I argue on Anwesha's behalf without getting provoked or banned. When I received similar mails from 5 diff members, only then did I realised as to how emotional this A v/s A thing is and what tempers does it provoke ! [/quote]

In this virtual word, what we write is what we communicate. And if the expressions that come out in the post dont match the words that one is feeling , is not the reader's fault. Do these two highlighted sentences above look line very innocent comments ? if yes, then sorry, definition of innocence is not the same in all our dictionaries. There is definitely a heavily loaded message up their maligning one or some.

Anvesha Fans (only some)- its very easy to point fingers at others. When something is not in favor, simply brand them as biased. Just because some don't agree to your POV, label them as illogical, just because some one can counter the points cited by you, call them ignorant, and even then when they dont seem to accept, call them names, get abusive.This is what some of the so called Anvesha fans have been doing here. They start a fire, burn roast toast, all others but one single comment about Anvesha , they press the panic button. Why ? why should the case be different for them ? MInd you, this again is of only certain members who have done it and not all Anvesha fans

In this case,we are talking about Bhaskar, who has been most fair till now and has executed his duties to the best opf his abilities and one who knows how to rise above personal sentiments in taking decision.

There have been so many times, he has been called names yet he has overlooked them.

Its better to ask those banned or warned to find out why they faced the action in the first place. May be they did not come out with the whole story and has only shared selective information to create a sensation.

Enough of this playing the victim always, dear "Anvesha Fans" (again, only those who have been doing this, not all). Argue, but dont cross the line, defend but dont get personal. Criticise but dont brand and most important - stop these allegations when you are not ready to see the folly in your actions to have got you the warning in the first place. stop insinuating things that are non existent. YOu have any idea what that person can feel when alleged like this that too after exceuting his tasks so tirelessly and selflessly day after day. Cant give respect, dont but dont malign either.

Edited by advil - 17 years ago

Originally posted by: ReemAnshu

Dear Bhaskar,

Its a pity that you read too much into the comments. I have not even thought of what you are thinking. The comments I have made were infact indicating that in the heated arguements people dont control and often cross the line. I have mentioned that you should think before you write because emotions are high. I have in no ways indicated any bias nor have i felt any. Infact I have only commented that members tend to loose control and go overboard. What is wrong in that ? I am asking all of us for restraint. Even those members who have written to me are refering to my self control as the debates are heated and I try not to go overboard, something which they could not do.

The only time you have correcyted my comment was the 'dyselexic' comment which was made in humour. I am here to make friends and its a pity if people dont have a little sense of humour. Infact that member took it sportingly.

Even my post for which you warned me was in good humour, not any allegations. If you feel that me telling people to control emotions and write sensibly is against the rules, then I better not write anything. I will not be visiting here anymore so you can relax. Its just sad that because of your interpretation on my post is all wrong.

I use to come here to share views, have fun and make friends. But i certainly do not want people getting offended like that and so I will not visit anymore.
Maybe I am too Old for a forum like this anyways.
I will just advice you that you should see things the way they are meant to be and try to get a sense of humour. This is a place to share views and make friends. What is the point if you cant fool arround with your friends ??? It is not the parliament or board room. Dont forget that. Anyways, good luck and Bye.I will miss the arguements we had.

Reemaji, kya aap mujhse dosti karogi ? Aapka Angreji bahut fantastic hai, humre poore Jabalpur main koi itna acha nahi bolta hai bhai ! Hume bhi sikhao na.

Aur dekho, aapne daroga babu ko khat likha aur sab phatte main kood pade. Hum bhi Anwesha ka pankha, AC, Cooler hoon. Kuch log humko bhi bole hain ki taanon aur gaaliyon se bach ke rehna. Lekin hum toh kamar kas kar aaye hain. Darte nahi hai.

sar faroshi ki tammana ab hamare dil main hai....dekhna hai zor kitna bazue kaatil main hai !

Jeetegi bhai jeetegi...Anwesha hi Jeetegi.

Originally posted by: karan_bhai

Reemaji, kya aap mujhse dosti karogi ? Aapka Angreji bahut fantastic hai, humre poore Jabalpur main koi itna acha nahi bolta hai bhai ! Hume bhi sikhao na.

jabalpur ya phir aligarh😉 waisey dallaswa zyada nazar aa raha hai yahan😛

Aur dekho, aapne daroga babu ko khat likha aur sab phatte main kood pade. Hum bhi Anwesha ka pankha, AC, Cooler hoon. Kuch log humko bhi bole hain ki taanon aur gaaliyon se bach ke rehna. Lekin hum toh kamar kas kar aaye hain. Darte nahi hai.

sar faroshi ki tammana ab hamare dil main hai....dekhna hai zor kitna bazue kaatil main hai !

😆 shayari sey purana nata hai na😉. yahan bhi jadoo chala diya apni shayari ka😛

Jeetegi bhai jeetegi...Anwesha hi Jeetegi.

ama miya, jeeteygi toh tab na jab aap apna ids ki bajaye ussey vote daalney mein time lagayengey😆

shaher badla, bhasha badkee.....kaheen apni favorite na badal baithna iss ids adla badlee mein😆