SidNaaz :Discussion Thread 16: Love Aaj Kal.. - Page 110

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Originally posted by: jazzy27

Thank god I thought I was going crazy seeing things differently than others 🤣

- I would also like to add the taunt Sid made to sana when she said that he dad told Vishal and madhu to enjoy the few days they have left because they might not get to see each other after. Sid taunts “are you sure your dad said that about THEM?” Again playing victim that maybe her dad and her are using him for game and don’t have any intentions outside the house. When in reality HE doesn’t want to get serious with her. All to look good in front of housemates and public. But Sana caught him here and called him out on his BS. She told him that’s what YOU want not me, but she let it go because she’s in love and doesn’t want to believe it.

-GG and kartik 🙄🙄🙄 Do I have to say more? What can be a more pathetic excuse than silly, comedic fangirling? Compared to his too intimate dance with Jasmin and concern filled hug for mahira (over a reason that wasn’t serious).

-Paras. I know Sana said ILU and mentions him here and there, but she cleared this a million times. She literally was close to paras for a WEEK. Why can’t he get over this???

-Getting mad at Sana for sitting with Rashmi or Vishal....🙄

-The discussion Sid was having with asim and Sana when Asim was smelling himanshi’s perfume. Something about how Asim will lose interest and it will last a year max. That kind of gives away what he might think about how long sana and him will last, and may be why he doesn’t want to commit.

And soooo many more instances...especially where he keeps telling Sana that she only says she’s hurt to make Sid look bad...how is that a normal response if your partner is sad? Why is he thinking of game and how it’s looking bad for him outside? Your first concern should be HER. That says a lot about how he sees everything and how he’s playing his game.

I’m not saying sid doesn’t love her, he definitely has feelings for her and is attached to her. But I don’t think he saw this becoming serious and he realized how bad he lead her on.

I can a lot more instances but I believe we’ll soon be asked to leave this AT😂😂

The final confirmation for me was when Salman yesterday says to the COTW something along the lines of ki she was a special friend before mummy ke ane se pehle and ab aisa nahi hai.

Then stopping Abu when he wanted Sid to Confess.

I believe since Sid has started to show a disinterest in SidNaz and channel wants to make him the winner they are showing down PaHira romance on us viewers so that we forget all about SidNaz. Salman tho is talking about Shehnaz and Gautam moment and how Sid would be jealous but that is showing how Sana is actually not right. It’s not actually pushing yhe narrative in a positive direction!

This is what I believe. I know we’d be called out for being so negative but I am also one of who lost their raat ki neend and din ka chain over these two so just halka karing my dil ka bojh😂

Originally posted by: jazzy27

Thank god I thought I was going crazy seeing things differently than others 🤣

- I would also like to add the taunt Sid made to sana when she said that he dad told Vishal and madhu to enjoy the few days they have left because they might not get to see each other after. Sid taunts “are you sure your dad said that about THEM?” Again playing victim that maybe her dad and her are using him for game and don’t have any intentions outside the house. When in reality HE doesn’t want to get serious with her. All to look good in front of housemates and public. But Sana caught him here and called him out on his BS. She told him that’s what YOU want not me, but she let it go because she’s in love and doesn’t want to believe it.

-GG and kartik 🙄🙄🙄 Do I have to say more? What can be a more pathetic excuse than silly, comedic fangirling? Compared to his too intimate dance with Jasmin and concern filled hug for mahira (over a reason that wasn’t serious).

-Paras. I know Sana said ILU and mentions him here and there, but she cleared this a million times. She literally was close to paras for a WEEK. Why can’t he get over this???

-Getting mad at Sana for sitting with Rashmi or Vishal....🙄

-The discussion Sid was having with asim and Sana when Asim was smelling himanshi’s perfume. Something about how Asim will lose interest and it will last a year max. That kind of gives away what he might think about how long sana and him will last, and may be why he doesn’t want to commit.

And soooo many more instances...especially where he keeps telling Sana that she only says she’s hurt to make Sid look bad...how is that a normal response if your partner is sad? Why is he thinking of game and how it’s looking bad for him outside? Your first concern should be HER. That says a lot about how he sees everything and how he’s playing his game.

I’m not saying sid doesn’t love her, he definitely has feelings for her and is attached to her. But I don’t think he saw this becoming serious and he realized how bad he lead her on.

This makes absolute zero sense bec right now in game sid will b last man to play victim card in love when salman himself declared Sana the wrong one in that last to last wkw....So sid need not do anything knowing well that sana is already declared wrong here...But he took all efforts to patch things up between her and Salman ..Kept chking out on her when she was outside crying when noone else bothered ..

