Originally posted by: Shrumunj
Asim Pushed Sid first , he pushed him with the shoulder . Was confirmed by Rashmi also who came to talk to sid .. Sid said he wil not take anyone’s anything , will gone back
So he gave back what asim did ..
There is a massive difference between what Asim did and how Sid reacted. Frankly, it is not worth discussing this issue if you don't see the difference in terms of how violent and potentially dangerous it was/could have been.
"Sid said he will not take anyone's anything" badhai ho Sid ko. Coolness samajhta hai. Ego hai. Reality show mein hai (which is a game of patience and resolve) lekin isko gundagardi cool lagta hai. Ab show itseld endorse karta hai yeh sab after 12 seasons of completely opposite policies. Toh enable horaha hai iska narcissism.
Violence is not a box you tick. Isne kardiya toh maine bhee kardiya. That's how kids act, not full grown mature sensible rational adults.
Ours is a society raised on Bachchan movies celebrating toxic masculinity, SRK movies suggesting harassment and suicide threats are romantic ways to impress a girl, gundagardi in the name of politics, and issues of toxic masculinity from our homes, to schools, to offices, to the government. If you really think what Asim did justifies what Sid did because "Sid said he will not take anyone's anything," then there is nothing I can say to you to convince you otherwise. I guess just try to put yourself in Asim's shoes, or even Paras's or Shefali's shoes at that time and ask yourself how you would react. If you still think Sid is correct and you think calling Asim, a victim of physical assault in an environment where it is more than reasonable to expect safety, a 'delicate darling' is appropriate then you have some growing up to do.
- One man's ego & temper is so fragile that he couldn't stand an unfair decision, walked up to another man, threatened to hurt him, abused his family, and responded to a light nudge with a strong, violent push. He has been repeatedly warned against violence, and he fully well knows that decade+ long rules have been bent for him, yet he is unable to keep composure.
- The other man, fully aware that he will be bashed by the country's biggest most influential movie star on national TV & all the witnesses will testify to his 'poking' and justify the violence he is being subjected to, stands tall and refuses to be bullied by not just an egomaniac and his pack of doormats, but also by the makers of the entire show that is clearly supporting the bully.
Its pretty clear to me who the delicate darling is.