I don’t know where this relationship will go. That said, I am very happy today that Sana is trying to live her life in BB house to the fullest she ever can. If Sid will not give her happiness inside the house and gives no commitment for even meeting outside, atleast the channel gives her some smiles via her idol entries. She has been getting to meet her idols and she will never regret not spending time with them like only a fangirl like her can. Kya pata unse milne ke aur chance milenge ki nahi?
Since weeks now, Siddharth knows she is very possessive about him. She even got nearly ostracized as a psycho at the WKV by Salman. She has warned him about Aarti since ever. He is aware she doesn’t like Mahira. Does it make a difference to him? He never stopped his flirting. I won’t call it fake flirting now... why should we cut him slack when it is flirting whether with or without a purpose? He had been pretty inquisitive with Madhu in some of the USUDs. So, he has flirted with every single woman in the house except Koena at one point or the other. Since months. Aggressiveness and flirting are his game strategy since he is excellent at both. Good for him.
If Sana doesn’t know to draw boundary lines from men, Sid is more than pathetic at the same or else we would not have seen a hormone laden almost kiss and hug from Mahira yesterday. We wouldn’t see Aarti trying to attach herself to him every WKV. He gives them the liberties to act so.
Sana has never flirted with anyone inside the house except Sid (and Paras/Dey- Week 1) earlier. Yes, she speaks about Paras multiple times, but she kept running like a broken tape recorder that Siddharth is her everything. Her physical connection has been with Siddharth alone since the past three months. Lekin Siddharth toh mera hai na rings in my ears to this moment each time that girl cries. Even Siddharth’s mother spoke about the golden cage reference to her. She gets Sana. Siddharth doesn’t. Sana does go berserk for two idols about whom she has harped since the beginning of the show. Other celebs have come and gone and she has been normal with all of them. So, it’s not like she doesn’t know how to behave with anyone.
Yes, Sana talks to Rashmi and Asim since they are like a package deal. It hurts Siddharth . For sure. Would he have felt better if she sat with him in their group and spoke to Paras?
So Siddharth for whatever reason chooses to communicate with Sana of late through showing disinterest unless pushed (and then smiles surface) , negative reinforcement of Paras and stray taunts and barbs. Could be his possessiveness and love, but that is not how one returns love to a person who is asking for your Hugs and Kisses. As simple as that. You are supposed to hug and kiss them in return and sit with them and do serous conversation and not an interrogation. Sana does serous conversation when required. You force a conversation. If you want to. Simple.
It’s a clash of patience, lack of strategy and approach and maturity as I see from Siddharth . Not for the game, but for the relationship. For his age, it is pretty dismal. Yes, am talking age coz I am very much around his age. So, I expect him to be mature. He has several many positives, but in terms of relationship maintenance at such a critical stage, I see him jittery. And the girl, trying. And unless he learns to communicate sans sarcasm and innuendo, things shall only regress. Abu was straight- just tell her you love her. For something as simple, Siddharth is fighting with himself and a hoarde of other issues.
Long story short, he needs to spell it out to Sana in solid words if he can’t do this. The channel needs to help him at it. He shouldn’t be kept in pain for whatever pains him. Coz I don’t personally find words like haq hai tujhpar, tu mera sab kuch hai, pyaar hai tujhse and hugs and kisses particularly painful. And if it does, then he needs to find a better way of dealing with it through open communication, not bottling up and erupting in weird fits and spurts.
Sidnaaz as we saw through three months shall always be among my relationship goals- not this phase, but the earlier ones. So, Sidnaaz always, no matter where they go from here.
Agreed. Nothing more to say as you have covered everything excellently.
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