Also they had a serious convo in bed where he clearly told her ourside it will b didferent fr both and she understood too ..

So after all this why will Sid play these hurting games when he directly cleared to her that he is too old fr her and so they cant b together and she too accepted it ..

Uske baad why will u keep hurting her jab direct baat ho gayi ..

Its obvious he does that bec he is hurt too as sana never said what type of love she feels fr him ..so he keeps taunting her mostly about this .

Then comes wkw with gg kartik etc .and rest is history ..

In between we also conveniently forgot how sid asked sana to b quiet when his mom comes which sana herself admitted and later sid only asked his mom to hug her ..why will he do that if he wants to show sana in bad light ? Yaha toh achha opportunity tha to mk her talk and put a negative image of sana in front of mom na ?

Originally posted by: jyoti06

I think with sid she believe she has that haq(right) on him where sorry or thnks dont exist ..she even said that in front of salman last weekend that i hv the right on him bec he is mine ..but with paras she ķept it formal when she spoke to him ..thats the difference i believe ..

I do feel both hv their own share of flaws in whatever transpired betw them ..

And if she thinks it is her haq, then be vocal everytike u hurt him, tell him u r mine, and i would do as i please, tell him this thing every time u hurt him.

And m not covering Sid here, what he did with Mahira, that hug🤢, that was not needed at all, it was so long and tight and continuously he was rubbing her back to calm her down, shefali came and he let her go, if m not wrong.

It was really not needed at all. She is Paras girl, let paras handle her. Agr same gesture sana k towards kisi bhi aur ladke ne dikhaya hota ghr mein jis din she brokedown, to?🤪

Originally posted by: jyoti06

I think with sid she believe she has that haq(right) on him where sorry or thnks dont exist ..she even said that in front of salman last weekend that i hv the right on him bec he is mine ..but with paras she ķept it formal when she spoke to him ..thats the difference i believe ..

I do feel both hv their own share of flaws in whatever transpired betw them ..

but Jyoti, Like we expect Sid to confess or explain, why don’t we expect Sana to clear the stance too! And not every time relationships can be taken for granted! What I feel bad is, when you look back, not once she realised that Sid is hurt in the process, her only concern has been Sid hurts her and doesn’t stand for her! But I don’t care as long as Sid gave in and will be ok even if he gives into her in the future too

But when he said he doesn’t want to see Sana in his kal, it had lot of pain and Sana did cross a line and Sana being justified in this thread and expecting Sid to understand as he hasn’t confessed was the last thing I would like to hear!
From last two weeks for not a small mistake of his, he has been hurt by her, questioned by her but never realise that he was hurt 🙄! It’s very upsetting

Sid loves her and he wasn’t mincing words yesterday! He is scared of being hurt outside and how will you confess to you a girl who said, it’s ok I don’t need anyone, I got my attention from GG as BB sent him and after that about I care none and see none and I see only trophy

I wanted her to concentrate on the game from day one, no one asked her to speak those words what she said to Sid! Glad her father asked her to concentrate on the game! But was the timing right to say that? How did you suddenly realise that you know it all?
No doubt she will he sulking now after that! But the major test of your love is then when u have everything and you still need him

Anyways many will disagree but Sana was nowhere right nor her actions were

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Yelo🤣

Originally posted by: lovepooo

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Behen pehle is season mein samajhdari dikha le phir agle season ka sochna😆

Us ne mana lia na.. Ab aapki bari

Originally posted by: lovepooo

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Yelo🤣

This season is the season of task cancellation🤣 Did it get cancelled because Sid got his team out of the game? Or because Asim was unfair?

Originally posted by: zehreeli.kheer

Wese ab ziada horaha hai! Its Sid's game to come out as victim? such thoughts are unacceptable in this thread!

Hold on hold on...I’m not saying what sid is doing is intentional. I put “game” in quotes because it’s not a game. It’s a defense mechanism.

I think their whole relationship is real and their feelings are very real, from both sides. They both love each other a lot. But you can love someone and still be afraid to fully commit. That’s what I think Sid is going through, and because he’s in BB and he doesn’t want to reject her and look negative (because he will) he keeps taunting her and blaming her for things he’s actually wanting (like saying she won’t want to continue outside, but in reality HE doesn’t). Why do I think this? Because if Sana has never said anything regarding not seeing him after the show, and in fact keeps whining about whether he will call her everyday, then where is this thought from Sid coming from? Clearly she wants to see him after! Why would he make this taunt? It doesn’t make sense?

This defense mechanism is called projection: mental process by which people attribute to others what is in their own minds.