Originally posted by: jazzy27
Uma, you spoke exactly whatās on my mind. Iām embarrassed to admit this, but when I was younger, I had a bad habit of leading men on because I canāt say no. I was just very friendly and they used to take it the wrong way. I had rejected so many guys in my friend group that I was scared to reject anymore because I was looking negative and I felt judged by my friends.
So when one of my bestfriends fell badly for me, I didnāt know what to do. He was one of my closest friends and if I broke his heart, everyone will think Iām evil. So I basically manipulated the situation. If he didnāt text me for a couple of days, I would accuse him of not being interested in me. I kept making allegations that heās probably talking to other girls or that heās not into me, and that HE hurt me, which was not the case. I was looking for an excuse to get away without looking bad in front of my friends. I wanted to look like the victim, not the perpetrator. At the end I told him we donāt have a future because he āhurtā me. For once my friends didnāt blame me.
Iām not saying Sid is not actually in love with Sana, but I DEFINITELY think heās looking for excuses to get away. Heās commitment phobic. I got those vibes quite early on from him. He realized Sana was getting too attached and too serious, and heās not looking for that. Or atleast he might not be looking for that with her. His timepass comment towards Asim regarding himanshi really struck me...
So perhaps it is his āgameā to come out looking as a victim while avoiding getting serious with Sana by claiming she āhurtā him for however many reasons. Because if he had just straight up rejected her or told her he doesnāt see a future, he will look negative. People will say he lead her on HARD and then broke her heart. After all this is BB and itās a game, you have to do whatever to not come off negative. He obviously doesnāt want the image Paras has.