Kahaan Hum Kahaan Tum Written Updates & Daily Discussions Thread # 17 - Page 103

Originally posted by: Virk45

@bold: yes it happens

I can understand where is she coming from n her extra efforts to keep everyone happy. But i hope makers address this bcuz by doing this u end up draining urself both mentally n emotionally. I m nt saying she is right bt i can relate to her. I have drained myself by taking responsibility of things which were not my concern and in all this i have completely lost myself n my strength. From past 2 yrs i m in depression n i have severe ocd. I m just struck at home when it's crucial time for my career.

Hope so, not sure if they themselves view Sona's character like what we do. Or I won't be surprised if they end up showing that she was right all the way and there's absolutely nothing for her to learn from this experience....

You're stronger than you think, my dear friend ! I feel you're on the right track, keep taking baby steps to bring the balance back in your life ... and please don't hesitate to reach out to someone and talk when you need help .... 🤗

Originally posted by: SonakshiA

dear can i share your points on twitter plz

Sure ... 👍🏼

Originally posted by: Virk45

@bold: yes it happens

I can understand where is she coming from n her extra efforts to keep everyone happy. But i hope makers address this bcuz by doing this u end up draining urself both mentally n emotionally. I m nt saying she is right bt i can relate to her. I have drained myself by taking responsibility of things which were not my concern and in all this i have completely lost myself n my strength. From past 2 yrs i m in depression n i have severe ocd. I m just struck at home when it's crucial time for my career.

You will get out my friend 🤗

There is always light at the end of the tunnel. 🤗

Originally posted by: if_mm

Actually that way, Sona has been quite consistent. She has been shown to trust or open up to many side characters in the show ... Raima, Rani, Ajit, Sumit, Vimmy, Mahesh, Ravi even before. But if you notice, she doesn't do so with even her own mother (she didn't talk through about her decision to quit or just let her know she's using up the FD). Not sure if I'm over analyzing things ... but it gives me 2 reasons why she would do so:

1. Probably Sona deeply feels inadequate or insecure or worthy of love. She 's looking at opportunities to prove herself in front of Rohit... and if she involves him, that feeling of accomplishment is gone.

2. Her childhood trauma of dad leaving her, her mother's money focused upbringing, or first engagement breaking up - a fear of judgement or abandonment causing difficulty in emotional intimacy with Rohit.

I'm starting to think her aiming to please everyone in the family, and not being intimate or being honest with Rohit as you'd expect from a typical wife also might come due to these reasons.

Very nicely put. Agree with each and every point

Originally posted by: ishra_bestluv

Prenup is not small. That is the basis of his marriage and now he feels his entire marriage is standing on a lie and cheat. He is bound to feel the way he is. He will eventually come around. But Sona needs to realise that Prenup was wrong to be hidden, that questions their entire existence together. It’s not about whether she wants money or not, he clearly said he is not interested to know about the original prenup. All he cares about is she signed it before their marriage and took the decision all by herself over that she lied and hid it from him.

This time his problem is that she is hiding and lying. Which is wrong. She has done her share of wrongs.

I don’t support her being humiliated in public or being manhandled. And that is wrong no matter what. Especially a public humiliation.

What did she lie about Prenup? She hide it but did not lie anything.

Infact the whole family did not let him know as well regarding prenup

Originally posted by: Virk45

@bold: yes it happens

I can understand where is she coming from n her extra efforts to keep everyone happy. But i hope makers address this bcuz by doing this u end up draining urself both mentally n emotionally. I m nt saying she is right bt i can relate to her. I have drained myself by taking responsibility of things which were not my concern and in all this i have completely lost myself n my strength. From past 2 yrs i m in depression n i have severe ocd. I m just struck at home when it's crucial time for my career.

YES. When a newly married DIL, they really try to do stuff with lot of love and do put extra efforts to keep everyone happy. Sona is a very emotional person and her character is build that though she never did any in her kitchen but is doing at in-laws.

Right now both the DIL's of sippy , Sona and Tanya are in pain for different reasons

Originally posted by: if_mm

Sure ... 👍🏼

thanks!

Originally posted by: justchillalways

What did she lie about Prenup? She hide it but did not lie anything.

Infact the whole family did not let him know as well regarding prenup

She hid it isn’t that cheating as well. It’s not about what others have, right now it’s about what Sonakshi has done. She has done wrong, they both were getting married and not just her she should have told this to him. There was always a need for transparency. By highlighting how others were wrong will not cover her fault. Baki logon ne jo kiya so kiya she should have told him.

Let me make this clear that Rohit is not entirely right either. The fault is from both sides. She should have not have hidden it from him and now his anger is justified but in no way I support his manhandling or publicly humiliating him.

I have problem with Rohan getting a free pass. I mean like really.

Originally posted by: ishra_bestluv

I have problem with Rohan getting a free pass. I mean like really.

I agree. And in today's episode, he dared to ask why Sona's name is not there in the list.

I would have been happy to see him squirm instead of roaming around in the house as if nothing happened.