Originally posted by: jazzy27
Uma, you spoke exactly whatâs on my mind. Iâm embarrassed to admit this, but when I was younger, I had a bad habit of leading men on because I canât say no. I was just very friendly and they used to take it the wrong way. I had rejected so many guys in my friend group that I was scared to reject anymore because I was looking negative and I felt judged by my friends.
So when one of my bestfriends fell badly for me, I didnât know what to do. He was one of my closest friends and if I broke his heart, everyone will think Iâm evil. So I basically manipulated the situation. If he didnât text me for a couple of days, I would accuse him of not being interested in me. I kept making allegations that heâs probably talking to other girls or that heâs not into me, and that HE hurt me, which was not the case. I was looking for an excuse to get away without looking bad in front of my friends. I wanted to look like the victim, not the perpetrator. At the end I told him we donât have a future because he âhurtâ me. For once my friends didnât blame me.
Iâm not saying Sid is not actually in love with Sana, but I DEFINITELY think heâs looking for excuses to get away. Heâs commitment phobic. I got those vibes quite early on from him. He realized Sana was getting too attached and too serious, and heâs not looking for that. Or atleast he might not be looking for that with her. His timepass comment towards Asim regarding himanshi really struck me...
So perhaps it is his âgameâ to come out looking as a victim while avoiding getting serious with Sana by claiming she âhurtâ him for however many reasons. Because if he had just straight up rejected her or told her he doesnât see a future, he will look negative. People will say he lead her on HARD and then broke her heart. After all this is BB and itâs a game, you have to do whatever to not come off negative. He obviously doesnât want the image Paras has.