Originally posted by: Uma2010
I frankly donât understand Siddharth at this point, Meenakshi, except that he seems to be playing an intelligent game. Itâs working for him and I am glad it is. I am not implying Sana is game, coz I would not want to go down that road at all and I trust Siddharth to be a good man with some value system instilled in him inspite of his flirting with ex-es and wannabes. It plain hurts to see him being nonchalant with Mahira.
Sana with Asim is clear. In fact at FW, she even asked Asim to consider her his mother. Paras is an ex at best as much as it was just a week of interactions. An ex leaves one with multiple emotions that one doesnât want to revisit. Coz pain was involved and one has moved on, but one wishes them well. Vishal is a nobody. Itâs all black and white. What is Mahira to Sid? Probably a nobody, but then he needed to draw the line especially after Salman pointed it out too at WKV.
I used to think of him as having a spiritual connect and of late, I see him resisting that. And that is sad, coz he is neglecting the voice within him. Sana has a spiritual connect and she is holding it close which is what is lending her all the positive energy inspite of all the barbs thrown her way.
I know for sure that Sid is not a game for Sana. That one moment after the kiss and hug and her face burning crimson alone is ample proof of her heart. Ofcourse she would like her fairytale of Cinderella winning her prince in the end to be her larger game in life where she gets her prince and he gets the trophy. But Sid is not a game for the trophy for Sana.
I hope she isnât/wasnât the same for him either.
Uma, you spoke exactly whatâs on my mind. Iâm embarrassed to admit this, but when I was younger, I had a bad habit of leading men on because I canât say no. I was just very friendly and they used to take it the wrong way. I had rejected so many guys in my friend group that I was scared to reject anymore because I was looking negative and I felt judged by my friends.
So when one of my bestfriends fell badly for me, I didnât know what to do. He was one of my closest friends and if I broke his heart, everyone will think Iâm evil. So I basically manipulated the situation. If he didnât text me for a couple of days, I would accuse him of not being interested in me. I kept making allegations that heâs probably talking to other girls or that heâs not into me, and that HE hurt me, which was not the case. I was looking for an excuse to get away without looking bad in front of my friends. I wanted to look like the victim, not the perpetrator. At the end I told him we donât have a future because he âhurtâ me. For once my friends didnât blame me.
Iâm not saying Sid is not actually in love with Sana, but I DEFINITELY think heâs looking for excuses to get away. Heâs commitment phobic. I got those vibes quite early on from him. He realized Sana was getting too attached and too serious, and heâs not looking for that. Or atleast he might not be looking for that with her. His timepass comment towards Asim regarding himanshi really struck me...
So perhaps it is his âgameâ to come out looking as a victim while avoiding getting serious with Sana by claiming she âhurtâ him for however many reasons. Because if he had just straight up rejected her or told her he doesnât see a future, he will look negative. People will say he lead her on HARD and then broke her heart. After all this is BB and itâs a game, you have to do whatever to not come off negative. He obviously doesnât want the image Paras has.